I am losing weight now and getting fit, you are not a late bloomer there is a market for older men, and i notice this too some younger women prefer older men.I was not attractive at 25 and now at 58, I noticed I can make turn some female heads on beach for good reasons…a late bloomer?…
You have 3 types of younger women, the first type is the one that would not date an older man if he was the last man on earth those you see right away, when you look at them they turn their heads and also some of them look frustrated. The second type are the ones that want to try an older man but are not ready to date they heard that sex is better with an older man more experience a lot more sensual than the younger guys who only think about themselves. The third type is the women who want to settle down and want something serious and know they won't get it with the younger men.
I was 44 and we went to belle in boeuf in anjou, that night the waitress came on to me she was 23, we hit it off for 6 months but she wanted kids and since i already lost 2 houses due to separation and did not want to get serious i broke off the whole thing but 23 and still pretty hot.