Clock watching

[The Nature Boy]

What’s your definition of clock watching. If I got 10 min left in session and I ask for a second round and the SP says, “ok, but we got 10 min left.” I don’t consider that clock watching. How many of you fuckers would?

ive heard some ridiculous shit of what some consider clock watching, was just wondering what the consensus is? To me it’s when a SP is repeatedly looking @ her watch to check the time

also, what’s up with these SP’s who just magically know how much time is left in session and never look @ their watch? Is there an internal clock that SP’s develop, much like Kramer on Seinfeld used to wake himself up?

 

[Fradi]

This is kind of tough to answer.

For me when an SP actually tells you that you have ten or 15 minutes left it is time to hit the showers, that is clock watching.
I have a watch I know what time it is and when I should leave.

Then there are the subtle hints 10- 15 minutes before, like is it ok for you to use the same towel as before, or would you like to shower with me, these are actually kind of cute and can be much easier to take.

I find that some of the more mature indys are a lot smarter and use time to their advantage, they never rush you, some even encourage you to have another glass of wine, finish a conversation that was started, these women are smart, they know any extra 5 ten minutes of kindness, will bring repeat customers.

Unfortunately there is a Twitter culture where there is constant bashing of clients for abusing of time and that if they go over 5 or ten minutes they should be compensated, yet these same women are not shy at all in expecting gifts donations towards their vacations and whatever else they can think up etc.. and to be treated like royalty, these same women have no concept whatsoever of what it takes to earn being treated like that.

 

[The Nature Boy]

Interesting, I’m one of those blokes who has no concept of time. Sometimes I lose track of it. I guess that’s why I don’t being fussed being told.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Just my opinion but if a SP is constantly looking at here watch she does not want to be there. I have heard quite alarms just to let her know that someone else will be there soon, that should not be an issue.

 

[envelopes]

if an SP told me no SOG if only 10 minutes left, i think that is 100% reasonable and am ok with it.

but for me, it's not about SOG, it's about looking at the time over and over. if we're in the middle of the action and she goes look at their phone and says "ok 15 min left", "ok 10 min left", "ok 7 min left", that's clock watching.

 

[Frizbee]

Clock watching is getting the guy out before the agreed time. I have had session where I was out the door at 35 minutes. It is useless to complain, I just do not go back.

 

[Julia Sky]

also, what’s up with these SP’s who just magically know how much time is left in session and never look @ their watch? Is there an internal clock that SP’s develop, much like Kramer on Seinfeld used to wake himself up?

Hahahaha... We do have an internal clock, I guess... But also sometimes a girl will ask if you wanna do doggy & then position herself facing a clock somewhere in the room. You might not even notice. That way she gets a short glimpse of the time without having to kill the mood to explicitly check the time, and you most likely won’t even notice

 

[jalimon]

Hahahaha... We do have an internal clock, I guess... But also sometimes a girl will ask if you wanna do doggy & then position herself facing a clock somewhere in the room.

Ha ben batinsse!!! Next time an sp ask me to go doggy I will tell her the time! Can't wait to see her face haha Just kidding

STN nailed it. If the girl constantly look at the clocks ho well I have bad news for you. She wants you out asap... (or her if outcall..). Unless you can turn things around you are stuck in a bad to just fair session at the most.

Cheers,

 

[Stan Smith]

When I go for a cuddling she sets a timer, and when it rings, time is up. She never looks at it, think or talk about time. Mostly sets in case we both fall asleep! Everytime time’s up, she’s as sad if not more sad than me that the session is over...

 

[cloudsurf]

One rule for an agency girl....I ask her to set her alarm for 10 minutes before our time is up. No problem with clock watching.
With Indies I don`t worry about time since usually we go over time by a couple of minutes. Most locations have a clock on the wall anyway.

 

[The Nature Boy]

I knew there was an “internal clock”, I just did! One time I ripped out the alarm clock in the room and threw it in the dresser. I just had to test my theory. This chic came in chit chattted, started making her sexual advances, BBBJ with FS round one, small chit chat about various topics of current and world affairs, round two, and off to shower. I looked @ my mobile, 10 min left in session! She never once looked @ her phone! There sure as hell is an internal clock in SP’s!!!

 

[OnJustALark]

That internal clock theory likely best proven through 'experienced' Ups as opposed to beginners? Like a person training for half or full marathon, they get too "know" what each leg 'feels' like, so maybe a trained SP know how long each portion 'feels' like ... I could be off ... perhaps Julia will striaghten it out!

 

[Halloween Mike]

I always look at the time when i hear the knock on the door, that way i know exactly when my time will be up. Being mostly a one shot guy (unless the chit chat was super short and she got my very exited fast and i came without being able to hold it) i usually manage to finish with way over 15 mins left. Then its a bit of cuddling and/or talk before she goes in the shower by the 6/7 min left mark. But it happen sometimes we chated a bit too much (even after 10 years i still need to correct myself on that departement) and i finish very close to the end. I apreciate an alarm BEFORE time is up, that way i can finish. Happened a few times the alarm would start when i was very close and they always let me finish (took 1-2 mins max)

I know some clients abuse the time, so i don't blame SPs for being "clock watcher". But i also agree with Fradi that if nessessary, an extra 5 mins shouldn't be denied, it can make a big difference into a session for the client. The keyword is not making it a habit and trying your best to stay on time.

At least doing mostly outcalls like i said i know i can start the timer when she knock on the door, and i should have my full hour minus 5 to 7 min for shower time, then its up to her to speed shower if she feel she need to, as for me its no issue at all if she goes over time if needed. I had an indy once who stayed like 15-20 min over time because she had a diner and needed to redo her make up and prepare (we had agreed for a COF finish lol) .

But anyway to go back on topic, i don't really know whats really a "clockwatcher". The real definition would probably be someone looking at the clock often, wich make you feel like she really don't wanna be there. But even myself i look at the clock ocasionally to be sure to know how much time i have left, i try to do it discretly and im sure SPs do the same, but i got "caught" a few times and i caught a few girls too doing it, but like once so its no big deal.

As for cutting time earlier (like having 15 mins left and she want to end it there) thats not clockwatcing thats litteraly stealing time you paid for... And cutting you when your time is up is fair game for her, altough like i said if the guy is wanking super fast and is about to cum, this may not be the best business decision to do it.

 

[Zaarakhan]

yes we do develop an internal clock !!!

 

[kkrack]

If the girl feels good with you, you can usually stay longer agency or not. I remember once staying 2 hours after my time was up. On other occasions I was made leave 10 min before that sucks.

 

[rosedelacourt]

I usually can tell time, but I also have a playlist for each duration of appointment, so when a specific song comes on, it's time for the shower. My suitors are often surprised I have no clock in the bedroom, but I find that men will often look at it more. I find it removes the stress when I handle time and he simply enjoys On tour, I unplug my bedside clock as well. Our job is to handle the logistics, you're here to relax

 

[Julia Sky]

Oh yes I’ve done the playlist trick too haha!

 

[rosedelacourt]

Oh yes I’ve done the playlist trick too haha!

Favourite trick!

 

[CydoniaNights]

I think it’s only fair that the time is « watched » in a time sensitive profession like escorting. They get paid for their time afterall. However I think the problem comes when it is done in a annoying or disrespectful manner. Things like constantly checking the time, asking what time it is can come off as the provider being eager for the session to end, and that just makes your client feel shitty. Even if you do want it to end you need to be discreet because it just isn’t professional. Best thing to do is have an alarm or a reminder like a music playlist that rose mentioned. It comes off way more professional and you put you and your client as ease because you don’t have to worry about what time it is.

 

[Julia Sky]

I feel like an alarm is, to the contrary, not professional. It’s a sure way to get bad reviews from the merb guys at least lol. People generally don’t like alarms. But playlist is a lot more discreet imho

Asking what time it is goes both ways. I’d never ask a client this (I take care of the logistics like Rose mentionned), but then, if I hint that it’s getting near the end example by asking if he’d like a shower, I expect my client to take the hint and not ask me "but what time is it?"... It just makes it uncomfortable for both of us lol