I really enjoyed OP's post, as it read as a stream of consciousness that's both raw and honest.
It was refreshing, since he wasn't trying to suck up to an agency or SP.
OP is clearly a beginner and not a veteran hobbyist. He dipped his toe in the world of strip clubs and escorts, found out what he liked, and didn't like. Then shared his thoughts. I applaud him for doing this.
he raised several valid points - in his opinion, of course. Which I happened to mostly agree.
I think had he tried this 10 years ago, or even 5 years ago, he likely would have had a very different, and imo, more enjoyable experience. Again, for his taste, which I happen to share.
But that's life, nothing ever stays the same. Picking the right timing is crucial, just as in booking your preferred SP.
Looks like some ppl do not agree with his take, which is fine - we all have different reasons for partaking in this hobby. Each is as valid as any other.
What I find amusing, especially as a Gen X, is this incessant need for political correctness, or inclusiveness, to make sure no one is left feeling hurt or god forbid, body shamed, even in an industry that's judged mostly by physical beauty. Even if it wasn't OP's original intent.
Hey, we all like what we like. Nothing wrong with that. It's called a preference.
If you're like me, and you're into young 20-somethings who are in shape without too many tattoos, that's great. But there's some bad news for us: the supply of this type of SPs is decreasing year over year. That's a fact.
On the other hand, if you're into ladies in their 30s, with a few more pounds and inks on them, then you're in luck! You have your pick of the litter from just about any agency on any given day.
As for pricing. I've only dealt with agencies and never with indies over the years. Sure, the going agency rate has gone up, just like everything else in life. But fwiw, I certainly have met my share of DDG women from agencies, and had never felt the need to pay higher indy prices to see them. Actually, I've known several agency girls who went on to become very successful Indys. Good for them!
For my money, I view agencies as the sweet spot between backpages and indys.
But hey, to each his own.
There is no right or wrong taste in women.
Life is short, make the most of it by getting it on more in person, and turning down the volume online.