Do those around you know that you are meeting escorts?

[sene5hos]

I have never talked about this to anyone, it’s nobody’s business anyway. I think there are too many people who are judgemental in life. what goes on in our private lives can remain private if that’s what we choose. I have close friends of 30+ years and I am not sure what I would gain by telling them about this. A lot of my experiences in life has taught me some things are better left unsaid.

I agree with you Nico61

Judgment is still too easy, especially in this area.

Everyone has the right to their secret garden.

Maybe there would be an exception, if my best friend met escorts I think I would appreciate being able to interact with him.

 

[RobertNYC]

I share stories with a few female friends and obviously my guy friends.

My female friends are as intrigued as my guy friends, but more about the business and bookings. They also are more critical of the girls’ looks, but do find some girls more attractive than I do based on photos.

 

[Bbw hunter]

Only a few select friends; the guys I used to go clubbing with. We are horndogs but old dogs now.
As for family or co-workers; absolutely not.
Then again, some of them may be on to me.

 

[VStampede]

Some of my friends know, the same ones with whom I'd go to a strip club with, and I know some of them are into the hobby too so it's no big deal. But I wouldn't share it much further than that.

 

[Robichouuu]

As I said in a earlier post nobody knows, I feel like talking about it and sharing my experiences with friends. I not so confident they would keep their mouth shut so I keep it to myself, would be nice to talk to other about it thou.

 

[spinner addict]

Very intersting topic

I for myself told 3 persons ,

my best friend , only the first time i saw an SP, and never talked about it again with him
my buddy at hockey , because he is very chill and he doesnt know any of my family nor my regular friends
and one of my ex employee, ( he used to see SP's ) LOL

But like others mentionned , people have tedencies of judging so i dont tell anybody nor discuss about it with the ones who knows

 

[TooSexy4MyCat]

Only 2 good buddies know about it. Surprisingly the only buddies I went to strippers with as VStampede mentioned in a previous post. So yeah, I guess my new rule is only talk about this to buddies who I went to strippers with. LOL. No seriously, I feel the society and especially government moralities are too fucking hypocrite about this topic. I would not shy away and stand tall if that was to be "revealed" to my friends, family or even work but I don't want to trouble them if that is not necessary with that morality burden / dilemma or however your want to call it.

 

[djlucky7]

only a handful of coworkers since we get a few sp's when we go to congresses abroad.

 

[jmioffe]

I vowed to keep it to myself. I agree with the remark that friendships change and this information can be used against you. But sometimes, if it's not just outcalls/incalls, these things get to be social. So then I met a few guys at one event, and one of them recognized me in the lunchroom of the giant multinational we both worked for! (Before that, we just told each other that we vaguely worked in computers.)

Since then, more people know, but only those who are part of this world. One of the guys no friends not in the life, so he's always like "you should tell your unhappily married friends about these alternatives" or "there should be a reality show about the P4P life" or "why isn't there a Tindr for P4P" ... and I'm like I think you've lost all notion of the taboo nature of this life, man.

 

[free]

No... nobody knows. I don't even want them to know that I know this forum. Too much scared to be judged. Prefer to keep it secret.

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

With Family that would be a big NO .... I’m very big on privacy because life has taught me that’s it’s not a good idea to open up and leave yourself “vulnerable“.... yes it’s true that sharing with a trusted circle feels good and is unbeatable at times ... that’s where anonymity and MERB comes into play,,, but outside in the real world one must be cautious and keep to himself because trust and loyalty are in short supply and no matter how much life experience one has its difficult to know who are Gold , and who are gold plated ....