Do you get turned off by women that swear a lot?
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BJ without hands, love that!Yes and no. Depends on how it is done.
I got one SP who swears during action: "Ah! Tabarnak!!!"
The first time I asked her if she's ok and I got 2 thumbs up.
I don't care how gorgeous a girl is, displaying a total lack of a filter shows a lack of social awareness. Constant unfiltered swearing, being loud and obnoxious isn't just an instant turnoff. Its embarassing. However, if the girl has vocabulary, her letting out a swear here and there can actually be sexy.
This reminds me of the one time I was stupid enough to pay for a session up front to a lady I had never met but had a few PM with.
Anyway she had problems meeting her rent and I offered to help out. I did not have time that day for more than just meeting her at a sports bar and giving her the donation.
She arrived on time I ordered a drink for her and lunch and a coffee for myself as I had to leave for an appointment in 15 minutes.
I gave her the donation and a couple of passes to Bota Bota so she could relax a bit and take her mind off her problems.
We started talking and this lady was no lady, she was swearing her head off and basically blaming all her troubles on men.
I couldn’t wait to get the hell out of there, we never met after that. Too bad because she was totally hot.
Perhaps in the bedroom it would have been ok but in public I felt like crawling under the table as she was loud and obnoxious and I didn’t need the attention.
Anyway she had problems meeting her rent and I offered to help out. I did not have time that day for more than just meeting her at a sports bar and giving her the donation.
She arrived on time I ordered a drink for her and lunch and a coffee for myself as I had to leave for an appointment in 15 minutes.
I gave her the donation and a couple of passes to Bota Bota so she could relax a bit and take her mind off her problems.
We started talking and this lady was no lady, she was swearing her head off and basically blaming all her troubles on men.
I couldn’t wait to get the hell out of there, we never met after that. Too bad because she was totally hot.
Perhaps in the bedroom it would have been ok but in public I felt like crawling under the table as she was loud and obnoxious and I didn’t need the attention.
No, but to a point. Colourful language can really punctuate things in certain spots but in other instances it is inappropriate. Understand your setting and company, read the room and use proper discretion. Excessive coarseness is a turn off.
What REALLY gets me is when women refer to others as "Bro" or "Dude" and do so unironically. That turns me off 20 times more than swearing.
What REALLY gets me is when women refer to others as "Bro" or "Dude" and do so unironically. That turns me off 20 times more than swearing.
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It doesn't bother me too much in casual conversation as I might drop a soft swear occasionally. During the act? Love it. One of life's great pleasures is when you're fucking and your partner can't maintain their composure and the filter disappears. I like me a long "f-f-f-f-f-fuck" that just falls out of her mouth, along with almost every variation of dirty talk imaginable. Let that nasty girl out lol.
Cursing here are there is fucking hot!!! Cursing every few words is a TOTAL turn off!
It reminds me one time she asked me to tie her hands on her back once.
After I did it, she complained she couldn’t use her hands while blowing.
I told her it wasn’t my problem and we laught..
It was so funny.
Thinking more about this,
I think it depends on your persona, or what in wrestling terms would be "gimmick"
what is gimmick? according to wikipedia, it is "a wrestler's in-ring persona, character, behaviour, attire, and/or other distinguishing traits while performing which are usually artificially created in order to draw fan interest"
are you the upscale princess, girl next door seductress then "no, don't swear a lot"
are you the tatted biker diva, then "obviously yes"
this at least until you know the guy/ are comfortable with him
I think it depends on your persona, or what in wrestling terms would be "gimmick"
what is gimmick? according to wikipedia, it is "a wrestler's in-ring persona, character, behaviour, attire, and/or other distinguishing traits while performing which are usually artificially created in order to draw fan interest"
are you the upscale princess, girl next door seductress then "no, don't swear a lot"
are you the tatted biker diva, then "obviously yes"
this at least until you know the guy/ are comfortable with him
It depends on how she say it. Too aggressive, no. Sensual, yes.
I prefer not so loud moaning or screaming/faking. I actually get turn off and won't repeat.
Ambiance and how SP present does affect my decision making if I wish to go kinky or just casual GFE style.
I prefer not so loud moaning or screaming/faking. I actually get turn off and won't repeat.
Ambiance and how SP present does affect my decision making if I wish to go kinky or just casual GFE style.
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