Does the hobby improve your life or is it just entertainment?

[jalimon]

BBW if you only knew how much you are on target.

At 22 I was so stupid. I refused girl back then because I found they were not for me... I would always find imperfection in them physically... Fuck men I was so stupid now being 49 I so much know how much fun I could have with these girls.... Hot chicks are overrated because they know they are hot and expect more... Listen to me young guys out here go fuck ordinary gnd girls out there while you can because they are the fucking best sex you will have!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Cheers,

 

[613ottawaguy]

What J.A. Prufrock is saying is true but for the wrong reasons! You should not be going to the gym to get girls... Don't think of it that way or have that mindset! You should be going to the gym to keep your body fit and healthy and for longevity! The girls liking you for your fit body should always be a bonus!

Girls do not race, they sit in the finish line and pick the winners!

You're mindset should never be "oh I need to get a shredded physique because she will like me" or " I need to be advancing my career, business ect to make money so that she will admire me".

Never think that way. You should be doing that for yourself! Women will follow in your direction when they see a competent man and a man who is in charge of his life. They want leaders, a man who will take charge and follows his own path. You should be the prize. If you think the other way then women and people in general will not respect you.


@testingsite

I don't think it is healthy for such a young guy like you to be hobbying. This is just my opinion, brother. No offense and I am not trying to be rude. I believe at that age, you should be focusing on improving yourself and going to the gym. Picking up good hobbies, making new friends, working on your confidence. There are lots of ways to meet girls, trust me, if there wasn't, people would not be in relationship these days. I wish you well but don't forget that this is still a service you pay for and the girls may like you or may just be acting to like you because you are a repeat business.

I've read somewhere where Patron wrote that in this hobby, you are getting the best years of her life for a small payment... I wish I could find that thread but he said it really well... I've been reading MERB members for awhile but that guy knows his shit. Back to the topic, I think you may connect with an SP at emotional level, but it will always be with a transaction! You said you have never been in a relationship, so you do not know how it would feel like to have a girlfriend. The feeling of having a girl who will have your back and shares feelings for you is something you have yet to experience!

I got into this hobby because of PSE. I wanted to experience a higher level of porn fucks that regular girls in relationship were not offering or were not interested. At 27 now, I have experienced it all by now and have almost no regrets. But it is nothing like the feeling you get when you have a girlfriend... So I would like to advise younger guys to pursue this matter by being the best version of themselves. If you get hooked on this hobby life, then most of it will be fantasy and the real emotional connections you make with a girl will be lost. I wish you the best.

 

[613ottawaguy]

BBW if you only knew how much you are on target.

At 22 I was so stupid. I refused girl back then because I found they were not for me... I would always find imperfection in them physically... Fuck men I was so stupid now being 49 I so much know how much fun I could have with these girls.... Hot chicks are overrated because they know they are hot and expect more... Listen to me young guys out here go fuck ordinary gnd girls out there while you can because they are the fucking best sex you will have!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Cheers,

Yup, some of the best sex I had were pretty girls but not with banging bodies. It's a stereotype but I feel it to be true.

 

[Fradi]

I don’t agree, there is no difference between hot chicks and ordinary.
If they are into you they will do whatever makes you happy, it may be more difficult to hook up with them but they are no different there is someone with every hot chick why can’t it be you, and btw many men get tired of hot chicks also.

For me it is not entertainment it is exactly what I needed.
I was married to a drop dead gorgeous woman the love of my life for a long time until cancer took her from me.
I was not in a good state for many years, I didn’t really care much about anything except my children.

Then I met this gorgeous and kind escort that I keep talking about, Gabrielle, who basically gave me back what I was missing in life and I have been seeing her ever since.
I see others also but I will never stop seeing her as long as she is active.

 

[613ottawaguy]

Fradi,

Sorry for your loss.

What you say is also true but from my experience I didn't get the same level of dirty fucking from the 10s as I did with 7s.


Also, who is this Gabrielle? Do you have a link? Thank you.

 

[jalimon]

I don’t agree, there is no difference between hot chicks and ordinary.

Fradi the difference is in getting them do the action. There is a fucking huge difference in getting hot chicks versus gnd girl in your bedroom. The thing is once you succeed then there is no much difference. As one amazing girl once told me a dick is a dick. So guys do no think because you are not hot you cannot bang girls. You have a dick so you can!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Fradi]

Fradi,

What you say is also true but from my experience I didn't get the same level of dirty fucking from the 10s as I did with 7s.


Also, who is this Gabrielle? Do you have a link? Thank you.

I don’t really know what you mean by dirty fucking, yes it is much easier to get exactly what you want with an SP, to be honest I haven’t done anything with an SP that I haven’t done with civilian girls and I am not completely without imagination or kinks.

I can tell you one thing , even the best SP will never compare to being with the one you love.

It is Gabrielle Garnier, she advertises almost every day in the independent section of Merb.

 

[Fradi]

Fradi the difference is in getting them do the action. There is a fucking huge difference in getting hot chicks versus gnd girl in your bedroom.

On this we don’t disagree that is what I said also.
Never had issue attracting hot chicks in my youth, most guys are intimidated by them and think they don’t have a chance, not true they want the same things as ordinary girls only it is way easier for them to get it and they have way more to choose from.

I learned this in my early high school days I was nuts about this girl who was the most popular and gorgeous girl around and didn’t approach her for a whole year thinking I had no chance. The following year she approached me and was pissed and asked why I don’t like her. I was never intimidated after that again and I am basically a shy person but I learned early that you make your own luck in life in everything and that includes women.

 

[TreyStylez]

No reason why you cannot enjoy the hobby and meet girls in the "real" world. I used to sometimes hobby during the week but save the weekends for cruising in the clubs. You can have the best of both worlds at your age. Enjoy your youth! Don't get so fucking lazy that you will let life pass you by.

I think bbw sums it up here very well. Very well indeed.

Testingsite, I was also in my twenties when I had my first SP experience, and it changed me for the better, so dont feel bummed out. Its definitely not for everyone but once you don't get sex for a while it can mess with your head, especially during this age when guys are horny as hell. You can waste your days watching porn and jacking off and thinking about your ex, or get an SP and release all that tension and have fun. (in moderation of course).

Although, I believe you shouldnt get lost in it to the point where you stop the gym and get lazy because it will only get worse otherwise. Remember whats real and whats not. Intimacy with a real woman is truly special.
That is why this is a hobby. Keep going out there, meeting people, being social and honestly wonders will happen when you least expect them. Seeing SP's actually made me more confident overall and girls will smell that off you.

I stay socializing and meet women, but not every girl you meet is gf potential or is willing to fuck you. It takes time. You gotta keep a clear head and stay good mentally ! its all about the balance.

And I see a lot of older gentlemen here saying get a gf and all that, so I dont mean to knock any of you off at all, but its just that this new era we're in is crazy. Girls today are not how they were before, times have changed and will keep changing !

I understand relationships arent for everyone, while some would love to be in one, so to each his own. Just remember there's more to life than only sex (although very important!), and dont let your life revolve around it!

Feel free to pm if you got something on your mind !

 

[TreyStylez]

And as Jalimon and 613ottawaguy said I do agree that the real emotional connections is key and dont think you cant get girls ! And getting that regular girl in your bed is actually quite rewarding, like a sense of accomplishment, a trophy even. Hobbying once in a while and use what you learn with her on a real girl and she'll be ecstatic, which will make you feel great and build you up.

 

[hungry101]

You are a breath of fresh air here Trey. Keep living and see escorts in moderation. Also, use this time to work on your game. Maybe you can ask, is there anything I could of done better? Pour her a drink and try to talk with her. I've learned ton about life this way - through serendipity.

 

[RoyDeMeo]

I agree that, I should go to the gym regularly and go out more often to see non-SPs. But, I am just lazy, do not know how I became like that. Anyway, I will take your advice and will try to get back to the gym again.

some girls at your age dont put out much or you have to play games n learn the game of seduction. Calling SP is like a cheat code to not waste time with the BS but you get too lazy u lose your game completely lol... learn to do both to keep a good balance p.s. calling SPs helps you become better in bed, practice n all n use that to your advantage you will fuck better than the civilian guys who hasnt had as much sex as you have

 

[RomSh85]

Definitely! You are more effective if you work 8 to 10 hours, 5 days a week, allow yourself some time for entertainment (hobbies), and get a good nights rest then you would be if all you did was eat, sleep, and work.

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[jalimon]

Calling SP is like a cheat code to not waste time with the BS but you get too lazy u lose your game completely lol...

I do not believe that at all. First it's not really a game. And no way you will loose it by seeing SP. You can only improve it actually because you are not so desperate and afraid of rejection. Which is number 1 criteria to score a girl

 

[2fast2slow]

I do not believe that at all. First it's not really a game. And no way you will loose it by seeing SP. You can only improve it actually because you are not so desperate and afraid of rejection. Which is number 1 criteria to score a girl

i wholeheartly agree

 

[James Mason]

Why can't it be both entertainment and relaxation to enhance your life.

 

[Bbw hunter]

Didn’t you just lead the poor guy straight into the oldest honey trap in the world? Keep doing more and more for her, and she will provide a little more and better sex. Doesn’t that keep going, with the cost being higher over time as he earns more, with her having the ability to cut him off if she is displeased about anything. Doesn’t seeing sex workers give him an element of independence and control and balance over that potentially unfair system? A guy can do both quite successfully.

Once again Patron you are dead on. The only cheat code here is that seeing sps can sometimes give a guy a way of getting around the games and manipulations sometimes imposed upon us by civilian women. To hell with the honey trap...a younger man can see sps and still try to score chicks in the real world.

 

[hungry101]

All forms of entertainment improve your life. This is with moderation of course.

What would life be like without our hobbies? We ski, fish, canoe, camp, hunt, gold, play pickle ball, cards, softball, read, jog, ride the Peloton, clog dance, etc.

So I say both.

 

[jalimon]

gold

gold? haha By the way I played 99 at gold last week-end. Was pretty happy about that! Especially since it's all my shot. You see most guys cheat at golf the exact same way when they write how many times they made the SP cum... Why?

Cheers,

 

[hungry101]

gold? haha

Golf! Damn it! Fat fingered the keyboard again.

Coming back from an injury. Not playing so well lately.