Etiquette for asking SPs if you can review them

[Rinzler]

But the goal isn't reviews that are play-by-play/spankbank material... it's to know if the provider is legit and provides an experience as advertised and promised.

what i wrote:

the review doesnt need to be a retelling of everything that went on but if the review cant confirm that the basic GFE elements were present

for example

"i met rose recently and had a great time. she looks just as good as her pictures, good conversation, great session with all the usual GFE elements (DFK, BBBJ, DATY, FS with MPOS). CIM was offered but as she explained to me it's very YMMV. the hour flew by and i hope to see her soon. highly recommended"

what's wrong with that?

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

^^
Very true Rinzler , unfortunately cliques will always exist so these boards are no different . We have some know it all giddy posters here that are very “selective “ when giving out information. Some are on a power trip unfortunately when helping out some members and using that to gain favours with the girls and plenty of “ brownie points “ ...

Now I know it takes more effort via PM’s but eventually everyone gets their questions answered . In the end if that’s what it takes to keep some providers happy then I personally don’t have a problem with that and I shall respect their wishes to keep some things private

 

[The Nature Boy]

I kinda got the vibe everything was PM mostly these days because a lot of guys didn’t want to share info about girls cause they didn’t want them to get booked. Not sure it has anything to do with being respectful to a girls wishes.

 

[rosedelacourt]

what i wrote:



for example

"i met rose recently and had a great time. she looks just as good as her pictures, good conversation, great session with all the usual GFE elements (DFK, BBBJ, DATY, FS with MPOS). CIM was offered but as she explained to me it's very YMMV. the hour flew by and i hope to see her soon. highly recommended"

what's wrong with that?

This isn't an inappropriate review at all. Personally I strive to provide something intimate & personal and I do prefer to keep details private. Call me a hopeless romantic..

 

[charmer_]

I'm sorry but everything in a session is subjective. Yes certain ''services'' are to be expected but if the guy isn't respectful or nice, he's not getting the full experience. Our ''performance'' depends on clients' manners. The fact that ''BBBJ'' isn't explicitly written doesn't mean it's CBJ. But if you are shaved, clean and a gentleman you have way way better chances of getting it.

This should be a no-brainer though, and should not be a reason why reviewers should not include acronyms. It's always a YMMV situation, but if the acronyms are clearly listed, at least a potential clients knows it may be possible. It should be up to the reviewer to decide what he wants to put in his review. As long as it's done with respect to the SP, I don't see the problem.

Conversely gents should have the common sense to not list certain perks he may be getting from a given SP that she normally doesn't provide. Especially if he wants to still be in her favour, and continue getting those perks.

 

[Stephen500]

Great thread, great discussion.

 

[hungry101]

If you've been around for awhile, PMs are great. However, I get some strange PMs from people with no or very few posts. Most of the time I just delete them. I think back channels are great once you have established yourself and helped the community.

Everyone has their own review style. After awhile you get a feel for how to write them. Many times, for me, they are like a technical report of how to go and hobby in a new locality. I leave notes in them of what I learned and if I go back there a year or two later I read them in order to prepare for my trip. I don't like anyone telling me how to write my reviews but I don't mind, as a courtesy, saying to a girl like Rose, thank you for that outstanding experience. I am excited to write a good review. Is there anything that you would like obfuscated? Of course her personal life is off limits. That is obviously going to be obfuscated and no one has to tell me this but I am talking more about the session. Some girls tell me that they love to read them and can't wait to read the sordid details. Some girls tell me that to leave out this or that or no acronyms. Once you ask ,you are a bit obligated to follow through on her wishes but I think the no-acronyms girl got short changed. she was one of the best I've ever seen anywhere...but I digress.

And yes, I'm usually liquored up or maybe I just pulled an all-nighter and I'm going to write a review, have breakfast and hit the sack. These are times I'm inspired and living in the afterglow of a great girl or 4. I want to get my feelings and emotion into that report for posterity. I want to entertain and mostly it is me that I am entertaining. A review can be an extension of that date and make it live in my memory for a lifetime. Yes, I go back and read mine every once in awhile. If if that's not a purpose of a review then you can put old Hungry on ignore.

There are many purposes for a review.

 

[Fradi]

^^^^

Like you said we each have our own style and I enjoy reading your reviews they are most often not only informative but interesting, it is good to read about different cultures and how girls are and what the escorting scene is like in other parts of the world.

For my part I have a different style, I write the way I talk and the way I am, I believe I can describe what it was like to be with a particular woman without the acronyms and sordid details and I think people will get whether or not she is worth seeing.

It is not because I am a prude or find anything wrong with more explicit reviews, I spent have my life in locker rooms so I don’t think there is anything I haven’t heard or said, it is just not the way I am with women, so I don’t write that way.

 

[Vicky Lopez]

Someone who treats me right will get way more out of a session than someone who shows up with a grocery list of acronyms. Reviews are made so people know if the girl is legit, looks like her pics and provides a good experience. It's not supposed to be a play by play of an intimate session... IMO again xx

Agree. This is it in a nutshell.

 

[hungry101]

No one shows up with a grocery list of acronyms (at least I hope not). Things are supposed to flow. It should start with a glass of wine and conversation and it should feel real to some extent. I love when the date blurs the lines of reality...I think I only did COF once because I wouldn't or never have done that with a real GF....but if you do not somehow communicate to the reader the services that you received then the review is little more than useless. Some reviews sound like the marketing off the agency/indy web site...you know, the pull down menu in between the photos and the price (donation) that we seldom read. Those are not reviews. This is a review board!

 

[Flyingby]

Good to know.
Thanks Hanna and Rose
But dosen't that open the door to disappointment? I don’t mean having a list like daty. Digits
But dfk is a big one for a lot of guys. greek are cim are other major ones
So if you show up. Did not ask. And definitely not an offering. And I don’t mean ymmv. Risks or a disappointing meeting are higher

 

[rosedelacourt]

Good to know.
Thanks Hanna and Rose
But dosen't that open the door to disappointment? I don’t mean having a list like daty. Digits
But dfk is a big one for a lot of guys. greek are cim are other major ones
So if you show up. Did not ask. And definitely not an offering. And I don’t mean ymmv. Risks or a disappointing meeting are higher

I love French kissing, but for many clients DFK is literally sticking their tongue down my throat. I like digits but sometimes clients don't cut their nails. I love love DATY but sometimes clients are rough and won't take my feedback... The reality is, even if I do offer those services, I keep the right to refuse them to the person I'm with if I don't feel comfortable providing them. I am not a doll, I am a human being. I thrive to provide those services to everybody but I'd rather say YMMV then say YES and then people be disappointed. The reality is, what you give is what you get. Someone who contacts me in a polite manner, shows up on time, takes a real shower and respects my feedback will get a hell of a better time than someone who shows up entitled. The idea is not to rob you of services, but simply have a good time as well.

 

[rosedelacourt]

Good to know.
Thanks Hanna and Rose
But dosen't that open the door to disappointment? I don’t mean having a list like daty. Digits
But dfk is a big one for a lot of guys. greek are cim are other major ones
So if you show up. Did not ask. And definitely not an offering. And I don’t mean ymmv. Risks or a disappointing meeting are higher

Also, some services (if a deal breaker) that are ''outside the box'' such as greek & cim should definitely be discussed prior. But everything that GFE normally includes (LFK, DFK, DATY, digits, BBBJ, CFS) is ''predetermined'' when one advertises as GFE provider. IMO.

 

[hungry101]

I am not a doll,

Oh contrair bella. I've been creeping on your Twitter photos. I'd say you sure are a doll!!!:fat:

 

[rosedelacourt]

Oh contrair bella. I've been creeping on your Twitter photos. I'd say you sure are a doll!!!:fat:

haha Hungry love it!!!! Sweet talking your way out of the debate

 

[Iceman71]

Personally when I do a review I prefer not going into details and acronyms because there is always a ymmv component with this hobby and I always keep in mind that I can receive some mileage that someone else might not and the same can happen to me (I'm ok looking but no Brad Pitt) with some girls that gave better mileage To someone else but not me.

That's why I always talk about the general experience instead of the specific services and acronyms. That's my personal perspective on the matter because an sp is entitled To have Her own preference and give better service to certain people and I feel that they should not be overly exposed for a special treatment that might not be available for someone else. The same applies to each and everyone of us because everybody has preferred clients at their job it's the nature of a human being.

An sp has to totally give herself with her intimacy in order to do this line of work and yeah I can respect an sp right to keep certain "services" to preferred clients if her overall reviews states that she is full GFE.That's my own perspective on this issue but I also respect the opinion that this board is To help us get informed on the services but then again a positive review without acronyms is still saying something about the quality of an sp, that's my two cents.

 

[Iceman71]

I also forgot to mention that I had so so encounters with some sp's with great reviews and acronyms all cross the board. I had some encounters with little to no LFK or DFK that was overly available To someone else. Also, I keep in mind that some reviewers tend To exagerate the level of services really received during an encounter for obvious egotistical issues. Even with acronyms, an exagerated review won't give a full picture of what To expect during an encounter when you meet an sp for the first time and part of the journey is To experience it for yourself.