With this post and thread I want to offer the etiquette for clients who meet SPs. Post your suggestions and it would be cool if it remained as a sticky.
* Making an appointment:
Do research by reading the spreadsheet located at http://www.sexwork.com/montreal/spreadsheet.html as well as reviews on boards like this one. The idea is that this way you shouldn’t be scammed or fall on a lady that doesn’t meet your requirements in terms of service or appearance;
Don’t send rude, obnoxious detailed emails to SPs, they are deleted and not returned. Be polite if you contact them by phone, your conversation is like an interview. Make your inquiries through backchannels whenever possible. You may ask about a SP's services if you know beforehand that this agency is okay with it. That’s what research is for;
If you have certain preferences (schoolgirl fantasy, stockings, pigtails, thong, etc.), mention this when booking, especially in advance;
Give your address or hotel info as well as a phone number where you can be reached should there be a last minute problem;
* The date:
Tidy up your apartment or hotel room to make a good first impression;
Turn the porch light on so that she can easily find the house;
Dress up. You don’t need a suit but don’t look like a slob;
Take a shower before she arrives and make sure you smell nice all over. Brush your teeth and trim your nails;
Place your gift in an unsealed envelope, in a place where she'll notice it. Don't count it out, show her where it is and go wash your hands;
Be considerate and don’t ask questions that are too personal or possibly embarrassing like how much money she makes. Escorts are women and they should be treated like women;
If the escort is more than half an hour late, call her or the agency to check on her status;
Offer refreshments and possibly snacks as well. It breaks the ice and alcohol can loosen the both of you up;
* Afterwards:
If you meet the lady at some future time on the street, you may smile politely, like you would any other woman, but don’t approach her as it could blow her cover with her friends and family. Let her make the first move;
Don’t call out her name for the same reason, it's most likely not her real name anyway.
* Making an appointment:
Do research by reading the spreadsheet located at http://www.sexwork.com/montreal/spreadsheet.html as well as reviews on boards like this one. The idea is that this way you shouldn’t be scammed or fall on a lady that doesn’t meet your requirements in terms of service or appearance;
Don’t send rude, obnoxious detailed emails to SPs, they are deleted and not returned. Be polite if you contact them by phone, your conversation is like an interview. Make your inquiries through backchannels whenever possible. You may ask about a SP's services if you know beforehand that this agency is okay with it. That’s what research is for;
If you have certain preferences (schoolgirl fantasy, stockings, pigtails, thong, etc.), mention this when booking, especially in advance;
Give your address or hotel info as well as a phone number where you can be reached should there be a last minute problem;
* The date:
Tidy up your apartment or hotel room to make a good first impression;
Turn the porch light on so that she can easily find the house;
Dress up. You don’t need a suit but don’t look like a slob;
Take a shower before she arrives and make sure you smell nice all over. Brush your teeth and trim your nails;
Place your gift in an unsealed envelope, in a place where she'll notice it. Don't count it out, show her where it is and go wash your hands;
Be considerate and don’t ask questions that are too personal or possibly embarrassing like how much money she makes. Escorts are women and they should be treated like women;
If the escort is more than half an hour late, call her or the agency to check on her status;
Offer refreshments and possibly snacks as well. It breaks the ice and alcohol can loosen the both of you up;
* Afterwards:
If you meet the lady at some future time on the street, you may smile politely, like you would any other woman, but don’t approach her as it could blow her cover with her friends and family. Let her make the first move;
Don’t call out her name for the same reason, it's most likely not her real name anyway.
