Cosmo and HornyAnglo,
I neither wrote nor suggested that you nor any other common men should feel guilty. I doubt that you are in charge of the foreign policy of the US and conduct it in the interest of the contributors to your campaigns, among them the oil companies and arms merchants, rather than the common people.
The dictators, often installed and supported by the West (e.g. Saddam Hussein), have weapons, surveillance equipment and soldiers so rising up against them is usually futile and can be fatal.
Of course, poor countries make lots of mistakes without our assistance.
I am hardly the one to defend terrorists as some of my relatives were killed by them. However, why is someone who pushes a button killing hundreds from the security of a plane flying at 60000 feet a respected soldier and a suicide bomber sub-human?