Falling in love with your SP/MP
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You have it all wrong, she is just building a nest egg for their future.
It is just work. What is so wrong with money for sex don’t you buy other things you totally enjoy.
There is nothing wrong with it, I never said that.
I buy sex for money, same thing at the end of the day, a market requires both a buyer and a seller.
In fact, I have a lot of respect for SPs, it's a tough job.
I'm happy to fuck them, be friends (sometimes with benefits.. lol) with them, hang out with them.
I just wouldn't date one, not even a former one.
Fradi is absolutely right. One cannot really say a lady who escorts cannot be trusted. Women who do this work do not do it in order to have sex with strangers, they do it to make a living, especially if she is single. Now if she is in a relationship and doing this behind her partner's back that is a different story altogether. And pretty much the same for the men who partake in this activity. If i were to guess i would say most men that partake are most likely not single and therefore more not to be trusted than the ladies.
OP. Just go for it.
why are you asking us anyway? You need the opinion of a bunch of guys you don’t know.
in the back of your mind you are saying we are all wrong anyway and that it could work for you.
.In a month, let us know how quickly the plane crashed
why are you asking us anyway? You need the opinion of a bunch of guys you don’t know.
in the back of your mind you are saying we are all wrong anyway and that it could work for you.
.In a month, let us know how quickly the plane crashed
Obviously you didn't get the joke, Captain Serious.
It's the same for guys who see escorts. Just because they pay for sex doesn't mean they cannot be trusted.
Not exactly the same. If you pay for sex behind your partner's back then one could easily conclude that you cannot be trusted. If your're single then you can't really come to that conclusion. And I do get the joke.Obviously you didn't get the joke, Captain Serious.
It's the same for guys who see escorts. Just because they pay for sex doesn't mean they cannot be trusted.
I know SPs who are doing this job without their partner knowing. Same thing, no?
Yup same thing... I said that in my original post. A lot of these women are single though or not in any serious relationships whereas I think most of the men who partake are attached. Thats my point.
So, conclusion, there isn't really much of a difference between SPs and Johns after all.
So far I have been kidding around but in all honesty if I was 30 years younger there is one SP I would never let go of.
She is an amazing person, I hope she will find someone close to her age one day who she will have a life with like I had, she deserves nothing less.
No I am not in love just very lucky to have her in my life and to be able to spend time with her.
She is an amazing person, I hope she will find someone close to her age one day who she will have a life with like I had, she deserves nothing less.
No I am not in love just very lucky to have her in my life and to be able to spend time with her.
Are you pretending that you understand love? Do you think there is only one type of profile that should be loved? Do you believe that love is only textbook love, or Disney kinda of love??
The first principle for love is not unrealistic perceptions and fake ideas. It is when certain needs or desires on the psychological level are fulfilled. Sex is simply a manifestation of those, it is wrong to assume it as the principle motivator. An SP is a woman, who provide a man with those requirements. Trust is necessary to build a long term relationship, but not for love. Love can be many things. It can be simply intense lust, or an admiration of a certain beauty, a memory of the past, etc...
As for trusting an SP, my personal opinion is that if she does fall in love, an SP is more thrustworthy regarding other sexual encounters than a non SP. In fact, more often than not, they have been there and have tried that, and sex to them is less mysterious than for others. Plus she will train you well to satisfy her, if monogamy is agreed on.
Personal experience speaking. Happened to me on the third SP I saw. This was in 2004/2005. Whole dynamics changed and not for the better in anyway.
Simply put say she goes by Amanda as an SP and her real name is Elena. Once you see more of Elena than Amanda the whole thing collapses real quick.
For me once the SP lets me know her real name, it's O-V-E-R. It is going to be shit afterwards.
This hobby is about that "ideal" girl and the SP that personifies and projects what this "ideal" girl is. Well our version of what that "ideal" girl is with sensuality and guaranteed knock your socks off double monkey backflips thrown in. Once that is gone nothing but disappointment and that is not how I want to remember an amazing SP that has entered my life.
Simply put say she goes by Amanda as an SP and her real name is Elena. Once you see more of Elena than Amanda the whole thing collapses real quick.
For me once the SP lets me know her real name, it's O-V-E-R. It is going to be shit afterwards.
This hobby is about that "ideal" girl and the SP that personifies and projects what this "ideal" girl is. Well our version of what that "ideal" girl is with sensuality and guaranteed knock your socks off double monkey backflips thrown in. Once that is gone nothing but disappointment and that is not how I want to remember an amazing SP that has entered my life.
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You do not have respect for us. Saying "I have a lot of respect" doesn't magically make it a true statement. Saying "these girls are not to be trusted" is not a sign of respect. Saying "...wouldn't even date a former one" shows your whorephobia/slutshaming tendencies at it's finest. Acting like we're nothing but whores and don't deserve love in our lives - that is NOT what having a lot of respect for someone or a group of people looks like. Check your own bias.
EDIT : but I'll admit, while I'm not impressed; I'm definitely not surprised. Coming from someone who would write "she's a perfect cum dumpster" in a review, you know, makes sense.
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I never said this.
I’m talking purely about my personal preferences in regards to a potential dating partner. That is my personal choice and no one is entitled to my affection, no matter what group they are from.
What you need to check is your own tolerance level and tendency to judge people based on what their dating preferences are.
Don't worry, I'm pretty sure nobody here feels entitled to your attention. Now you're just gaslighting
You said, and I quote :
Why would a guy fall in love with an SP who has sex for money?
I hope they are smarter than that, she is obviously not to be trusted.
This does not sound like just voicing a personal preference (and by the way preferences can definitely be rooted in prejudice). It sounds like... like exactly what it sounds like. Judgement and assumptions. Lol.
You said, and I quote :
Why would a guy fall in love with an SP who has sex for money?
I hope they are smarter than that, she is obviously not to be trusted.
This does not sound like just voicing a personal preference (and by the way preferences can definitely be rooted in prejudice). It sounds like... like exactly what it sounds like. Judgement and assumptions. Lol.
It happens more often than you think, is that an erotic masseuse has already told me, and it has happened to her sometimes.
I think guys who fall in love with their SP, would fall in love with a woman to take care of them. They forget that they sleep with all the guys who pay for her services.
I think these guys are emotional addicts.
I think guys who fall in love with their SP, would fall in love with a woman to take care of them. They forget that they sleep with all the guys who pay for her services.
I think these guys are emotional addicts.
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