I'm moving on. Back on topic.
I think if you're a guy in this situation, you should first
honestly evaluate yourself and which category you fall into.
This will sound tough, sometimes things are when you're really honest with yourself.
- Unavailable for dating, i.e. you're married, in a serious relationship or something.
Move on. Unless you're willing to risk it all and blow up your marriage, existing relationship, etc... In that case, see below.
- Willing to date, but unable to.
If you fall in this category, you should realize that you're (most likely) dealing with a super hot girl who could go out to a bar or make a Tinder profile and have a bunch of guys lining up, begging for her attention, in a matter of hours. Why should that SP suddenly decide to start dating some leftover dude who wouldn't even have sex, or maybe like once a year, if it weren't for SPs? Because she takes pity on him? Because she's the one who finally realizes what a nice guy he is? That sort of thing literally never happens. Honestly, forget about it ever becoming anything serious and just enjoy that someone you're paying for is making you feel in a way that no woman is willing to do for free.
- Unwilling to date, but able to.
Now if you know how the game works but for whatever reason made a decision for yourself not to date anyone and/or avoid the drama that tends to come with one night stands, then this
might be a scenario where it could
potentially work out. But if you made this kind of conscious decision to stay away from dating, how quickly are you willing to overthrow that and change your mind? Was it love at first fuck? Ok, let's be real, if that's the case it's more likely that you're a type of guy who is actually willing to date, but unable to. If you are really this type of guy who doesn't want to date anyone, you don't have to do anything, just go about your daily life.
She has to change
your mind about dating if she's really interested in you.
- Willing and able to date.
If you're this type of guy, just go out and find a civilian with the same frame of mind! There are a huge amount of women out there who are complaining all the time that they never meet any guys who are available for a relationship. Do them a favor and make yourself available.