For the love of Christ, I'm glad I'm not an SP

[CrimsonGhost]

Just baffled by some reviews. This is a rant and my opinion so take it as it is. Just can't wrap my head around it.

Having been with a bunch of providers, many reviewed, I'm just blown away by the audacity. There's no fucking way someone is that bad lol.

Have you ever stopped to think, look in the mirror and ask yourself "Is it me?, am I asking too much?, do I have bad hygiene?" Etc.

These reviews are atrocious and I'm not picking just one. I know beauty is subjective to each person but goddamn people lol. Have somewhat of a conscience when you're literally talking about a person with feelings, a life and a heart.

The pettiness and pickiness for something that's around 300 an hour is seriously sad. You're literally fucking another humans body to get yourself off and acting like it's a Fleshlight.

Ask them what they'd like to drink, plan your time, clean your ass and balls, freshen your breath, be aware of yourself. Seduce them and try to make they're time enjoyable as well and I PROMISE your 6/10 could be a 10/10. I've never once had a bad time EVER.

Talk about your hobbies, compliment them, women are more emotion based and don't get off the same way you do. They love warmth, kindness, sweetness, caring, feeling welcome and safe etc. Men are very different and more visually driven. Make them laugh #1 way to get a girl turned on, see them as your equal, which you should anyways if you were raised right.

Of course their are outliers and bad or awkward situations or you just don't click but you people, If I listened to all your reviews and didn't try for myself, I'd have never been with some of the best SP's I've ever been with.

I mean literally 10/10 girls getting shit on by guys who wouldn't be able to pick them up without a hundred dollar bill hanging out their zipper, of this offends you, good, be a man and do better. If you agree, amazing, I know 90% of you are great but fuck me lol.

Again personal opinion, take it or leave it, just needed to rant.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

 

[LC18]

Have you ever stopped to think, look in the mirror and ask yourself "Is it me?, am I asking too much?, do I have bad hygiene?" Etc.

I think about that anytime I read “she didn’t want to kiss me” “she wasn’t reactive” “she was boring”

Maybe it’s true…maybe it was the client’s fault…

 

[CrimsonGhost]

I think about that anytime I read “she didn’t want to kiss me” “she wasn’t reactive” “she was boring”

Maybe it’s true…maybe it was the client’s fault…

All the ownness seems to be on the provider, you never see really see a post in reflection. A man should be able to look in the mirror and say "Hey, you know what, maybe I can do better and better".

Maybe try to see the provider as a human being doing a seriously hard fucking job lol. Yes it pays well, but it's not always constant clientele and they have to put up with a lot of anxiety and crazy shit, it's not for the feint of heart.

Maybe she wasn't reactive because I was low energy and shouldn't have had a provider that night, maybe I should try to see them after I work on myself a bit and jerk off for a few weeks lol.

Guys, please see it as a date and not so transactional and I promise you it'll go way better. I see comments like she counted the money before she left, well no shit and who cares, what a non issue. If someone pays me cash for my service, I count it too.

Providers aren't expensive on top of that, I have a wife and a fucking girlfriend and kids. Now that's fucking expensive lol

 

[LC18]

Providers aren't expensive on top of that, I have a wife and a fucking girlfriend and kids. Now that's fucking expensive lol

A wife and a girlfriend? That sounds very taxing mentally and financially

 

[CrimsonGhost]

A wife and a girlfriend? That sounds very taxing mentally and financially

I can't get enough, I'm never satisfied love wise. I was born to make people happy, laugh, be a shoulder, take pain away etc. I just can't love human kind enough. But yes financially, fucking hell lol. I work my ass off! SP's are a new lease on life, a fucking great time, a way to escape my thoughts and be with a beautiful person willing to connect right away. I have so much love left in me to give.

 

[LookAlike]

I can't get enough, I'm never satisfied love wise. I was born to make people happy, laugh, be a shoulder, take pain away etc. I just can't love human kind enough. But yes financially, fucking hell lol. I work my ass off! SP's are a new lease on life, a fucking great time, a way to escape my thoughts and be with a beautiful person willing to connect right away. I have so much love left in me to give.

A wife, a girlfriend, kids, and on top of that SP’s are a new lease on life ? Impressive.

 

[CrimsonGhost]

A wife, a girlfriend, kids, and on top of that SP’s are a new lease on life ? Impressive.

I never stop lol. I almost died a few years ago and since then I just can't get enough of life. Love, connections, laughter are all that matters. Life is way way way too short.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

 

[talkinghead]

Also: for the love of Christ, I'm glad I'm not one of those resentful, bitter, hate-filled, self-loathing, hostile, nasty, misogynistic, shallow, mean-spirited, angry, ignorant, cowardly, petty, despicable men who write unnecessarily hurtful and personally malicious reviews.

 

[Halloween Mike]

All the ownness seems to be on the provider, you never see really see a post in reflection. A man should be able to look in the mirror and say "Hey, you know what, maybe I can do better and better".

Maybe try to see the provider as a human being doing a seriously hard fucking job lol. Yes it pays well, but it's not always constant clientele and they have to put up with a lot of anxiety and crazy shit, it's not for the feint of heart.

Providers aren't expensive on top of that, I have a wife and a fucking girlfriend and kids. Now that's fucking expensive lol

Mmmmm ok well i can understand part of where you coming from. Yes i did seen some very "trash" reviews in my years on this board and some peoples having no concern what so ever and reviewing like they would review a product made in China. I never been one to like giving numbers on physical appearence for instance because 1 it varies from one guy to another and secondly it can be hurtful. I give numeral values to movies i review and a 6 out of 10 is not really a great score, its "barely above average", its a movie i did find glimpses of fun in but that had several issues. So if someone receive a 6 out of 10 for face or body, i totally get how hurtful it may be. So personally the only times i use numerals in my SPs reviews was playfully say "10 out of 10" as for me she was pefect.

That said, i want you to understand something. Sure every client is different. You say you have both a wife and a girlfriend (maybe mistress would had been a better term here? unless wife knows about it), anyway my point is you may not have issues scoring. Thats great for you. We ain't all like that. Outside of a couple girlfriends when i was a teenager, i never was in a relationship. I am not a person you can consider "attractive", and even when i looked way better (some period i lost a lot of weight) i was still shy with women/fearful of rejection and i never actively tried to meet peoples. Im a loner in life to begin with. I am in contact (as in talk to, engage, not just cross path) with about 10 persons in an usual week and these are the same peoples more often than not.

Im not gonna pretend if i was a fairly ok average joe that still get girlfriends/relationships that i would had never dip in this hobby, but a huge part of why i became interested so much in the sex industry (first porn, then strippers and finally escortings) was that it was for me the only way to experience women. So yes when i meet a new provider im always a little shy, i may come up as reserved, and of course my look may not be the most inspiring ones. But thats who i am and why i meet providers. I try to be the nicest i can and do "my best" but there will always be cases of certain ones maybe finding me unatractive and this may affect services, or maybe they are shy themselves and it can make the meeting appear to be "disinterested" or something.

My point is that i feel to work in this field, you need more than just a great body, pretty face, and know how to work a sausage... Think of it like being a car seller, you can know cars like no one else, but if you not a great seller (attitude wise), you won't do great numbers. You need that "entregens", that friendly attitude, that "making peoples at ease" and i think its very important for a SP.

I do think some women are simply not suited for this job, even if they are pretty. And its ok to point out that a service may had been disapointing in a place like here. You say we should look at ourself and introspect? Sure ... But im already aware im not a stud. And if technically yes i could improve myself by spending 2h a day in the gym and yada yada, its not everyone that want to do that. So like i said ill be as nice as i can and do my best to make her at ease, and sure 80% of my meetings been "good to awesome", but it happened i had some that were very underwhelming. And sometimes i do notice the effort made by the SP but we didn't click, wich is fine, but other time i can see she simply made no effort and didn't care... There is even a few meetings i will admit i notice a very cold attitude from the start and the smart thing would had been to cancel, but i didn't either because she was hot physically or mostly because it would had been too much of a hassle in logistic to gear on plan B... I did try to make the best out of these meetings and tell me "at least im banging a super hot chick" but my review will still be honest on how it felt.

Anyway. I am not in the pants of other dudes. And i do believe the SPs when they say they get guys that are dirty, rude, weird, but its not always on the client either.

Oh, almost forgot. Whats not expensive for you may be for someone else and vice versa. Again like all the rest, we ain't all in the same financial situation. Your thread was made with good intention im sure, but i feel it focussed too much from your own point of view and not enough from others.

 

[MCTJ]

My point is that i feel to work in this field, you need more than just a great body, pretty face, and know how to work a sausage... Think of it like being a car seller, you can know cars like no one else, but if you not a great seller (attitude wise), you won't do great numbers. You need that "entregens", that friendly attitude, that "making peoples at ease" and i think its very important for a SP.

They hate it when we make analogies, but that's pretty much the most accurate one I have seen. The sad reality behind that, though, is that some escorts are there due to difficult (desperate?) life circumstances. Hence why they may not be at the top of their game sales-wise.

 

[TheJames101]

This hobby often deludes guys into thinking they're studs. It's the continuation of the childhood superhero fantasy.

 

[LC18]

It’s ok to say a SP wasn’t pretty in your standards but some men will write reviews and say “that was the ugliest woman I’ve ever seen in my life” “body is nice but her face is super ugly, wish I could have covered it” “only good for doggy because she’s so ugly”

Think a little, that woman might read those lines and imagine how she’ll feel…

 

[MCTJ]

This hobby often deludes guys into thinking they're studs. It's the continuation of the childhood superhero fantasy.

I'd be curious to know if narcissists are over-represented in the escort client population. I'm not able to make an educated guess.

 

[MCTJ]

It’s ok to say a SP wasn’t pretty in your standards but some men will write reviews and say “that was the ugliest woman I’ve ever seen in my life” “body is nice but her face is super ugly, wish I could have covered it” “only good for doggy because she’s so ugly”

Think a little, that woman might read those lines and imagine how she’ll feel…

Careful with exaggeration please... I've never seen anything this bad here in several years and I would report it if I did.

 

[LC18]

Careful with exaggeration please... I've never seen anything this bad here in several years and I would report it if I did.

I have, I use about 3 review websites and people on terb are particularly verbally violent

 

[LC18]

From merb

 

[MCTJ]

I have, I use about 3 review websites and people on terb are particularly verbally violent

I was referring to merb specifically ("here") but you are absolutely right that the tone on terb is darker than here and often disrespectful of women (I don't participate on terb)

 

[hob12]

Oh look, the OP is cheating on his wife and telling us to be better.