Mmmmm ok well i can understand part of where you coming from. Yes i did seen some very "trash" reviews in my years on this board and some peoples having no concern what so ever and reviewing like they would review a product made in China. I never been one to like giving numbers on physical appearence for instance because 1 it varies from one guy to another and secondly it can be hurtful. I give numeral values to movies i review and a 6 out of 10 is not really a great score, its "barely above average", its a movie i did find glimpses of fun in but that had several issues. So if someone receive a 6 out of 10 for face or body, i totally get how hurtful it may be. So personally the only times i use numerals in my SPs reviews was playfully say "10 out of 10" as for me she was pefect.
That said, i want you to understand something. Sure every client is different. You say you have both a wife and a girlfriend (maybe mistress would had been a better term here? unless wife knows about it), anyway my point is you may not have issues scoring. Thats great for you. We ain't all like that. Outside of a couple girlfriends when i was a teenager, i never was in a relationship. I am not a person you can consider "attractive", and even when i looked way better (some period i lost a lot of weight) i was still shy with women/fearful of rejection and i never actively tried to meet peoples. Im a loner in life to begin with. I am in contact (as in talk to, engage, not just cross path) with about 10 persons in an usual week and these are the same peoples more often than not.
Im not gonna pretend if i was a fairly ok average joe that still get girlfriends/relationships that i would had never dip in this hobby, but a huge part of why i became interested so much in the sex industry (first porn, then strippers and finally escortings) was that it was for me the only way to experience women. So yes when i meet a new provider im always a little shy, i may come up as reserved, and of course my look may not be the most inspiring ones. But thats who i am and why i meet providers. I try to be the nicest i can and do "my best" but there will always be cases of certain ones maybe finding me unatractive and this may affect services, or maybe they are shy themselves and it can make the meeting appear to be "disinterested" or something.
My point is that i feel to work in this field, you need more than just a great body, pretty face, and know how to work a sausage... Think of it like being a car seller, you can know cars like no one else, but if you not a great seller (attitude wise), you won't do great numbers. You need that "entregens", that friendly attitude, that "making peoples at ease" and i think its very important for a SP.
I do think some women are simply not suited for this job, even if they are pretty. And its ok to point out that a service may had been disapointing in a place like here. You say we should look at ourself and introspect? Sure ... But im already aware im not a stud. And if technically yes i could improve myself by spending 2h a day in the gym and yada yada, its not everyone that want to do that. So like i said ill be as nice as i can and do my best to make her at ease, and sure 80% of my meetings been "good to awesome", but it happened i had some that were very underwhelming. And sometimes i do notice the effort made by the SP but we didn't click, wich is fine, but other time i can see she simply made no effort and didn't care... There is even a few meetings i will admit i notice a very cold attitude from the start and the smart thing would had been to cancel, but i didn't either because she was hot physically or mostly because it would had been too much of a hassle in logistic to gear on plan B... I did try to make the best out of these meetings and tell me "at least im banging a super hot chick" but my review will still be honest on how it felt.
Anyway. I am not in the pants of other dudes. And i do believe the SPs when they say they get guys that are dirty, rude, weird, but its not always on the client either.
Oh, almost forgot. Whats not expensive for you may be for someone else and vice versa. Again like all the rest, we ain't all in the same financial situation. Your thread was made with good intention im sure, but i feel it focussed too much from your own point of view and not enough from others.
