Hello all,
Yes, Montreal Monk. I wouldn't like to take an SP on vacation under those terms either. For some. maybe a pure business deal with all the terms of expenses laid out before the trip is good. That way there would be no misunderstanding of what is expected, and if both stick to the terms then there wouldn't be any unhappy surprises to spoil the trip.
I've known a few members to have taken SPs on vacations very successfully. In these cases though the hobbyists have known the particular lady for some time. They have had the experience of seeing her under the usual terms for an evening, over-nighter, or the weekend, and she was the type who enjoyed staying well past the time limits and/or was equally generous with rates.
Both ways can be successful if you are realistic about what to expect, and have a clear understanding of the expectations. But if you let your little head talk you into thinking some SP is suitable for a vacation because she's hot, or let yourself get carried away with fantasy illusions without being clear about expectations, then you will very likely have tensions and difficulties.
Get to know someone before you ask her. Look hard and realistically about how she reacts to you. Take and clear-headed look at who she is and what she is like, and be clear about what is expected. Don't expect more than she seems likely to be willing to give.
Cheers,
Merlot
