It's comparing orange to apples. I could have seen an Euphoria girl for 1h each day for 3 straight years for the cost of girlfriend/kids. But then I would have no kids, and for me, this is priceless.
Cheers,
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It's comparing orange to apples. I could have seen an Euphoria girl for 1h each day for 3 straight years for the cost of girlfriend/kids. But then I would have no kids, and for me, this is priceless.
Cheers,
Sometimes i feel like a matchmaker :lol: I guess in a way I am but that was never my intentions at all.
Speaking of party's, check your email my friend. I know you have to plan way ahead to make it to Sin City North aka Montreal, so I sent you a little "invite" before others to something you surely do NOT want to miss in the new year.
Speaking of party's, check your email my friend. I know you have to plan way ahead to make it to Sin City North aka Montreal, so I sent you a little "invite" before others to something you surely do NOT want to miss in the new year.
Thanks Russ I know there is many here in the same scenario in life that I am. Happy Hollidays!
Haha I have to admit, well said and very true. I am the first one to admit that living with me is no bowl of cherries
Cheers,
I want to reflect back on this interesting sentence. You know I said that there is no way an SP can beat the kind of sex you can have with girlfriend. And I still stand by it. Perhaps it's because I was born and raised here in Montreal. All those girl that makes Montreal so great for hobbying, they also exists outside of hobbying. Not all quebecoise girl became an SP, there is a bunch out there, a vast majority, that did not became SP but they also like sex like you would not believe.
When I was about 22-23 I had a girl that I would go if I was alone and wanted sex. I would walk to her appartment and if the curtain on the front window was close, it meant she was with someone, so I had to go back. If it was open, I was welcome to spend the night with her. We had no cell phone in those days
When you are young here, if you want sex, and you openly talk about it, how good it is, you will get laid. No question about it. It's just a matter of letting girls know. Yes many turns you down and think you are an asshole, but who cares? As long as you know you are not an asshole youre fine Cheers,
Patron I am talking about girls that do not work in the sex industry at all, and never will, for many reason. That represent the vast majority of girls. Still many of them do like sex, a lot! And they are seeking every possible chance to have sex. Which is good! All you need to do is openly talk about it. About how you love sex for the pure pleasure of it like others will talk about how they bicycle 200km in circles! Now I am too old to be in that league, at 46 it's done. But if I was again 30 I would do the same as I did 20 years ago. Again, it may be because here in Quebec we are quite open about "fuck friend" sex. It was true 20 years ago, I know it's still true today.
Cheers,
I know the feeling. I had some luck in the clubs but most of the time I would end up shit faced at Denny's restaurant ordering the Grand Slam Breakfast. A girl, on the other hand, can decide "I'm going to get laid tonight" while putting her makeup on as she gets ready to go out.
When one door closes another opens. To me, 46 is a great time to turn to the hobby. You have had enough Poutine and Grand Slam breakfast. Call James.
And I agree, there is nothing like having kids. Sex can be good with a wife but I need variety. Both partners get board. It is nice to have someone. But it is also nice to meet these 20 something sexy girls in places like Montreal and Brazil
Till my mid 50`s I had no trouble meeting and bedding women in their 20`s and 30`s.
Then almost overnight women in their 30`s and 40`s stopped being interested....they would prefer playing cougar with younger guys.
I wasn't interested in women over 50 unless they looked like Cindy Crawford or Christy Brinkley.
Slowly turned to escorts and enjoyed the experience.....but now I find that I can`t ever go back to regular dating.
Then almost overnight women in their 30`s and 40`s stopped being interested....they would prefer playing cougar with younger guys.
I wasn't interested in women over 50 unless they looked like Cindy Crawford or Christy Brinkley.
Slowly turned to escorts and enjoyed the experience.....but now I find that I can`t ever go back to regular dating.
To you and Patron, first of all i never spoke of marriage. I am an atheist and therefore do not believe in marriage by any mean. Its just a silly thing that cost money and cost even more when you divorce.
Then when it comes to a girlfriend, this is 2016, soon 2017, guys are not expected to pay for everything anymore. I have lots of friends who have girlfriends and its not costing them tons of cash. Obviously a girlfriend would not about my financial status anyway.
As for my claim, yes i maintain it as i know how i am. I don't need to actually be given an oportunity to murder someone for me to know i would never do it. I know what is wrong and thats it. I consider cheatin wrong and thats it. I have no problem with open couples and swingers etc, when both agree to something thats all cool, but cheating being the back of your loved one, thats just wrong. End the relationship if your partner do not satisfy you anymore.
And i know the reasons why i don't attrack girls. Its up to me to change and right now im not willing too. Thats it.
I remember that when I was younger, a well kept, sexy older women would turn me on. I liked all types of women and I could be seduced by a cougar very easily. I am not nearly as attracted to them as I once was. Like you, I am hooked on these younger girls. As I age I find youth beautiful (20-30s). I think we opened Pandora's box. Once you start this hobby in a place with hot young girls with great service like Montreal, it is hard to go back to dating our peers.
You cannot beat Protagoras and Whoareyou's favorite place on earth called Brooklin Massagem in Sao Paulo. Interactive 3-sums for the equivalent of 94$ USD. Now this is the Disney for adults. It is also my favorite place too. I have had three 3-sums like this on different occasions so I was not dreaming (I had to pinch myself the first two times to make sure I wasn't dreaming). However, if economy is your goal, the ~1200$ flight is a bit exorbitant. I want to go on record as saying I still love Montreal. It is a lot closer and much more convenient and the service and the looks of the girls is about as good as you can get in all of the hobby meccas anywhere.
Mike not sure I agree with this as an across the board proposition. For a young good looking guy, maybe. For guys who are older and not as good looking, pursuing very hot women also being pursued by other guys, not a winning strategy. It's an absolute fail strategy on Seeking Arrangement. My experience is that when women get to a certain age they begin to understand that they have value in the eyes of many men and they are not sticking with a guy who is an out and out cheapass. Also, some hot women value chivalry and they believe it's appropriate for a guy to pay.
Now if it's a girl who is into metal and you got her a ticket to see Iron Maiden's reboot "Book of Souls" tour, she may give you a pass for a while.....
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=86URGgqONvA
Its all relative EB, if someone is with you for your cash, then honestly if i where you i would quit her. Love ain't about money. Its true we are not of the same age but the peoples i know here, young or old, they are not together for the wallet, be it on one side or the other. Im not saying a guy can't pay a meal here and there and such, but what im saying is i see most people actually go both ways. I seen my best friend's girlfriend pay the restaurant more than once, she even paid it to me a couple times. And i did the same.
And obviously if your 55 years old and looking for hot young women, obviously it will be about the cash duh... lol. I don't think i need to remind you guys that merb ain't a reflection of what happen in "real life". My uncles are married for 35 years or more and there happy, they don't cheat or anything. Another of my uncles just ended a relationship with a 10 years or so girlfriend not long ago cause there was no love anymore. He now search for another woman of his age. I joked to him a couple times if he wanted to i can take him to mtl (he knows what i do) and its not something that interest him at all. Its not about money, he has plenty, he just couldn't do it in such circonstances.
Basically what im trying to say is that if you guys decide to have a wife or girlfriend of your age at home and cheat on her with escorts, its your choice and for me its not right. No you do as you please, its your life. Im guessing you enjoy having somebody prepare your meals, take care of you when sick and such things mentioned above. To me it feel like using someone... Maybe its me that is weird who knows, but my morals would not allow me to do such thing.
And obviously if your 55 years old and looking for hot young women, obviously it will be about the cash duh... lol. I don't think i need to remind you guys that merb ain't a reflection of what happen in "real life". My uncles are married for 35 years or more and there happy, they don't cheat or anything. Another of my uncles just ended a relationship with a 10 years or so girlfriend not long ago cause there was no love anymore. He now search for another woman of his age. I joked to him a couple times if he wanted to i can take him to mtl (he knows what i do) and its not something that interest him at all. Its not about money, he has plenty, he just couldn't do it in such circonstances.
Basically what im trying to say is that if you guys decide to have a wife or girlfriend of your age at home and cheat on her with escorts, its your choice and for me its not right. No you do as you please, its your life. Im guessing you enjoy having somebody prepare your meals, take care of you when sick and such things mentioned above. To me it feel like using someone... Maybe its me that is weird who knows, but my morals would not allow me to do such thing.
Mike - First off, I would like to say that your intentions are honorable and I admire that.
Women are attracted to looks, power, wealth, prestige, virility etc. Any women worth having as a soul mate will be sub consciously looking for some combination of these characteristics. It's primal. We men have our primal urges as well. We can rail on some board otherwise and we can put on a front that we feel differently but deep down, most men have this urge to plant their seed in as many fertile women as we can find. We try to suppress these urges but deep down the urge is alive and well, burning in our loins. Escorts in Montreal - to that end - is a good alternative to having an affair. Call it what you want, but it is better than fucking your secretary or a co-worker (been there, done that) or boning the neighbor or one of her friends etc.
Good luck to you and merry Christmas.
PS - I believe that palimony is just as expensive as divorce.
Women are attracted to looks, power, wealth, prestige, virility etc. Any women worth having as a soul mate will be sub consciously looking for some combination of these characteristics. It's primal. We men have our primal urges as well. We can rail on some board otherwise and we can put on a front that we feel differently but deep down, most men have this urge to plant their seed in as many fertile women as we can find. We try to suppress these urges but deep down the urge is alive and well, burning in our loins. Escorts in Montreal - to that end - is a good alternative to having an affair. Call it what you want, but it is better than fucking your secretary or a co-worker (been there, done that) or boning the neighbor or one of her friends etc.
Good luck to you and merry Christmas.
PS - I believe that palimony is just as expensive as divorce.
One thing to consider, and that perhaps might ellude our wasp English canadian friends, is that franco-québécois people, especially those that are working class or lower middle-class, are still very influenced by catholic morality. They will never admit to this openly, but it still colonizes their unconscious. Most quebec girls (especially the trashy kind) feel that sex is part of the pleasure of life, but nice sex with a manly boyfriend like Eric Lapointe or Roy Dupuis... So I feel jalimon is right when he claims that many québécoise girls would never become an sp all the while enjoying sex. Of course, many have gotten over their catholic hang ups and have decided to monetize their openness towards sexuality. Traditionally, since most of us have only recently been able to indulge in the typical north-american consumption-type culture, we have a love and openness towards sex which you just don't find with typical English-canadians, who are used to investing their libido in a variety of other material pleasures. Moral: take advantage while it lasts. The more french speaking québécoise girls get rich, the more they will become as frigid as those ontario girls whom you have to date for 2 years before you can fuck.
I know what it's like to be the guy in the bullpen because I was for a couple of years until she found the right BF and is now engaged to him. However both she and I were at all times cognizant of my role as bullpen pitcher who was only going to be called upon if needed, and we both accepted it.
Yes probably true but if you are a guy who isn't needy or possessive and have genuine feelings for the girl, you can accept a role in the bullpen. Sometimes you have to look in the mirror and accept that it is what it is and you are happy to be on the team. Most major league bullpen pitchers are very happy with and accept their role, although they do not know when they will pitch next or be sent to the minors.
Hum Patron... I find your lack of faith in love... disturbing. I can feel the anger in you. Powerfull the darkside is....
Lol ok maybe i have watch a bit too much star wars recently. Rogue One oblige
Jokes aside, really i don't like how you portray the picture there. Why you have to say "hot" . Did i ever mentioned "hot" ? There are plenty of charming women that are fairly attractive either by there behaviors, general cuteness etc even if there not model hot material. There is plenty of honest women.
Personally i like my freedom and i would certainly not move with a girlfriend before 2-3 years minimum. And still it would be a think about it. But i would love to have a cool GF that would be willing to come home or me going to her place and spending time together and just plainly having the same center of interest. You see... some escorts i have seen where hot as they come, they where nice to talk to as well ... for the meeting. But i would not be interested to be there boyfriend. yes i would apreciate the sex for the first month or 2 but if we dont have anything in common where is the rest of the fun.
Thats why im saying having a girlfriend that share my love for video games, metal music, movies and other activities i like, that would be GREAT. And i couldn't betray this person.
Lol ok maybe i have watch a bit too much star wars recently. Rogue One oblige
Jokes aside, really i don't like how you portray the picture there. Why you have to say "hot" . Did i ever mentioned "hot" ? There are plenty of charming women that are fairly attractive either by there behaviors, general cuteness etc even if there not model hot material. There is plenty of honest women.
Personally i like my freedom and i would certainly not move with a girlfriend before 2-3 years minimum. And still it would be a think about it. But i would love to have a cool GF that would be willing to come home or me going to her place and spending time together and just plainly having the same center of interest. You see... some escorts i have seen where hot as they come, they where nice to talk to as well ... for the meeting. But i would not be interested to be there boyfriend. yes i would apreciate the sex for the first month or 2 but if we dont have anything in common where is the rest of the fun.
Thats why im saying having a girlfriend that share my love for video games, metal music, movies and other activities i like, that would be GREAT. And i couldn't betray this person.
You can have an amicable relationship with an escort as well as conduct business.
Of course some gorgeous woman is not going to be chasing me for sex. I can still be friendly towards her.
That does not mean that I am stupidly naive, and it does not mean that she is a manipulating gold digger.
I have always found longer term and closer relationships with escorts to result in much better service.
Be nice to each other and respect each others'boundaries.
Of course some gorgeous woman is not going to be chasing me for sex. I can still be friendly towards her.
That does not mean that I am stupidly naive, and it does not mean that she is a manipulating gold digger.
I have always found longer term and closer relationships with escorts to result in much better service.
Be nice to each other and respect each others'boundaries.
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