Have you ever openly discussed your hobby with none hobbyist?

[C.B. Brown]

When i die its bare ass in the box<i got no secrets<
Everyone from the janitor to the president of the company knew about my exploits

most said if they ever devorced they would do what i do and many said they live their boring lives thought my stories of my exploits.

My determagolist who was a std expert 1st thing he would do when he saw me was to ask to see pictures of the girls and stories 2nd was to say always use a condom.

MY urologist who was a miserable prick would have made a good mortition only thing he would say before i left his office was f--k f--k f--k s much as you can.so i was only following doctors orders.

Every friday at work with my 3 bosses 1st question was show us the pictures tell us the stories

MY pharmacist who passed a few years back..i go in to see him he says i got to ask you are you and he mentions my board handle saying your style of talk reminds me of this guy...i wanted to go through the floor
to my suprise he tells me hey i am a hobbiest and gives me his personal email to keep in touch and give tips.

 

[hungry101]

Be very careful. Today's friend is tomorrow's enemy. I am not the emotional vindictive type but others are. Part of the purpose of these forums is so that that you can brag about your exploits without having to burden your civilian friends with this peculiar activity. Things have gotten worse in the #MeToo era. Funny, it is ok to cross dress, ok to be queer as a French horn, smoke weed etc. but heterosexuals cannot pay a grown women for sexual services. Gay cross dressers are marveled at and celebrated. Caitlyn Jenner is absolutely stunning and brave but we are still in the shadows. Why? When will our day of liberation come? Will Hungry101 ever be considered a great philanthropist and positive boost to the local economy? Every time I go to Canada I drop at the very least 1000$ CDN on the ladies and I occupy hotel rooms and keep waitstaff and chefs and other small businesses going and I tip well and buy gas and rent cars and pay for parking and I shop for clothing and make major purchases and buy wine and pay museum entrance fees and purchase other sundry items etc. I am a boon to the local economy and I do not solicit women that have not considered the oldest profession.

This is an old thread. I've shared my proclivity to hobby with a few close friends. One guy is a swinger and I have known him since Jr. High and we hunt together. One guy is my ex-boss and I got him into this a bit. Another guy is an ex-boss and he came with me to my first ever trip to Montreal and we discovered her together. Two more guys are colleagues from Brazil and opening up to theses two guys was the greatest strategic decision I've ever made.

But a word of caution: I've made it. Younger guys have to be much more careful.

 

[jalimon]

Will Hungry101 ever be considered a great philanthropist and positive boost to the local economy? Every time I go to Canada I drop at the very least 100$ CDN on the ladies and I occupy hotel rooms and keep waitstaff and chefs and other small businesses going and I tip well and buy gas and rent cars and pay for parking and I shop for clothing and make major purchases and buy wine and pay museum entrance fees and purchase other sundry items etc. I am a boon to the local economy and I do not solicit women that have not considered the oldest profession.

Wouhou!! 100$ on the ladies? That's it? You probably mean 1000$ right?

 

[hungry101]

^^^ No way, I'm no BackPage 15 minute handjob guy. Yes, I was off by an order of magnitude. I haven't spent less than 1000$ CDN on the ladies during a Montreal visit since circa 2010.

 

[R the Man]

Never ever.

I am so surprised when hobbyists message me on this board and other boards asking to meet up or go to a party. I would never show my face to locals, I can't risk this hobby being known to my job/family.

The only place I am okay with showing my face while hobbying is in Europe or Asia, halfway around the world... don't shit where you eat.

Yeah, me too. But I only hobby when I'm out of town, so I am happy to meet others when I am traveling. Always good to share a beer with another fellow hobbyist.

 

[2fast2slow]

i made the mistake of telling one of my closest friends a few years back, who in tern told one of his closest friends, i guess partly because my friend knew that his friend occasionnaly partook in this hobby. I am pissed he did that, mostly because i seriously dont trust this other guy (who also happens to have a range of issues). I ended up making an elaborate story how I quit the hobby, and I am sticking to it, just so the 2 of them think i am out, its a thing of the past.

My brother knows, because i used the brothels in germany when we were there together in the 90s...but have not talked to him about it since.

If i was without family (I'm married with children, my wife knows i've done this in the past), i would definnitely be more open about it. I think we need more men to talk about this publicly. The good men.

 

[C.B. Brown]

To each their own.I have always been a open person.I never paid for sex prior to 40.So when i got married i told my wife about all the woman i had been with(never paid() that was a mistake she threw that in my face a lot
getting devorced at 40 i still had looks and things going for me but i didnt want emotional baggage so after 3 girlfriend in about as many months i started the massage scene.
MY dad didnt see me with woman so he was afraid i was gay(dad always cheated on mom but im srue mom cut him off after having me)
Kids had custody every 2nd weekend and tried to shield them from stuff never had a porn tape or magazine in the house.but some how they blerted out my 1st handle 1 day which was the reason i changed it and some computer security.
co workers were all really cool people from bottom to very top>all the guys were real men who loved stories about woman and pictures.so this made what i did easier for me.
I have no regrets.i day i will go bare ass in the box in the ground>i think its healthy to be able to discuss this hobbie with other men as long as you can trust them
i was devorced so i was not really doing anything wrong.for married men this could be a problem.

 

[hungry101]

^^^The man is a legend on the Montreal scene. I won't say the name but every Montreal hobbyist has at least once, got drunk with an escort, wrote a review and then walked the late night street on the seedy side of town while imagining that they were living out one of his reports.

Down by the dirty bookstore I saw an Inuit girl that gives hand jobs in the peep show for 20$CDN. I wanted to see her with All-Of-Her-Clothes-Off so I said...

You are a legend sir and I salute you!!!!

 

[JoeBill999]

No. No one knows in my real life.

 

[C.B. Brown]

hungry101
Well i am glad members like and appreciate me here.
99.8% of the people here are absolutely great and i have met many of them over the years.
Life is good.

 

[czar]

I just recently shared my secret life with my best friend. It kind of just happened. It was actually quite emotional for me. Realizing I had been keeping this secret life for over 25 years. He was surprised but intrigued. I’ve been slowly telling him more details of my life and past. It’s been quite therapeutic. Felt good to share some crazy and amazing stories.

But I don’t plan on sharing with anyone else...ever...
Czar.

 

[ff8802]

Definitely not. I've thought about it on occasion but the possible risk is too high...

 

[Fradi]

I have three close friends that I have known for over 30 years who I play golf with in the summer and pool in the winter.

Since my wife passed away 6 years ago they have been feeling sorry for me and forever nagging me and trying to set me up with their wive’s girlfriends, work colleagues that I used to know.
I kept telling them I am not interested, not ready, whatever excuse I could come up with, until I finally got fed up and showed them a photograph of my ATF. Now I can play golf and pool in peace.
Otherwise I don’t really advertise it, but don’t really care too much if someone finds out.

 

[Fradi]

Sure way to lose a life long friend Patron.
They are much harder to come by.
I will stick with my ATF and some of the fabulous ladies I have seen and hopefully will see.
Luckily Montreal is the perfect place for it.

 

[chowzilla]

Coming into this hobby, I had a very very strict policy of keeping both my lives completely separate. Over the years, it gets tough keeping secrets. A fellow merbite told me its very healthy to find someone you can share with. However I was too afraid to even tell my friends.

I recently told one of my best friends in my circle because I found out he has tried it before while he was drunk.

It was quite liberating, I must say. He actually thinks its real cool because he's in a relationship now and he pretends to live his sex life through me lol.

However we agreed that that it wouldn't be a good idea to tell the others. ever.

 

[RoyDeMeo]

my closest friends are hobbyists but only one of them writes on this board, I would never tell others but I laugh at them when they talk about girls n what they would do or pay to fuck her but never called an SP... We bang the hottest girls and pay only a small fraction of the numbers they would give me