How come people aren't generally afraid of BBBJ?

[blkone]

Bikone, who made you the professor ? Are you a PhD, a doctor, a paranoid. According to you just touching anyone and you "could" get 15 diseases. Calm the heck down. If what you are preaching were true, 80% of MERB would all be dieseased in five minutes.
These medical threads are filled with all sorts of opinions and then too much focus on the outside chance of getting this or that. It's just a question of how much risk you want to take and who's medical data you want to believe. People get struck by lightning twice in their life, but then some people never get struck ever. Do you never want to go outside?

People out there, believe what you want to believe and get as paranoid as you wish, or just calm the heck down.

Yes I am actually, a Doctor that is. I am a Psychiatrist.

Everything is a risk in life, I agree, but please do not kid yourself into thinking that these viruses are not transmitted in this way, because they are.

I would suggest that you do a little more reading on STD/STI's. Knowledge is indeed power and the more we know as a collective the less likely we are to contract and spread anything to one another.

 

[blkone]

Any reference for that?

Condoms are classified as medical devices in Canada, and are regulated by Health Canada. Therefore, I would assume that all condoms sold here meet strict testing requirements, i.e. not 100% safe, but very, very close.
Are "thinner" condoms really more fragile? I can't find any studies that proves or disproves it. If by any chance you could point to a study or a link, it would help.

I would think that all condoms sold in Canada are meant to prevent diseases first, and then to prevent pregnancies, as there are other contraceptives out there that could prevent pregnancies without preventing diseases.

1. http://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/latex.htm

That's a nice easy reference.

2. Contraceptives are also considered medical devices. Not all Condoms are tested and approved for *disease prevention* especially the more "playful" types. Remember protection against sperm cells and viruses are not the same, neither are the tests required for each.

3. Thinner condoms by nature are more likely to break than thicker condoms but that does not mean that one or the other is more effective at preventing disease. If both condoms have passed tests for viruses such as HIV, it doesn't matter, the protection is the same as long as the latex does not tear.

4. No, they are contraceptive devices first and foremost.

 

[blkone]

http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/ar...lis-making-a-canadian-comeback-167293555.html

Quite like the belief of an earlier poster that herpes can only be contracted during the male orgasm (wrong, so wrong), a lot of people are still under the impression that Syphilis is contracted through fluid or blood contact and that a condom provides almost full protection against it. A condom is better than no condom but you can still contract one or the other (HSV or Syphilis) and seeing how Syphilis has been making a big comeback I think we need a public campaign about how Syphilis is really transmitted.

 

[hungry101]

http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/ar...lis-making-a-canadian-comeback-167293555.html

A condom is better than no condom but you can still contract one or the other (HSV or Syphilis) and seeing how Syphilis has been making a big comeback I think we need a public campaign about how Syphilis is really transmitted.

How about if I wear two condoms?

 

[2tuff2quit]

In answer to the orginal thread is that I have recieved about 500 in the last 8 years and still waiting for something to happen !

 

[easyguy]

In answer to the orginal thread is that I have recieved about 500 in the last 8 years and still waiting for something to happen !

I am frustrated by all this discussion as it is not based in any way on the sound scientific approach. The probability of contracting STI depends not only on the probability of transmission but equally on probability of this STI in the SP and hobbing population. We have no information on this part thus any guess is useless. One can look at the health statistics in Quebec but we can’t mirror it to the hobby world having specific risks. Thus instead of going around and around with these kind of discussions for years let do the poll. We do all kind of polls on MERB but are missing the most important one. The pole should list all common diseases and whoever contracted anything for the last 5 years should put unanimously a number (can we give also vote to non-members?). Also important to state the average number of encounters per year, so you number will be divided on the number of encounters (should figure out how technically do that). Then the simple analysis will give us the probability of contracting something in this community. I don’t expect any alarming numbers thus it will be actually good for the business and will give people real basis to estimate the risks.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Fascinating. What does being the first of the day have to do with it? Do you really think that STDs do not survive from one day to the next and that escorts have some sort of magical "reset" button that they press every morning?

Nothing to do with STD's, as I stated one of my quirks. Would rather not DFK someone who in the last 6 hrs BBBJCIMSW with 6 people. Gotta be some residue in there somewhere.

 

[somebodymtl]

How about if I wear two condoms?

A friend of mine, just after attending a sex education session, told me that using two condoms is actually more dangerous because it generates more friction and makes the condoms more vulnerable to breaking. Can someone please confirm?

And since when did this thread became a topic on health?

 

[charmer_]

How about if I wear two condoms?

A friend of mine, just after attending a sex education session, told me that using two condoms is actually more dangerous because it generates more friction and makes the condoms more vulnerable to breaking. Can someone please confirm?

And since when did this thread became a topic on health?

I'm pretty sure hungry101 was only joking. At least, I hope so...lol

 

[easyguy]

And since when did this thread became a topic on health?[/QUOTE]



Because....... the question was formulated this way “why you are not afraid of BBBJ?” Do you think author meant that SP can bite of the piece of your dick?

 

[charmer_]

Question is how come people aren't generally afraid of BBBJ.
Same question can be asked how come people will do DATY without a dental dam!

Good point st-cum!

Well the reason for the dental dam is obvious (ie. because it looks and feels ridiculous/hideous). I can only imagine how much of a turn off it must be for women seeing a dude with a dental dam in his mouth. Me personally, I never go down on a girl unless I'm really feeling it, it's clean, etc. Also usually the younger the SP, the more likely I'll go down too (20s pussy is great)!

I've heard that saran-wrap is an alternative to the dental dam, but have never tried it. Seems cumbersome, imho.

 

[hungry101]

I've heard that saran-wrap is an alternative to the dental dam, but have never tried it. Seems cumbersome, imho.

My buddy is a skydiver. Jumping out of a perfectly good plane is his idea of fun. I like sex with young SPs. This is my idea of fun. There is risk with both hobbies.

The two condom comment was a joke. I do recommend that those of you that want BBFS and can't stand wearing a condom for intercourse should try the following: Wear two condoms all the time 24/7. When you are ready to have sex with an SP just take one condom off and now you will fuck like a madman.

 

[charmer_]

I do recommend that those of you that want BBFS and can't stand wearing a condom for intercourse should try the following: Wear two condoms all the time 24/7. When you are ready to have sex with an SP just take one condom off and now you will fuck like a madman.

But then it wouldn't be BBFS! ;-)

 

[hungry101]

But then it wouldn't be BBFS! ;-)

That is the point!

 

[Cafe]

But getting herpes is it too dangerous?

 

[ricardo768768]

People are afraid of , but it`s just too good to give up!

If you are really concerned you can prophylactically treat yourself with acyclovir ( may help prevent hsv1,2 and hpv transmission although there really is no evidence on this)and 2 grams of azithromycin ( take a full zpack at once) for syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhea. Although again no real evidence.



Ric

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I am not sure I get this,you are suggesting taking medication before needing it? I am quite sure it is not proper? And unless I am wrong what kind of a doctor would prescribe such meds ''in case''?

I strongly suggest to all of you paranoids guys to pick up knitting as a hobby and keep sex to your spouse...
As I once told a very nervous guy who wanted me to assure him that the hobby was 100% safe :''nothing you do is 100% safe...if you start overanalyzing you will never step out of you house...

You have to decide the level of risk you are comfortable, take all the precautions you can ,and live...if you are not comfortable, just don't do it..

It applies to everything,not just the hobby...Some people like to ski jump...for me it is too dangerous ...so I don't...

 

[simonpaul]

I am not sure I get this,you are suggesting taking medication before needing it? I am quite sure it is not proper? And unless I am wrong what kind of a doctor would prescribe such meds ''in case''?

I strongly suggest to all of you paranoids guys to pick up knitting as a hobby and keep sex to your spouse...
As I once told a very nervous guy who wanted me to assure him that the hobby was 100% safe :''nothing you do is 100% safe...if you start overanalyzing you will never step out of you house...

You have to decide the level of risk you are comfortable, take all the precautions you can ,and live...if you are not comfortable, just don't do it..

It applies to everything,not just the hobby...Some people like to ski jump...for me it is too dangerous ...so I don't...

I totally agree,in life we have always take risk not just hobby but all also in business.If you don't nothing will chance in your life.

 

[jacep]

I can only imagine how much of a turn off it must be for women seeing a dude with a dental dam in his mouth.

actualy when a lady asks for dental dam or dental dam requird, it doesnt mean the guy wears the dental dam like at a dentist apointment. it means you put dental dam on the ladies pussy similar to saranwrap and you lick the dental dam wich is over or touching her pussy. i gues the feeling for a girl who is geting daty with dental dam is similar to how a cbj feels for a guy

 

[Halloween Mike]

Dunno if i answered that thread but im sure i did answer any other that is as the same as this one... The thing is... BBBJ can give you a STD yes... but chances to get anything "lethal" is probably less than winning the lotto... so we are willing to take the risk...

Me personally im a very "BJ" guy.. if the BJ ain't good, the meeting is way less apreciatiable... Maybe if the lady is REALLY good looking combined with a VERY GOOD attitude... but still... BJ is what i enjoy the most, no wonder among my top meetings where girls that really knew how to work it with the mouth... lol

So well yeah since its common thing that BBBJ is the norm in MTL, i do partook and apreciate it, i also enjoy CIM so to do that you have to do BBBJ...

So far in 5 years of seeing SPs... nothing nasty... so yeah ill keep partooking in BBBJ as long as its avalaible...

I wouldn't do BBFS because i wouldn't want to catch AIDS.... even with NON SP partners i mean... i mean nobody wanna die right? and no matter how hot the girl is you don't wanna gamble your life... but a gonoreah for exemple... may hurt a lot.. but it ain't letal... so your willing to take more risk...