How do you guys hide it?

[Marauder69]

Hey, I read this blog about hiding the hobby from your significant other...It seemed to cover quite a bit but thois is something thatc I'm very concerned with.

Do you guys have extremely suspiscious SO's, like me, or do your SO's not have a clue? What do you guys do in orderto keep things a secret?

 

[Dragonatic]

Don't hide and just tell the truth. Everyone is free to blow their money where they want. If you can't assume yourself then don't even think about it hobbying...

And some people will say "How can I hide it from my gf??" then, if you do the hobby and see SPs while you are already in a relationship and you want to hide it you are just an asshole.

 

[johnmbot]

How do you guys hide it?

i use the tuck method.

I read this blog about hiding the hobby from your significant other...

oh... ummm... nevermind.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Can't understand somebody paying for sex when he can have it for free. I mean i am willing to pay for sex only because its my last resort for it... And i am still ashame of it.

 

[lgna69xxx]

DONT BE ASHAMED!

you pay for it ALOT more in most relationships than you ever will from a Escort, trust me


i cant speak for everyone , but i seriously doubt that men who are paying for "it" are all horrible looking guys and cant find a woman, i would assume for most men its the thrill for one, second its a way to have pleasure without the BS that comes from home or a relationship, and for others it's simply an addiction...... and i am sure there are other reasons as well

dont feel ashamed

Can't understand somebody paying for sex when he can have it for free. I mean i am willing to pay for sex only because its my last resort for it... And i am still ashame of it.

 

[Dr Edgar Who]

you pay for it ALOT more in most relationships than you ever will from a Escort, trust me

dont feel ashamed

I agree with both these points. A man may crave variety or a more youthful bod. Not there yet.

The thing I would be most worried about if I was in a relationship would be the STD risk. I mean, aren't you even a bit worried about that? If you get something minor that is easily cured it will still be a big deal if your SO gets
it too, it will also look twice as bad to friends and family, no?

 

[lgna69xxx]

i agree here with you, thats why my "opinon" is that anyone in a relationship, shouldnt risk there partners health, same goes for the gf as does the bf....... in other words if in a relationship, dont hobby, and if you must, then go 100% SAFELY..... again, my opinon only

I agree with both these points. A man may crave variety or a more youthful bod. Not there yet.

The thing I would be most worried about if I was in a relationship would be the STD risk. I mean, aren't you even a bit worried about that? If you get something minor that is easily cured it will still be a big deal if your SO gets
it too, it will also look twice as bad to friends and family, no?

 

[muffinbuffer]

I don't hide anything. She helps me pick out some likely candidates before I go and likes to hear about what she calls my "adventures" afterwards. Once she called to get the lowdown but my appointment had started late and my new friend was still there. "Oh," she said, "are you right in the middle of someone? I'll call back later." Sometimes she comes with me.

 

[metoo4]

I don't hide anything. She helps me pick out some likely candidates before I go and likes to hear about what she calls my "adventures" afterwards. Once she called to get the lowdown but my appointment had started late and my new friend was still there. "Oh," she said, "are you right in the middle of someone? I'll call back later." Sometimes she comes with me.

You must be going-out with a dream, not a real woman! LOL!!

...lucky bastard...

 

[Sputnik]

Do not act suspiciously!

 

[saturiasis]

The secret will eventually come out

Everyone has different circumstances but I'm with MuffinBuffer. I hated trying to keep this a secret and eventually you'll get caught out. It took me literally 10 years to gradually drop hints about the Hobby. I used to retell a story to her about going to a MP. The first time I told her it was just a massage and everytime I would retell it I would add a new detail until I made it to the FS part. I also started to take her to upscale strip clubs etc. By then it was no big deal for her. Then I mentioned select other encounters. Still no big deal. Now when I am in Montreal she logs in to in Internet and picks out girls for me.
The secret is to have a strong relationship, not let up on the sex, don't try and tell her as some dramatic confession - its just sex afterall. Finally (and this is a tough one) you cannot tell her she can't go out and find some fun. It doesnt mean that she wants to, it just makes it fair. Also you may not like to admit this but while you've concentrated on keeping your hobby a secret you've not noticed that there's a good chance that she's had a couple of one-night stands when you weren't around that she's slightly guilty about. That might work in your favor and she'll go easy on you when you tell her