How to date an Escort
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I do like the Tips part, it's dead right if you ask me:
- She's not judging you on your body, your age or how well you perform. All she cares about is how well you treat her personally, and escorts in general.
- Chances are she likes her job so don't try to "save" her. Most escorts choose to do this work and slavery is as rare in this industry as it is in any other. If you have very solid evidence that she is not there willingly, pay her, apologise and leave. Slavery is a crime and should be reported, but assuming that the escort cannot make adult decisions about her job is very disrespectful.
- Be funny, if that's among your qualities. Girls like funny guys.
well look again ... the WikiHow page IS NOT about dating SP lol :yo:
BTW the thread title is misleading as on WikiHow it originally is
How To Make a Date with an escort
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I dated one back in the early 90's. This was around the time that almost everyone I knew was on welfare or in University. I had 3 women friends who graduated in women's studies and then went into stripping or escorting. The one I dated chased after me. The irony is that the sex was mediocore at best. Guess because that's all she did, most of the adventure and fun was taken out of it. She was lots of fun otherwise though
It's funny to read the step by step instructions which make the appointment process seem much more like you're buying any typical product...No Assembly Required. I guess that's accurate in the end but it's always been something extraordinary for me. Don't ask about services? Well, if you are talking to the escort it can be embarrassing and counterproductive. If you are talking to her agent then it can solve a lot before meeting her if you haven't seen reviews or if the agent suggests someone you don't know about.
SMILE! Yup, always be in good humor when calling and especially meeting.
Hire someone to give you company isn't illegal. So, in your exchanges written & on the phone before an encounter, don't talk about you wanting to buy sex acts.
Hello Sam,
I used to go and still use my gut feeling all the time, obviously.
And what give me a good gut feeling are respect, politeness, someone who took his infos, someone sympa, open to talk a bit of himself, and happy to prepare a nice event.
Positive references are a big plus, I know this person to be for real and not dangerous to meet.
And if someone is really open to give everything required without complaining/trying to bargain how it is done, is a BIG BIG BIG plus
One liners people, and/or using acronyms, SMS abbreviations in an email are just looking strange. You know the wikihow about meeting an escort is well made,
but I would add this as a general reflexion:
After you know, because you verify, that the lady you want to know is legit/renowned, she will propose few possible ways that she requires to feel just at ease to be seeing you for the first time.
->>>I found it very sad/beyond understanding that few people don't understand the concept for a woman to feel secure to live a SANE & SAFE meeting with an unknown man in private settings.
This said, I refused also to meet a couple of people based on their board's utilisation.
In fact, I am there for joyful moments, for you but including mine too. :angel:
I used to go and still use my gut feeling all the time, obviously.
And what give me a good gut feeling are respect, politeness, someone who took his infos, someone sympa, open to talk a bit of himself, and happy to prepare a nice event.
Positive references are a big plus, I know this person to be for real and not dangerous to meet.
And if someone is really open to give everything required without complaining/trying to bargain how it is done, is a BIG BIG BIG plus
One liners people, and/or using acronyms, SMS abbreviations in an email are just looking strange. You know the wikihow about meeting an escort is well made,
but I would add this as a general reflexion:
After you know, because you verify, that the lady you want to know is legit/renowned, she will propose few possible ways that she requires to feel just at ease to be seeing you for the first time.
->>>I found it very sad/beyond understanding that few people don't understand the concept for a woman to feel secure to live a SANE & SAFE meeting with an unknown man in private settings.
This said, I refused also to meet a couple of people based on their board's utilisation.
In fact, I am there for joyful moments, for you but including mine too. :angel:
I guess you are right...
"Money exchanged in legal adult personal services is simply for time and companionship. Anything else that may or may not occur, is a matter of personal choice between consenting adults. " Isn't?
But I wonder if that line will work if the authorities want to trap us?
I guess you are right...
"Money exchanged in legal adult personal services is simply for time and companionship. Anything else that may or may not occur, is a matter of personal choice between consenting adults. " Isn't?
But I wonder if that line will work if the authorities want to trap us?
Seriously, I tried to imagine scenarios including myself and a gentleman, and this is really hard.
In the States, they are playing to be an escort to trap, by example.
I am doing everything possible to prevent anything, like exchanging in private about some illegal activities....
Just take 2 seconds and realize that, for me, it is way important that my entourage be well & safe too. N'est-ce pas?
Thank you Emma Alexandra : we might go take a coffee or a lunch, sometimes. I like what I read from you too. xx
Oh, Sam, thank you for that wonderful compliment, but I just wrote the way it comes to me. xx
xxOh, Sam, thank you for that wonderful compliment, but I just wrote the way it comes to me. xx
Oui, bien sûr.
My post was not trying to make you responsible. I know you do not want your customers to have problems and you'll do everything you can for this purpose.
I was just wondering if this strategy (money for company only) was effective.
Mon post ne cherchait pas à vous mettre en cause. Je sais bien que vous ne souhaitez pas que vos clients aient des problèmes et que vous allez tout faire pour que cela ne se produise pas.
Je me demandais simplement si cette stratégie (argent pour compagnie seulement) était efficace.
I would say, honestly, that I wouldn't want to call, let's say, the peace guardian of the city to verify.
Je dirais bien qu'honnêtement, je n'oserais pas appeler les gardiens de la paix de la ville pour m'en acquérir.
That's been ages this is done that way, much more in the USA where the laws are looking way more strict.
Aussi loin que les plus vieux membres ici peuvent s'en rappeler, cela a toujours eu cours, beaucoup plus au États-Unis auparavant car disons qu'ils ont un bâton qui frappent beaucoup plus fort.
Je dirais bien qu'honnêtement, je n'oserais pas appeler les gardiens de la paix de la ville pour m'en acquérir.
That's been ages this is done that way, much more in the USA where the laws are looking way more strict.
Aussi loin que les plus vieux membres ici peuvent s'en rappeler, cela a toujours eu cours, beaucoup plus au États-Unis auparavant car disons qu'ils ont un bâton qui frappent beaucoup plus fort.
Ça m'amuse toujours l'obligation qu'on a de couvrir notre hobby. Une autre chose qui me fait rire, sur les annonces d'une agence, ils écrivent qu'une fille ''parle le grec'' comme mot de code pour ce que vous savez. J'imagine qu'un juge aurait un doute raisonnable en cour si jamais il y avait accusation!Oui, bien sûr.
Mon post ne cherchait pas à vous mettre en cause. Je sais bien que vous ne souhaitez pas que vos clients aient des problèmes et que vous allez tout faire pour que cela ne se produise pas.
Je me demandais simplement si cette stratégie (argent pour compagnie seulement) était efficace.
Il y a eu déjà des belles discussions à ce sujet sur Merb, justement quand la loi est devenue effective. Et il y a un superbe suivi constant fait par Reverdy sur 2 lignes de discussions (un au travers le Canada et l'autre mondial) qui sont en sticky dans la section forum anglais. (celui-ci même où l'on écrit présentement.)
Très instructif et mieux vaut être bien informé avant de partir en peur
