How to quit the Hobby/Addiction?
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wanna stop?
delete your merb account and stop reading this forum.
asking how to stop hobbying on this site is like asking your crack dealer how to stop doing drugs
delete your merb account and stop reading this forum.
asking how to stop hobbying on this site is like asking your crack dealer how to stop doing drugs
sylvain
Even with a gf you won't stop, ppl have wives and be fucking mad chicks. You need to learn discipline
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOqbNKao4jw
his name is brian tracy gives great advice on self discipline and on the subject of life
Even with a gf you won't stop, ppl have wives and be fucking mad chicks. You need to learn discipline
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOqbNKao4jw
his name is brian tracy gives great advice on self discipline and on the subject of life
how to quiet the hobby,i don't know ,we all live like merb members in an artificial world and we don't see after that the reel wold.
it's easy to quit if you really want to, if you really love your GF or your wife the fear of losing her can help you to quit, also if you don't have a GF the only way you could do to quit is to masturbate if you wanna see an escort, sure if you are tired or after getting off yourself you don't wanna pay for sex anymore, right. The other way is sport, self control and spiritual way such as yoga, gym, relaxation, even religion to help you control your sexual drive. We chose this hobby because it's an easy way to have beautiful girls just by taking the phone, very tempting though but for married man it's the safest way to meet another women without having a real affair
I haven't been hobbying since early Feb, so have been "clean" for 3 months. I am limiting how much I am spending this year, and my budget would not last long if I spent too much in Q1 and Q2. I need to pace myself. I am probably going to play in late Q3 and Q4. Watch your budget; that's the best way to quit. Easier said than done; I failed last year.
If I have a fuck freind I keep going and going to see girls like now If I have a girlfreind or find a girl that mite be one I take tme off to see how it goes. If I ever get married I will stop for sure, out of respect for my wife, she better give it up enough though lol.
If I have a girlfreind or find a girl that mite be one I take tme off to see how it goes. If I ever get married I will stop for sure, out of respect for my wife, she better give it up enough though lol.Well it's never been an addiction for me... I just do it until I find a GF when I have a GF there is no need for an SP.
I also do not visit SP's when I have a gf because of the simple consent idea. If I catch something on my time, that's my problem. But, I do not want to spread something to someone else without them knowing.
I also do not visit SP's when I have a gf because of the simple consent idea. If I catch something on my time, that's my problem. But, I do not want to spread something to someone else without them knowing.
When did it stop being a hobby, how do you control your addiction?
I’m a lucky man because I’ve found two absolutely perfect providers that bring me to an absolute euphoric state each time I visit (separately).
I’m an unlucky man because I’m so bloody addicted to them that I need to book every possible free-time I have with them. I can’t think of anything else then being in their warm embrace, how did this go from a diversion (hobby) to an obsession?
Are you addicted or can you quit at any time?
How do you control your habit?
If you can’t control it, are you going broke or are you using illegal means (ex., B&E) to support your habit?
I need some creative ideas from my peers other than a lobotomy or other surgery!:lol:
Cheers
Jarhead
I’m a lucky man because I’ve found two absolutely perfect providers that bring me to an absolute euphoric state each time I visit (separately).
I’m an unlucky man because I’m so bloody addicted to them that I need to book every possible free-time I have with them. I can’t think of anything else then being in their warm embrace, how did this go from a diversion (hobby) to an obsession?
Are you addicted or can you quit at any time?
How do you control your habit?
If you can’t control it, are you going broke or are you using illegal means (ex., B&E) to support your habit?
I need some creative ideas from my peers other than a lobotomy or other surgery!:lol:
Cheers
Jarhead
What helps me control the urge to see these special women, is I make plans with family or friends when free time pops up so I won't have the free time anymore lol!
I would rather have a bit of time between meeting the same lady, just builds up the anticipation more. I do cave occasionally though
I would rather have a bit of time between meeting the same lady, just builds up the anticipation more. I do cave occasionally though
Here is how I work; At the beginning of each month I decide a maximum of meetings a should have in the next month, taking into accounts my other expenses. And if I go over that number, ill punish myself by taking a month off from the hobby loll.
I don't think ill ever get addicted, but if I keep getting over my limit, ill question myself and maybe stop.
I don't think ill ever get addicted, but if I keep getting over my limit, ill question myself and maybe stop.
Dam! I do the opposite, I constantly try to free up time...
Methodical and accountant like, are you perchance a CFO.
So far some great ideas from Handi and Johnybird, but maybe I need to hit rock bottom before I can consider such rational solutions.
I think it is about how busy you are. If you keep coming to the forum multiple times a day checking on the newest reviews and if you don't meet new people outside of this microcosm you will only nourish the need of more paid sex. This becomes a problem if you're not capable of supporting this habit financially, if you're late on your payments and if you can't put money aside.
There is already a thread about this topic in the health section, Mods , please merge.
mod note: merged
mod note: merged
For myself when I first started 5 - 6 years ago I was recently divorced and thought wow ( never see an escort before, early 50's ) and was seeing 3-5 a month for the 5 months a year I was in Quebec, after 3 years it died down ( I don't know.... The thrill is gone? ). Now it is once or twice a month. This year I am redoing the complete inside of my house plus my daughter is marathon running now, contemplating on doing some more work on my car since my son finally finished his 3 yr project and get my garage back so very busy and do not really have the time ( total drive time for me is 3 hrs for a meeting ). Now if a good escort or agency would open up in Drummondville that may change.
For me its not just a hobby. It's a way of life.
I'm single so the hobby still costs less than having a wife lol
Usually in a relationship after a few years it all turns to shit and you barely have sex anymore with your partner.
So you are paying to NOT have sex.
Does not make any sense in my books. Stick with the hobby
I'm single so the hobby still costs less than having a wife lol
Usually in a relationship after a few years it all turns to shit and you barely have sex anymore with your partner.
So you are paying to NOT have sex.
Does not make any sense in my books. Stick with the hobby
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