i am afraid to see somebody for the first TIME in my life ..what is the way to go...

[panthere]

hi to you all....
i saw a couple of sp and some regular for a long time.. ...for the past years.....i was always a bite inxious at the beginning to see a new sp....a new meeting etc..but it was during like 1 or 2 minute before the meeting and that it.....but now i am afraid to see somebody...i think you knew who:eyebrows:....i am a bite available....i work like crazy....i am a work addict i have to say...love money lolll....and missing a day of work...i have a hardddd time doing so....

okay my point is....i am afraid of meeting this person...cause i am afraid that everything is going to be wrong..be disapointed or her being disapoijnted.....be not a good performer snifff....that the mini moi doesnt work like he is suppose too....you know..allll of those inquiry that i have...also the damn stresss etc....



so what is the way to go...you THINK...

book her for 2..3 hours.....i was thinking that a lot...but if the chimistry is not there ouchhh....
take a lot of pills of viagra lollll...that I NEVER USE...but damn i gonna find them loll
i have a lot of mistake idea...in my head...i dont know what to do....
but i WANT HER ...a lotttttt ...and also the most important thing for me...that she enjoy the session.....i would eat her like...bip bip bip...

so please feel free to tell me you're idea or you're story of a fantasy that you finally did....or happen....and what is the way to prepare yourself for it...
thank you in advance...sorry for my english sometimes...but i think you know what i mean...
p.s. in french also...you could response

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Panthere...you are going to meet a sp, her goal is that YOU are happy...relax...let her take the lead...and enjoy....
Forget Viagra,you do not need it if the lady is as you think...take a deep breath,no or very little wine as it plays havoc with male body part and have fun..

 

[panthere]

lily you are and always a pearl...thank youuuu xxx big huggs
i forgot to tell all of you i dont receive her...cause i would love to put the good atmosphere..wine..candles etc....she is incall....

by the way thankkkk you for the advice in pm

also i was thinking of not saying my name or identity and just book her...

 

[panthere]

thanks..i was hoping for more post....disapointed....at least thanks for those who did...thank youuu

 

[PSEfreak]

Just try to relax. She's great and easy to talk to. Being a stressful person myself it's a little hard to control, I know, but try. Personally I wouldn't book her for more than 2 hours the first time, it's plenty.

Just enjoy your time with her and whatever happens happens, just take it that way.

 

[Jerry_Lou]

Panthere, I don't want to be rude, but seriously, you are a grown man and you've been with SPs before, so come on man. Don't know why you make a whole story about meeting a new one.

An SP is there to please you and not the opposite... Although it is in everyone's interest to please the SP, to make the encounter more pleasurable for everybody. Frankly, I think most girls couldn't care less if ''mini-you'' doesn't work... They have plenty of opportunities to have sex aside from you (I heard it's what they do for a living), so it will just be a nice break. And considering the fact that she has been in the industry on and off cams for many years, I think she's seen such problems before and I sincerely doubt she will take it personal, especially knowing how much you want to meet her. And if I'd be an SP, you know what I would call a client who doesn't get hard ? A break . (and a well diserved one in her case, cause I can tell you she works hard to please).

I have met her (outcall) and she is a total sweetheart. I looked totally ridiculous, cause I didn't know she was a pornstar, she was amused. I never dare to start doing ''dirty talk'' without being invited to do so, but with her, I started right away and she was totally down for that and said ''wow, that's cool... I really didn't picture you like that''... me neither . As for myself, I fingered her like crazy, made her cum like hell and she told me after the encounter that next time, she absolutely wanted my cock up her ass... The girl is amazing in every aspect and so nice and fun. She had a really bad opinion about this business and was severely criticising other pornstars doing so, but a series of events made her start and she totally loves it. She feels like she is bringing joy to many men (and boy does she deliver) and finds it extremely gratifying. I think it is a bit difficult to find someone that easy going, so really, what are you afraid of ?

As for your physique, here is what she told me: I don't care about looks. My favorite client is a 400 pounds dude. He is super sweet. He books me for three hours, f*cks me up the ass like crazy and then gives me tons of food he cooks for me. Just love him.
She also told me about a ''40 years old virgin'' type who lives with his over controlling mom and runs away to meet her and who is always scared she will find out and she thinks he's so sweet.

I am shy as hell and I always fear that I will end up with an SP with no conversation (thank god I've been lucky overall and always connected and had at least decent conversations), but you have no worries to have with her.

So seriously, lose that footer from your signature, just call her, get it over with and have fun. I shouldn't judge (I am trying to help you fulfill your dream), but given the fact that you have met SPs before, that you have money and that you know she is nice, I think you are making up excuses and that this whole thing is a bit ridiculous. I think the reason you don't see more posts is because everyone pretty much came up to the same conclusion... Sorry. I may be insensitive, but you are making something extremely simple, extremely complicated.

Anyways, best of ''luck'' though, I know you'll have a great time !

 

[panthere]

Panthere, I don't want to be rude, but seriously, you are a grown man and you've been with SPs before, so come on man. Don't know why you make a whole story about meeting a new one.

lollll i knew and really accept the opinion that you have...but no it is for ME not the same like other sp i would like to meet and would meet...yeah ok she is in the business for a long time...but for me it is special and would love to be superbe...btw i know SHE DONT CARE ..about my mini moi perform or something going wrong from me...she is gonna have a break in a way like you said...and i agree...but for me it is gonna be much different feeling.....and i am happy that you had a good time with her...for what i heard...she is amazing....so yeah i gonna go for her GARANTYYYYY...but still wanna had some feedback....cause it is like you would meet miss angelina jolie=the girls of your total dream exemple....you wish that everything would be amazinggg and wish to receive probably a trick that you didnt think to do..etc...

I think you are making up excuses and that this whole thing is a bit ridiculous. I think the reason you don't see more posts is because everyone pretty much came up to the same conclusion... Sorry. I may be insensitive, but you are making something extremely simple, extremely complicated.

i disagree on that note...cause AT ALL i am making excuse...and trust me on that...the sp and dancer that i know and been with..could confirm..I AM A MEN OF MY WORD....but for the post..i was just disapointed that nobody wanted to tell a story that happen to them in the same fantasy that they fufilll...

so thanks to all...i gonna go see her soon i reallyyy hope..just too bad she is working day shift...so hope for the best...

 

[panthere]

Just try to relax. She's great and easy to talk to. Being a stressful person myself it's a little hard to control, I know, but try. Personally I wouldn't book her for more than 2 hours the first time, it's plenty.

Just enjoy your time with her and whatever happens happens, just take it that way.

THANKS for you're comments...yeah i agree to try to relax...cause the stress would not be good at all loll...and also from the pm i receive i agree...one hour it is better for the first time...and thanks for you're post.

 

[Joe.t]

I agree, sit back and enjoy the ride, you have nothing to worry about because she is a big time sweetheart, one of the nicest ladies in the business, I can't wait for your review, have fun.:thumb:

 

[panthere]

I agree, sit back and enjoy the ride, you have nothing to worry about because she is a big time sweetheart, one of the nicest ladies in the business, I can't wait for your review, have fun.:thumb:

a big thanks joe.t...coming from you i am glad....thanks...and btw i don't find you're post about the encounter you had with miss nikova=did you had a bite of the feeling i have ....and thanks again..reallyyy appreciated

 

[ManApart]

Hi Panthere,

I know who you are talking about and trust me, I know her VERY well. This girl is everything that you would imagine. The most down to earth girl you will ever meet, despite her notoriety. Her #1 goal is to please her client and give him the best time he ever had. She knows guys have seen her films and have expectations and sometimes she is actually nervous about living up to them.

Sometimes fantasy girls don't live up to an image we have, but I'm very confident she will for you. If you are nervous, you will feel fine within 5 mins, I'm sure.

 

[lgna69xxx]

I totally agree with MA, at the party she was sooooooooooooooooo sweet and you'd never guess she was a PS unless you knew beforehand. We had a wonderful conversation about everything but sex, totally down to earth type of woman and gorgeous, all at the same time. Panthere, go for it!!

 

[anniesexy]

hi to you all....
i saw a couple of sp and some regular for a long time.. ...for the past years.....i was always a bite inxious at the beginning to see a new sp....a new meeting etc..but it was during like 1 or 2 minute before the meeting and that it.....but now i am afraid to see somebody...i think you knew who:eyebrows:....i am a bite available....i work like crazy....i am a work addict i have to say...love money lolll....and missing a day of work...i have a hardddd time doing so....

okay my point is....i am afraid of meeting this person...cause i am afraid that everything is going to be wrong..be disapointed or her being disapoijnted.....be not a good performer snifff....that the mini moi doesnt work like he is suppose too....you know..allll of those inquiry that i have...also the damn stresss etc....

and also i am a big guy like a lot of you know....6foot4...320....belly beer.. like bouncer guy....that i still wear well ..but still..you know it is not a regular meeting for me....it is the FANTASY...the DREAM...you know...

so what is the way to go...you THINK...

book her for 2..3 hours.....i was thinking that a lot...but if the chimistry is not there ouchhh....
take a lot of pills of viagra lollll...that I NEVER USE...but damn i gonna find them loll
i have a lot of mistake idea...in my head...i dont know what to do....
but i WANT HER ...a lotttttt ...and also the most important thing for me...that she enjoy the session.....i would eat her like...bip bip bip...

so please feel free to tell me you're idea or you're story of a fantasy that you finally did....or happen....and what is the way to prepare yourself for it...
thank you in advance...sorry for my english sometimes...but i think you know what i mean...
p.s. in french also...you could respons

Tell you something honey, it's not easier for us the first one....it's a guess every time...but I like that hihihi

 

[panthere]

Tell you something honey, it's not easier for us the first one....it's a guess every time...but I like that hihihi

i guess...and hoping in a way....will see loll

Hi Panthere,

If you are nervous, you will feel fine within 5 mins, I'm sure.

i am hoping the stress will go away after 5 minute in that case lolll...and thankkkk you for you're input always a pleasure....

I totally agree with MA, at the party she was sooooooooooooooooo sweet and you'd never guess she was a PS unless you knew beforehand.

mister igna69xxx..thanks for the info....very much in pm alsoeuhhh what...a party...when...along ago...i miss that sniffff...grrrrr.....just seing her....hummmm....i love gt ...and i miss that one....

but yeah i gonna have to destroy my wall of stress for sure...thank you all...very much appreciated.