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I'm losing my powers. Any tips? Erectile Dysfunction?

Gungrir

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Hey,

At First, I used to be able to go for hours. The only problem was that i was not able to cum without jerking out. I was basically like a pornstar ( I used to be more active, like going to the gym, etc.). On few occasions, I would cum from intercourse but rarely. Then a couple of years ago, I started to have trouble maintaining an erection with certain sp. Now, when I decided to quit the hobby, It's kinda on and off. I have found few culprits and i wanted your opinion on it.

PS: I also lost my erection during my first time with a girl i met online.

Culprit #1: Stamina, in my pornstar years lol, i used to go to the gym at least 3 times a week and was also 19 years old. I had no problems keeping it up. I could do it 3-4 days a day. Even if i masturbated the same day. Now, I am a couch potato go everywhere by car, eat and sleep, work on a desk.

Culprit #2: Porn. I did an experiment where I cutoff porn and masturbation entirely. My most expensive month of hobbying because it would get angry alot easier. Therefore to get rid of the stress without masturbaing to porn. I had to see an escort at the moment. I started experimenting something that never happened me often which orgasm during intercourse. I actually ended up coming way too fast. I even had sex with some girl on that i wasnt even into and came fast too.

Culprit #3: Before going to a trip i decided to do exercices to get rid of some fat. Then I met a girl from tinder. We had sex in a dry sauna i got dyhidrated and lost the erection the first time. It was a public sauna so stress probably played a role too. Second time, same sauna I did it quick and worked out well. Later i got an injury from doing exercices. So now, again, i'm not longer in shape.

Culprit #4: Cardio and Condom. Last week i went to a motel with that same girl. We had sex at first it was ok. But I ended up being out of breach because shitty cardio and lost erection numerous times. As for the condom, after loosing the erection the foreskin ended up covering part of the tip making it harder to feel anything. I believe air got it somehow.

Culprit #5: Sleep Deprivation. I sleep on average 5 hours and a half. some days i only get few hours of sleep like 1-3.

Culprit #6: Pain. Sometimes when erected i had a pain at the base of my penis.
 

Godfather

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Well it seems to me that you have it all figured out, if you can identify the causes of your problem it means you can start working on solving it.

I guess the solution looks like this:

1- Work out;

2- Quit porn;

3- Don't have sex in public if it makes you too nervous;

4- Do some cardio;

5- Sleep 8 hours a night;

6- That is unusual, never happened to me at least. From what I just researched on Google it could simply be a muscle strain or could be prostatitis. Since you said you had this pain "sometimes" it means it went away so the logical thing is you probably just had a muscle strain but still, according to what I read on medicinenet.com (which could be nonsense, it's the internet after all) Prostatitis can potentially be caused by some STD's (Neisseria gonorrhoeae, Chlamydia trachomatis, or HIV). Since you see escorts and have sex with strangers from Tinder you should get checked at a clinic. I wouldn't panic, HIV is unlikely unless you have sex with without a condom and as for gonorrhoeae and chlamydia, they can be treated.

I think the porn part has a huge impact, you can visit yourbrainonporn.com to understand more about this. Personally I have erectile issues when I watch a lot of it, when I cut it off completely this problem goes after a week or two.

Good luck
 

Sol Tee Nutz

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Look behind you.
Good luck

You were the fisrt person to reply, do you really think you had to reply with quote? Do you figure we did not know the person you were replying to?
 

Halloween Mike

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Everything can be a factor.

Myself i can totally say that my erections are not like they used to be when i was 18/19.

It may be due to having drank alcool a lot in the last 15 years and it may genuinly not work as good as before.

But there is also the factor of "having seen it all" that play a role. Back in the old days porn was not as easy to find as today. I seen so much porn in the last 12 years that honestly i can't say i get as exited by it anymore. Vanilla 1 on 1 bores me and it must be with a hot new girl for me to get into it or an absolute favourite of mine. I try to go more for blowbangs/gangbangs or sometimes its as dumb as the scenario of the scene that can turn me on. Back in the early 2000s i couldn't give a shit about the scenario, as long as the girl was hot...


Same could be said with SPs. There some SPs i see sometimes where i think that damn there beautifull, but the chemistry is off and/or they don't have that sexual drive. I think that if i had seen them in my first year or 2, before seeing the absolutely amazing SPs i seen over the years who not only have beauty but also attitude, chemistry and sex drive, then it would had been very different. I would had been the most happy guy on the planet on that day. Now even if she is super pretty, if i don't feel that sex drive (or call it execellent acting if you want) then it won't be a memorable experience.

But its to be expected. I was a virgin who saw those hot girls in the pornos and all i wanted was to have sex with them. It was like an impossible dream. Fastforward years later and i have been there, done that.

So it may be partly psychologic to be honest...
 

Godfather

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You were the fisrt person to reply, do you really think you had to reply with quote? Do you figure we did not know the person you were replying to?

I just clicked it by mistake instead of reply and didn't bother to change it because I didn't think it mattered. But if its such a big deal, here, I removed it
 

Aficionado

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You were the fisrt person to reply, do you really think you had to reply with quote? Do you figure we did not know the person you were replying to?

What is the fucking problem STN, a lot of members do this.
It's really no big deal Chill out Buddy!
 

kabukicho

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Gun, are you presently regularly masturbating? if so, you may be suffering from 'death grip'. if so, even ED pills it's been stated in some circles... won't get you past this kind of ED. Death grip, delayed ejaculation etc... it's a whole mess. These people perform reboots of their bodies. To resensitize their cock back to vaginal stimulation and their brain for arousal through vaginal sex, not hand sex & watching video sex.
 

Gungrir

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Yeah, it was at least once a day. I stopped 4 days before having intercourse with the girl. Clearly wasn't enough, I guess.
 

kabukicho

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Yeah, it was at least once a day. I stopped 4 days before having intercourse with the girl. Clearly wasn't enough, I guess.

oh. you gonna have to try and have no beating off with any of your hands for like 2 months. go read about no fap on reddit and nofap.com or something, and google deathgrip and delayed ejaculation. most cases can be fixed bro. but you gotta invest the time and effort of abstinence to find where your healing horizon is.

yea 4 days is by far not enough, does nothing. bare minimum prob 5 weeks, just to see where you at.

oh and when beating off, always use a lube, never bare hands any more, if you do, in the future.
 

chowzilla

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-lay off the porn
-if u do spank the monkey, make yourself last longer... try to last more than 20min with lube
-kegels exercise
-book when ur horny not when ur bored or out of habit
-be as relaxed as possible
-try better condoms
 

Gungrir

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Wow two months... RIP my porn collection and Japanese porn.
 

Sol Tee Nutz

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Look behind you.
Cialis, works well even on day two, even works after a few drinks.
 

Sol Tee Nutz

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Look behind you.
^^^^^ Duct tape and twine will fix it.
 

kabukicho

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You may as well tell me to cut my cock off! Lol

well no... you can release. but not via hand stroking. but its just that in most cases it leads to just shutting thngs down completely for a period of 8 weeks. dont bother the penis.
 

jalimon

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You may as well tell me to cut my cock off! Lol

No because porn is in your brain so you will still watch it. Cut off the Internet or install a kid firewall that cut off porn sites?

That should do it.

I remember in university just as exam week was coming my roomate would put all his video games (cdrom at that time) in a box and ship it to himself in low priority so he would get 7-8 days free of them to study ;)

Cheers,
 
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