Is an 18 year old girl too young?

[CaptRenault]

Don't most feminists believe in more rights for sex workers? I'm pretty sure that's a big feminist thing. Fighting for sex worker rights is a big left thing now.

If anything, it's the right that is fucking up the hobby in the US. Religious conservatives are pushing to kill the hobby....

Yours is a typical, delusional belief about the position of feminists and the left on prostitution. Opposition to prostitution comes equally from the right and the left.

There are no prominent feminist organizations that clearly support the decriminalization of prostitution for both sex workers and clients. Some feminist organizations hide behind the position of support for the "Nordic Model" i.e. decriminalizing sex work for the provider but not the client. Such a position is hypocritical because it's like saying that it is perfectly legal to work as a barber but not legal for anyone to get a haircut. Such a situation would not exactly improve the lives of barbers any more than it helps sex workers.

Here are two links that clearly show mainstream (not "radical") feminist organizations that oppose prostitution. One is in the U.S. (NOW) and one is in Canada (Canadian Women's Foundation).

This Top Women’s Group Is Tearing Itself Apart Over Sex Work

There’s a growing divide within the feminist movement on whether the sale and purchase of consensual, adult sex should be decriminalized.

www.thedailybeast.com

https://www.canadiancentretoendhumantrafficking.ca/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/No-More-Ending-Sex-Trafficking-in-Canada.pdf

Now let's get back to discussing the topic of the thread, i.e., is an 18-year old too young to work as an escort?

 

[SStriker]

I’m 36 years old and honestly I’d like to meet a 18 years old provider anytime soon.
We cannot be sure of that, but obviously this young lady must have taken the decision to be an SP by herself and not be held in that position by force… that would literally be a no no in that case

that being said i usually meet end 20s - mid 30s gals for their experience in the industry. I like meeting cougars once in a while also. I don’t make that « the younger, the better » an obsession. As GreyPilGrim mentioned, Variety is the key and it’s the reason why I choose couple years back to play the game.

I want a bimbo today.. hunt and pick one
I want something wild and naughty, pick one
I want a lover tonight, let’s choose a girlfriend for an hour or two!

 

[Numerati]

Many wouldn't hit a 18/19 year old and that is understandable. Yet imagine this.

Say you booked a girl you want to see and for some reason she cancels and bails on you if she is an indie or if she is an agency girl just didn't show up on her shift. You are horny as hell in your hotel room. Shit showered and shaved all ready to go with Viagara in your system 60 minutes prior.

You are offered a 19 year old to replace this MIA.

What would you do? LOL.

 

[CaptRenault]

…You are offered a 19 year old to replace this MIA.

What would you do? LOL.

Something similar happened to me. I booked her, and she turned out to be very good.

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/savannah-elite-companions-ex-euphoria.159110/#post-1082031

 

[cpp433]

Trumpism is a term used by the far-left. I do not read or follow Trumpism. I read and follow Libertarianism. Both the left and right are against prostitution. FOSTA and SESTA was passed by both Democrats and Republicans, only two senators opposed it. And you know in the US prostitution laws are managed by the states, all states (Democrat and Republican states) but one has illegal prostitution. Only the Libertarians are for abolishing all victimless crimes like abortion, prostitution, to end the war on drugs, to have the right to bear arms, etc.. Lets put it this way, I am against Authoritarianism. I do not follow left or right, both are part of the same problem and I completely agree with yout last sentence.

Interesting statement on victimless crimes
Abortion- do i really need to explain
Prostitution- plenty of trafficked woman among other abuses and exploitation
Drugs- countless ruined lives, deaths, health issues, cost to the taxpayers

 

[CLOUD 500]

Interesting statement on victimless crimes
Abortion- do i really need to explain
Prostitution- plenty of trafficked woman among other abuses and exploitation
Drugs- countless ruined lives, deaths, health issues, cost to the taxpayers

Interesting statement. Give me one example of when prohibition actually worked? Look at prohibition era in the 1920s. All failure. For drugs, it is the choice of the individual to take them. No one stuck a gun to them and forced them to take it. For trafficking, prohibition will not stop it. Got to tackle the real socio-economic issue here. Generally trafficking is driven by poverty and is more of a problem in third world countries vs occidental countries. Abortions: Liberals promoting it. With all the forms of birth control available abortion should be a last resort option.

 

[Like_It_Hot]

The original question was:

Is an 18 year old girl too young?​

Then everybody is answering to a very general question. Some tries to push personal political agenda, as weird as it is.
The real question should have been, too young for what? Voting, buying a car, going to war, making suicide, running a country, taking care of 10 children, etc.
Most interpreted it as working as an escort or similar activity. Of course they can legally do it in most countries.
If the question is would I date an 18 years old girl, the answer is I did that when I was also 18. But at my age, 50++, its out of question. I'm not interested going on with an unmature human being, almost a child. There is a big difference between 18 and 25 for women. For guys, often it takes 5 more years to achieve the same maturity.
So, for me, at my age, my preferences are at least 25, the best being 30-45.
As a parent, if my daughter of 18 would like to strip or escort, I would have a hard time accepting it but I would not cut the communication. If she would be 25 or over, it would be a different story. And stop thinking 18 years old do this kind of job to pay the University.
Of course, for those guys being under 30, it's normal if they wish a young girl but for real men???

 

[jonas1234]

The great thing about this hobby is that I can hook up with girls half my age who wouldn't normally give me the time of day.
So no, I don't think 18 is too young.
But sometimes I wonder if I'm spoiling myself. What happens when I meet a civilian my own age who finds me attractive. Will she be too old for me?
Curious what the other guys here think about this. How do you go back to sleeping with women your own age after hobbying with gorgeous young escorts?

 

[2fast2slow]

The great thing about this hobby is that I can hook up with girls half my age who wouldn't normally give me the time of day.
So no, I don't think 18 is too young.
But sometimes I wonder if I'm spoiling myself. What happens when I meet a civilian my own age who finds me attractive. Will she be too old for me?
Curious what the other guys here think about this. How do you go back to sleeping with women your own age after hobbying with gorgeous young escorts?

theres a lot of truth in what you say. From the time i started consuming porn (at the age of 10 with Playboy and Penthouse) until now (50 yo+), I have aged 40+ years, but the girls i find attractive have not, i.e. the sweet spot between 18 and 25. That is not going to change. When I will be 90, i will still find 18-25 yos the most attractive. I get a lot of older women checking me out but i could never be able to be intimate with them because this hobby has definitely spoiled me. Nothing wrong with them (some are objectively attractive). It's not them it's me

 

[curly]

theres a lot of truth in what you say. From the time i started consuming porn (at the age of 10 with Playboy and Penthouse) until now (50 yo+), I have aged 40+ years, but the girls i find attractive have not, i.e. the sweet spot between 18 and 25. That is not going to change. When I will be 90, i will still find 18-25 yos the most attractive. I get a lot of older women checking me out but i could never be able to be intimate with them because this hobby has definitely spoiled me. Nothing wrong with them (some are objectively attractive). It's not them it's me

You should try the older women once in a while. Less game playing, more experienced, more sensuous. I like the prettiness of the young ones, but appreciate the skills and attitude of mature women.

 

[malboro_man]

I found some stock photos online. I have a photo of a woman in her late teens or early 20s and another in her 40s. Which one do you prefer? LOL

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

What happens when I meet a civilian my own age who finds me attractive. Will she be too old for me?

Maybe not too old but you are more likely to find her a bit vanilla at first!

 

[CLOUD 500]

You should try the older women once in a while. Less game playing, more experienced, more sensuous. I like the prettiness of the young ones, but appreciate the skills and attitude of mature women.

My experience has been the complete opposite.

 

[malboro_man]

theres a lot of truth in what you say. From the time i started consuming porn (at the age of 10 with Playboy and Penthouse) until now (50 yo+), I have aged 40+ years, but the girls i find attractive have not, i.e. the sweet spot between 18 and 25. That is not going to change. When I will be 90, i will still find 18-25 yos the most attractive. I get a lot of older women checking me out but i could never be able to be intimate with them because this hobby has definitely spoiled me. Nothing wrong with them (some are objectively attractive). It's not them it's me

I have the same experience with porn as you but I started when I was 6 LOL! I find girls 18-21 the most attractive

 

[curly]

My experience has been the complete opposite.

Well, you had tough luck buddy....

 

[Like_It_Hot]

Curious what the other guys here think about this. How do you go back to sleeping with women your own age after hobbying with gorgeous young escorts?

I take life as a buffet, different experiences, different tastes. I like sweet candies, sour candies, salted meals, sweet asian plates and of course dessert.

 

[Like_It_Hot]

I found some stock photos online. I have a photo of a woman in her late teens or early 20s and another in her 40s. Which one do you prefer? LOL

I prefer 30 Y.O. and I'm sur she will still be gorgeous at 36.

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[CaptRenault]

The field of evolutionary psychology has a lot to say about what men (and women) find attractive in the opposite sex. Prof. David Buss of the University of Texas is a leading researcher in evolutionary psychology (specifically, "mate selection"). His work confirms that, across many different cultures, men are naturally attracted to women who exhibit characteristics of youthfulness. Women, on the other hand, value men who demonstrate an ability to provide resources to them.

Genders differ dramatically in evolved mate preferences

Men’s and women’s ideas of the perfect mate differ significantly due to evolutionary pressures, according to a cross-cultural study on multiple mate preferences. According to the study, men favor mates who are younger and physically attractive. Women seek older mates with good financial...

www.sciencedaily.com

Men's and women's ideas of the perfect mate differ significantly due to evolutionary pressures, according to a cross-cultural study on multiple mate preferences by psychologists at The University of Texas at Austin.

The study of 4,764 men and 5,389 women in 33 countries and 37 cultures showed that sex differences in mate preferences are much larger than previously appreciated and stable across cultures.
"Many want to believe that women and men are identical in their underlying psychology, but the genders differ strikingly in their evolved mate preferences in some domains," said co-author of the study and psychology professor David Buss. "The same holds true in highly sexually egalitarian cultures such as Sweden and Norway as in less egalitarian cultures such as Iran."

Mating is multidimensional and requires matching a pattern of mate preferences to a pattern of potential mate features. The researchers suggest that these patterns of mate preferences are far more linked to gender than any individual mate preference examined separately would suggest.

Researchers found that they could predict a person's sex with 92.2 percent accuracy if they knew his or her mate preferences.

"The large overall difference between men's and women's mate preferences tells us that the sexes must have experienced dramatically different challenges in the mating domain throughout human evolution," said lead author and graduate researcher Daniel Conroy-Beam.

According to the study, men favor mates who are younger and physically attractive. Women seek older mates with good financial prospects, higher status and ambition.
"Because women bear the cost of pregnancy and lactation, they often faced the adaptive problem of acquiring resources to produce and support offspring, while men faced adaptive problems of identifying fertile partners and sought cues to fertility and future reproductive value," Conroy-Beam said.

Of the 19 mate preferences that researchers considered, five varied significantly based on gender: good financial prospects, physical attractiveness, chastity, ambition and age. Four other preferences -- pleasing disposition, sociability and shared religious and political views -- were not sex-differentiated.

"Few decisions impact reproduction more than mate choice," Conroy-Beam said. "Mate preferences will therefore be a central target and driver of biological evolution. We have found some promising initial results, and we think this holistic approach will help answer a lot of questions in mating research in the future."

The study "How sexually dimorphic are human mate preferences?" was published in the August 2015 issue of the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.

 

[malboro_man]

I prefer 30 Y.O. and I'm sur she will still be gorgeous at 36.
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Modern 30-year-old women often look so stunning that it is easy to confuse them for 20-year-olds. They are just as beautiful and young. And it is not just about the appearance, but it’s also about their behavior, their voice, and their body language. Women with a 10-year age difference look as...

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It looks like the girl had a nose job by 30, maybe some botox and/or plastic surgery and alot more makeup. I'd like to see the girl w/o makeup when she was 30. I love the natural look when she was 20.

 

[CLOUD 500]

It looks like the girl had a nose job by 30, maybe some botox and/or plastic surgery and alot more makeup. I'd like to see the girl w/o makeup when she was 30. I love the natural look when she was 20.

In addition very often but not always as girls age especially when they hit 30, they tend to get out of shape/gain lots of weight. I seen many examples of that at stripclubs. For me that is one of the reasons I prefer girls in their early 20s. Also young girls usually tend to give more and are usually more open to give extras. That has been my experience.