Is it better with your atf or with a new girl

[cloudsurf]

I had one true ATF . The factors that made her special were that each time I was planning to see her, the anticipation was overwhelming. Not only was she perfect looks wise and our sexual chemistry was awesome, but I loved her spicy and sweet personality. She was also unpredictable and each session was better than the last. Her personality could be explosive and selfish, but also at times angelic and giving.
Only woman that I ever had an electric or cellular connection with. If she hadn`t gotten married and moved out of town 10 years ago, I would still probably be seeing her. Her orgasms were a sight to behold....her whole body would start vibrating and not stop till I got out of bed.

Since then I`ve had annual ATF`s every year. The past 2 years were Lady Zoe and Alana Forbes. If you guys met either of them , and had good chemistry , you`d know why. I`d rather repeat with both of them than see most new girls.

 

[DrJ_TheGhost]

For me an ATF is not someone I see exclusively. That would mean she is like a gf. An ATF for me is someone I know I am going to have a good time with, have a good connection, and I am comfortable around. I will see others whether she is available or on vacation. I will see her more often than others though.

 

[nico61]

I have an ATF that I see. We really have a connection over the past year or so, I have gotten her personal phone number, I know where she lives. we have a great time together. She has told me “we can never really be lovers” and that’s basically because of the age difference between us. and I totally agree with her! She is so mature about this. she Tells me quite often about what’s going on in her personal life. and I tell her about mine. she told me even if I stop seeing her at work, she would always talk to me As a good friend. I hold no expectations in seeing her and that is quite clear. She will leave this “ business“ one day and I’m hoping she finds love, happiness and success.

 

[Fradi]

Another question I ask myself: when your ATF goes on vacation or to travel for work, are you going to meet another SP?

Yes,
My ATF actually encourages me to see others from time to time, if I ask she will even recommend ones that she thinks I will like.
I have been seeing her from the first time I met her. I doubt any other escort will ever connect with me the way she has.
She is one of the kindest most thoughtful people I have ever met, she is not just a companion but a close friend.
I still look forward to seeing her the same way every time and I don’t think I will ever be able to see her enough times.
I hope one day she will find the same kind of love and happiness that I had in my life, she deserves nothing less, just an amazing and totally gorgeous young lady in every way.

 

[Halloween Mike]

With a regular you know what to expect, its usually always great. Over time it may not be as special since you already did it many times with it and lets be honest, we all have this drive to have sex with someone new, adding one "to the list" lol, but with a regular its so easier to connect, not be shy, and you start to know each other.

New girls well like the OP said, if she is really into it, really grea at her job, she will put you at ease right away. I had some like Vanessa at Lou's, Jennifer at Euphoria, Xo, and others who right away were so into it that the shy factor was gone in minutes.

But when its not the case, it can be very awkward and its easy to leave disapointed.

 

[Flyingby]

Saw my atf again. (Well this years atf,it varies every year)
It was as good if not better than when seeing a new girl. The jitters were there. The sex was off the charts. Probably because of the level of comfort.
saw a few new to me girls recently. Left satisfied. But not overly and not at the same level as with atf.
I’ve discovered that if I see a different girl in between sessions with atf. I appreciate it more

 

[Skym]

Unfortunately for me, my ATF left the business recently & just ignored me in a flash (so disappointing) and now, I have no ATF or no.1 exact favorite atm.

So at the moment, I'm in a flux with no clear favorite girl.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

...& just ignored me in a flash.

You should never expect anything from SPs, they have a real life and a certain ability to move on with it. Just have your fun while it last.

 

[Skym]

Certain ability to move on? Ha! That's for sure lol. #coldblooded

 

[Bbw hunter]

Certain ability to move on? Ha! That's for sure lol. #coldblooded

Cold-blooded? Dude, it's their job. When they are ready to move on they usually cut the ties. Do you really think they want old clients contacting them after moving on? Some will. Most won't. Don't take it personally. It's fun to lose yourself in the fantasy when we see them but don't confuse this with reality. They are companions for hire, not wives or gf's.

 

[Skym]

Bump thread.

Definitely an ATF is better, imo.

Replacing an ATF is not easy, recreating the same magic or chemistry doesn't happen just like that, imo

 

[xooxxo]

Every time I see someone new I'm hoping they'll be so amazing that I'll have to repeat, it doesn't happen very often so I guess I'm doomed to keep seeing new girls

 

[Jericho_2021]

Every time I see someone new I'm hoping they'll be so amazing that I'll have to repeat, it doesn't happen very often so I guess I'm doomed to keep seeing new girls

same here. throughout 3 decades of hobbying, a fraction of the new girls has left an impression. of course, it is always fun to see a new face, i get that, but a Good ATF will always be hard to beat.

 

[Gazoo64]

I prefer to repeat with an ATF or regulars. There’s usually some chemistry and familiarity that’s built up over some repeat encounters, which is difficult to recreate. I’ll sometimes try a new SP, but more often than not it’s an average or below average encounter and not a repeat for me. Once in a while, it’ll happen that I’ll have a great time with a new girl and I’ll repeat.

To each his own, but for me, nothing beats repeating with a girl that offers great service and there’s nice chemistry!

 

[Skym]

I prefer to repeat with an ATF or regulars. There’s usually some chemistry and familiarity that’s built up over some repeat encounters, which is difficult to recreate. I’ll sometimes try a new SP, but more often than not it’s an average or below average encounter and not a repeat for me. Once in a while, it’ll happen that I’ll have a great time with a new girl and I’ll repeat.

To each his own, but for me, nothing beats repeating with a girl that offers great service and there’s nice chemistry!

Same.

If I try a totally new SP, and session wasn't good. I'll feel like an idiot and say to myself, I should've stuck with my favorites and get my money's worth. Lol

 

[bobbyc]

Same.

If I try a totally new SP, and session wasn't good. I'll feel like an idiot and say to myself, I should've stuck with my favorites and get my money's worth. Lol

exactly but its always sad when that girl disappears

 

[Skym]

My ATF kinda looks like Annika Albright lol

 

[Flyingby]

My ATF kinda looks like Annika Albright lol

No she dosen’t. You only wish she did because you call yourself Mick Blue

 

[CydoniaNights]

I always saw other girls between sessions with my atf. Although it was nice to play the field I wish i saw her more because she retired far too soon.

 

[Skym]

My current ATF doesn't eat loads which is a shame (though she's great at everything else)

That said, I need to try different new girls. I need to discover new hotties, find out which girls love to eat nuts.lol