Is it common place to get a number from a SP?

[Red Paul]

A number of girls have given me their number, for business purposes. I never followed thru, though.

Two girls have given me their email addresses just to chat. One of them was the mighty Daryn, then at Eleganza, and her address consisted of her first and last names -- the real names -- and a common email provider.

Via email I sent Daryn a fervent prose poem in French, and over the years I'd check out her Facebook page and the photos there of her and her various attractive friends. Now the page has gone private.

A few years after our first visit, I arranged a follow-up. This was done by calling her agency (at that point Mike's Mansion, I think) and following the usual channels. I never derived any advantage from Daryn's impulse beyond seeing those pictures and sending a poem. My brush with greatness was really due to the fact that Daryn could size me up and see I wouldn't try anything. Still, I'm proud that she thought I was worth the gesture.

 

[jmioffe]

My buddy thought the SP that gave him her number was interested in more than just sex. So they arranged to go out on a "date" and then back to his hotel room. When they were wrapping up their date she asked to be paid for the 2 hours at dinner and the 2 hours at the hotel room. It turned into something really ugly for both of them. Always make sure you know what the relationship is before you go down that road.

I can see how this gambit might work out for her because the embarrassment factor. A guy might pay just to avoid having her laugh at him for thinking they were compatible as a couple.

 

[jmioffe]

I'd imagine numbers are also less common now that Twitter is getting popular among many WGs.

 

[Skym]

Happened to me a few times.

 

[dagreatness]

Does it happen to other people?

Because I remember on two occasions, I managed to get a phone number from two different girls from agency and we occasionally texted back & forth.

Never imagined getting a personal number from a girl from an agency but it happened anyways. I simply asked because I thought we vibed so well and it happened.

It happens all the time and then they go Indy or are about to leave the agency

 

[Stx]

It has happened a few times that I was offered their number, but it was only for one of them that it turned into something approaching a friendship.

Got a few drinks and hung out just shooting the shit.

 

[lanceloveright]

It has happened a few times that I was offered their number, but it was only for one of them that it turned into something approaching a friendship.

Got a few drinks and hung out just shooting the shit.

Biggest difference for me was being released from time management. With an agency I always have one eye on the clock. If you click with someone and the conversation flows, you can run out of time and her alarm is going off and the driver is calling. When private I asked "we don't have to worry about time?" and she said "don't worry about time". Makes all the difference in the world to me.

 

[Gazoo64]

^^^^
I agree. It makes all the difference when we don’t have to worry about time or the alarm going off.

 

[tockson]

Biggest difference for me was being released from time management. With an agency I always have one eye on the clock. If you click with someone and the conversation flows, you can run out of time and her alarm is going off and the driver is calling. When private I asked "we don't have to worry about time?" and she said "don't worry about time". Makes all the difference in the world to me.

Yep, thats the only reason i book for more than 2-3h after the 1st encounter....i hate been rushed by time, even 12h seems like 2h when the SP and you have great vibe‍

 

[Hemme]

I think so. They usually tell me i m x number in line to meet her.

 

[Skym]

I wish i had Arielle's number lol

 

[piecurious]

Biggest difference for me was being released from time management. With an agency I always have one eye on the clock. If you click with someone and the conversation flows, you can run out of time and her alarm is going off and the driver is calling. When private I asked "we don't have to worry about time?" and she said "don't worry about time". Makes all the difference in the world to me.

It really depends. In my experience, generally, agency providers who also take on independent outcalls may still loosely or strictly (YMMV) adhere to the agreed-upon meeting length, though, yes, they tend to be more flexible compared to when you see them in the agency incall context. This often translates to a more relaxed, 'unrushed' experience, though nobody reading this should take that to mean a ton of 'free time' given. Readers shouldn’t expect extended time unless the provider explicitly offers it upfront or includes it in the agreed upon terms. If she doesn’t, and you find yourself going significantly over the agreed time (e.g., 30mins-1hr or more), I think it’s considered good etiquette and respectful to offer an adjustment to the payment accordingly. Just my take. Yes, users here may be involved in unique arrangements where time constraints don't apply but ask yourself if they are the exception or the norm.

 

[bobbyc]

I wish i had Arielle's number lol

don't we all we should all have one last time with her

 

[25624]

I got the phone number of a popular sp many years ago. She went by the names Nadia and Frederique. It was around 2005 to 2008, I can't remember the exact year. I think she last worked for Montreal Sex City.

I saw her a total of three times. After one of our sessions we were just talking and she started dropping hints that she would go out with me. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me. There was no mention of money. I called her a couple of days later and made a date for dinner.

She met me at my hotel and we walked to a near by restaurant. We had a nice dinner and just talked. We walked back to my hotel room and talked some more. Money was not talked about or exchanged. If she wanted to have sex, I thought she let me know. We didn't.

We exchanged e-mail addresses before she left. She also told me her real name. When I got back home I e-mailed her once, she responded and that was it. I was living in Los Angeles at the time and didn't think we had a real future. I don't know if she was really interested in me or just wanted to stay in contact with a potential regular.

 

[envelopes]

Does it happen to other people?

Because I remember on two occasions, I managed to get a phone number from two different girls from agency and we occasionally texted back & forth.

Never imagined getting a personal number from a girl from an agency but it happened anyways. I simply asked because I thought we vibed so well and it happened.

Several offered on their own but those were obviously because I was an easy client. I remember specifically there were a couple sessions late night where I just wanted a BJ, no FS. They just straight up asked me to save their number. They wanted that easy $

As for the others, the ones I click with and I ask, they usually give it to me. And with some of them, I text if I was in Montreal and going to a party and they'd come. There are a couple who visit NYC and let me know and we go out. I think it might be because we're similar age and go to the same festivals/parties so they're down

 

[The Mac]

It happened to me twice, once on 2017 and then in 2019. After a few meetings they texted me out of the blue and we began to talk daily and eventually the latter one turned into some kind of fwb/gf, lasted a couple years and I had a lot of fun and learned a lot about woman nature.

 

[MtlGuyNow]

I was offered one and took it.
We exchanged msgs, hung out & did normal stuff, almost “real life”.
It was fun. A few thoughtful small gifts. Nothing fancy. No money exchanged.
I learned you may regret knowing the whole story, sometimes tragic. Developing genuine feelings & sympathy for what someone has been through changes the dynamic & one should move on.
No complaints.
Live & learn.

 

[Lexus3]

I was offered one and took it.
We exchanged msgs, hung out & did normal stuff, almost “real life”.
It was fun. A few thoughtful small gifts. Nothing fancy. No money exchanged.
I learned you may regret knowing the whole story, sometimes tragic. Developing genuine feelings & sympathy for what someone has been through changes the dynamic & one should move on.
No complaints.
Live & learn.

Her profession aside, no different from any other relationship or person you would have met and got closer to.