Is it me or PSE/GFE means nothing these days?

[Lunaseraphim]

Honestly I advertise myself as a GFE provider but I sometimes get clients who are looking for a PSE experience for cheaper... I generously offer cimsw on top of all the usual acronyms included in GFE (yes bbbj, dfk, daty etc) but that doesn't mean I secretly want this type of booking. Cause I don't.

Things I associate with PSE: greek, FF, dirty talking and insulting, very rough sex, hair pulling, slapping, choking etc. I'm saying that because this is what you see in a lot of hardcore porn. And I think a lot of providers who offer PSE would never allow some of the things I just mentioned.

I think as a client you have to be the one being honest about what your needs are, learn to read the room and avoid asking for services that aren't clearly advertised. Obviously I'm not talking about providers promising one thing as an advertising tactic and then you find out they don't actually provide these services in person..

It's not because we're being paid that we're not allowed to have boundaries.

 

[kstanb]

When PSE is offered, I see it more like an invitation to open the discussion on what PSE activities she likes and to define if some of our kinks match or not
if they don't match I would stick to GFE; which is a lot more homogeneous in terms of what it means

 

[Lunaseraphim]

When PSE is offered, I see it more like an invitation to open the discussion on what PSE activities she likes and to define if some of our kinks match or not
if they don't match I would stick to GFE; which is a lot more homogeneous in terms of what it means

I think that's really good practice honestly. Because of the reasons mentioned above I often ask new clients what their expectations are before a booking because not everyone asks questions or says what they're looking for. That way we're both on the same page.

 

[Enjoying life]

Honestly I advertise myself as a GFE provider but I sometimes get clients who are looking for a PSE experience for cheaper... I generously offer cimsw on top of all the usual acronyms included in GFE (yes bbbj, dfk, daty etc) but that doesn't mean I secretly want this type of booking. Cause I don't.

Things I associate with PSE: greek, FF, dirty talking and insulting, very rough sex, hair pulling, slapping, choking etc. I'm saying that because this is what you see in a lot of hardcore porn. And I think a lot of providers who offer PSE might not even allow would never allow some of the things I just mentioned.

I think as a client you have to be the one being honest about what your needs are, learn to read the room and avoid asking for services that aren't clearly advertised. Obviously I'm not talking about providers promising one thing as an advertising tactic and then you find out they don't actually provide these services in person..

It's not because we're being paid that we're not allowed to have boundarie

Honestly I advertise myself as a GFE provider but I sometimes get clients who are looking for a PSE experience for cheaper... I generously offer cimsw on top of all the usual acronyms included in GFE (yes bbbj, dfk, daty etc) but that doesn't mean I secretly want this type of booking. Cause I don't.

Things I associate with PSE: greek, FF, dirty talking and insulting, very rough sex, hair pulling, slapping, choking etc. I'm saying that because this is what you see in a lot of hardcore porn. And I think a lot of providers who offer PSE might not even allow would never allow some of the things I just mentioned.

I think as a client you have to be the one being honest about what your needs are, learn to read the room and avoid asking for services that aren't clearly advertised. Obviously I'm not talking about providers promising one thing as an advertising tactic and then you find out they don't actually provide these services in person..

It's not because we're being paid that we're not allowed to have boundaries.

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like my SP says, “Just ask, as it’s yes or no! Always be kind!