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Americans who are born to English speaking parents have no reason to learn more than English. Foreign language classes in the US are poorly taught unless you take many years of one language in both High School and College,...

The first part is a distortion, the second totally untrue. This is not about being an American anyway. It's about courtesy and respect when being in another country...for anyone.

First, given current necessity. French would not be the first priority language to learn. Spanish, is probably more valuable in the U.S. overall due to the largest growing minority group. Other languages might be more valuable depending on career choices. But French still gets you through many places in the world due to it's previous status as a language of diplomacy, the former colonial reach of French and it's adoption in those countries, and being the second most taught language worldwide after English. http://www.europeword.com/blog/euro...should-it-be-adopted-as-a-universal-language/ Also, any decent college and/or university requires a minimum number of years in a language, though which is usually optional.

Secondly, language teachers in the U.S. are as expert in their profession as anywhere. As in any learning, success reflects the students interest and efforts, as well as teaching ability. In many cases, the language teacher either grew up in a household where the language that person teaches was part of family communication and heritage or the teacher may have come from a place or country where the language is common/native. Many just love the languages they teach. As for techniques, now that the Rosetta Stone second language system has been added to class methodology it's easier to learn the language...IF one puts in the time as it would be for learning any other language...OR...any class subject.

Second, where I live there are no French speaking people, NONE, NADA, ZIP, ZERO. You don't learn any language when nobody is ever speaking it. Third, it is a hard language to learn.

Obviously, I agree if that means one never took a French class. ;) The basic problem for Americans is they may take a few years of another language as a college/university requirement, but there is little to no continued reinforcement for most after the learning for the reasons you said. But I do add French words to my vocabulary simply by reading it on my own, though there is a significant risk of pronunciation errors.

As for difficulty I disagree. French is less difficult to learn than most other languages due the very close historical connection brought about by the simple fact of geographical closeness and natural word exchange absorption, and the Norman Conquest of England nearly a thousand years ago that increased the absorption by being the language of the government for hundreds of years. The Normans having been in France for 150-200 years at the time (1066) and religiously converted, were thoroughly French and Catholic. I have found that many words in English have a close association with French words, with many having the same exact spelling.

Saying it's "too hard" indicates lack of interest, and so the problem.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_French_words_and_phrases_used_by_English_speakers

Also, the greater your vocabulary in English the easier it can be. I have found many French words very close to commonly used English words, or matching English words that are rarely used in daily conversation, words often referred to as..."big words". But knowing these English words has helped me relate more easily to the French forms.

The real problem for English-speaking students of French and French speaking students of English seems to be that some key syntax patterns of expression are different. It's one of the reasons computer translators make errors.

I don't understand why regular foreign hobbyists don't even try to communicate with the girls in French. Isn't a lack of respect?

True. There's a disrespectful disinterest or possibly arrogance in allowing this to happen. Imagine an American desiring an encounter with conversation and meeting a French escort in the U.S. who doesn't know any English. The escort goes on in French as if the American should be fluent and becomes annoyed that an American in his own country doesn't know any French. The American would find the presumption ridiculous. Yet too many Americans in Montreal often seeking French ladies expect the reverse.

In the U.S. for many Americans when hearing a person speak to them or around them in another language the common refrain is, "this is America, speak English." Yet that logic doesn't seem to apply for some Americans looking for French escorts. Of course, my own French language skills aren't nearly good enough. But at a minimum why not learn some simple greetings in French beyond "bonjour". I have found that the ladies and the people on the streets really appreciate the effort no matter how badly it's pronounced or worded.

I am practiced enough in common phrases that border guards, escorts, and store attendants are sometimes surprised that my initial efforts in French to address them are not followed by fluency in French. But they appreciate that I can do that much.

Essayer d'apprendre un peu de français comme une courtoisie.

We should all thank the ladies that their language education and graciousness is better than some Americans. Merci mes chers. :thumb:

Cheers,

Merlot
 

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This is a good question, Mike. Is it a question of chemistry? Just by reading your posts, I would say that you know enough English where an Anglo SP would not try to take advantage of you. Does fluency in the local dialect guarantee a good session? I would say no. Some of the worst sessions I have had were in the USA with American born providers. This was before I discovered sites like MERB on the Internet. I certainly do not think that you need to be able to speak French to have a good session in Montreal.

To answer this question I have to consider my experiences in other countries. Language has never been a problem in Quebec. In Latin America I was ripped off during my first session ever in Brazil and my first session in BA Argentina. The girl from Sao Paulo spoke English pretty well but she probably thought I was a rube because it was my first night in the country. The girl from BA did not speak a word of English. While globetrotting I learned that it is more important to find some English escort review boards and understand the hobby scene than it is to be proficient in the local dialect. Some knowledge of Spanish or Portuguese would have helped with the two rip-off sessions but I was barking up the wrong tree in the first place in both cases. In fact, the best experiences I have had in Latin American where with women that spoke absolutely no English but I was directed to them or their place of business by English speaking people I met on review boards.

I agree with Protagoras. In school I avoided language classes like the plague. I was worried about my GPA and I saw no use to study a second language. The class curves were always distorted by students whose parents spoke that language in the home. I regret this now. It wasn’t until I started to visit Quebec that I became interested in learning a second language. The hobby scene is part of the culture and it drew me in. I became interested in the language, the people, the restaurants, music, and history. The problem is a job change made my visits to Quebec less frequent. I started traveling globally. I fell in love with Brazil. Again, the hobby scene drew me in but I fell in love with the rest of the culture…the people, the food, the weather, music, customs, festivals etc. I started studying Brazilian Portuguese. Initially, my hope was to learn enough so that I could master the hobby scene. Now, I study because I want to learn the language so I can communicate with the many friends I made there.
 

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I took Spanish in high school and no languages in college in order to keep my GPA up as well. I had to get into a good grad school, after all. My Spanish is a bit better than my French, and I can actually communicate with some of my Hispanic clients in sentences. If you are in the legal profession where I live, there is some reason to learn Spanish, but none to learn French. There are no French speaking clients out there.

I have met some Francophones on this board in person. In some cases their spoken English is better than their written. We can suspect that Halloween Mike's spoken English is very good since his written is OK. I met one guy on this board whose written English is very crude, but in person he spoke what I would consider fluent English. I don't see an Anglophone escort putting one over on HM. With an Anglophone lady, he probably feels self conscious about his English and is more comfortable in his native tongue, however.
 
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The language of sex is universal and I guess it is already wired in our reptilian brain. That being said, it is always up to the provider, that is the SPs, to make efforts to accomodate the clients. Fortunately enough, Montreal SPs have still only American clients to cope with when it comes to foreign clients. The next generations of Montreal SPs will very likely have to handle clients coming from China or Qatar.

I don't think that Amercian clients need to learn french in order to show providers respect. A few words like bonjour and merci will amply suffice in my book. Though, I think that Protagoras is right about some Americans perceiving Montreal as the cheapest sex market in North America, but that is another topic.

There are very little incentives today for someone to learn french. I heard that high school students are rather interested to learn chinese or english. Even the english languange is loosing its appeal nowadays in favor of chinese.

English is my favorite language. I prefer british to american english though, it sounds much more musical and sexy. English is much easier to learn than french of course, much less exceptions in English than in French.
 

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I guess it comes from the stress when i did saw english speaking providers. Its weird cause i watch tv shows and movies in english, i may miss a few sentance ocasionally but not enough to make it confusing or something else. When i saw the girls tough, i had them repeat a bunch of times... either they where speaking too fast or using some slang i didn't know too well. Also i guess i wanted to be sure everything was super clear. I wasn't riped off, just tough the chemistry was not there. But i think some other factors where in play as well and i don't blame the language entirely.

I had conversation in english while being drunk with xbox love buddies and it was all good, no problem what so ever. But there was that one dude, he was very nice and all, but i had to make him repeat every 2 sentences. He was just american, not foreign with a weird accent, but the way he speaked and with a low pitch, i dunno... i had so much trouble understanding him, on top of that he speaked way too fast. At the end he was entering my parties just to chat and honestly i eventually deleted him cause i got tired of it. Its sad cause he was a nice guy and playing with him was good enough, but when the dude join your party and you constantly have to make him repeat, its annoying. But other english friends, i RARELY make them repeat.

I guess tough im way better at writing(even if i do grammar errors) cause im more use to it, and on the other hand i don't talk much in english since years.

In the case of this particular thread, i supose its easier for a french provider to turn to english than the other way, and i supose you guys are used to it, unlike me wich i usually see a french native 9 out of 10
 

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Mike,

Because English is a widely spoken language and the official language of many countries (like Spanish) there is a wide variety of dialects, accents, slang, and differences in pronunciation and tone. I have a hard time understanding some people from England who are native English speakers. Along the same lines, in some parts of the USA, English is spoken with different accents and slang words, like the USA south. Anglophones from England, on the other hand, use words that are not contained in any American slang dictionary. For example, the English use the word "punter" to describe a "hobbyist" or "john" according to American slang. They also use adjectives like "bloody" that you will never hear in the USA. We just do not use that word.

Because Spanish is so widely spoken in the Caribbean, and Central and South America, the same issues exist with Spanish. I once had a Puerto Rican client who requested that his deposition testimony be translated from Spanish into English. The translator agency sent an Argentinian translator. There was a total disconnect between my client and the translator. The Caribbean version of Spanish is spoken more rapidly and differently than the South American brand. We had to seek another translator specialized to Caribbean Spanish.

I have been told by a Canadian Anglophone friend that I have a "New England accent." This theoretically should not be surprising, since I have lived my entire life in New England. However, I do not hear such an accent coming out of my mouth or anyone else living in my home area. To my ears, we speak English normally and properly. I can tell a difference in the accents between natives of Boston and natives of New York. Recently I went to Florida on vacation and while there I met a guy from Alabama who had one of the thickest southern accents I have ever heard. His wife, a Florida native, had a much milder accent which is likely tamed by conversation with transplanted northern Americans in Florida. The guy from Alabama, however, was from the boonies and he had only ever talked to fellow hicks from the boondocks of Alabama, and that is why he talked as he did. It took me a while to get adjusted to his manner of speaking and his accent but I could understand him.
 
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Every native of France I have ever met said they have had trouble understanding Quebec French.
 

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Every native of France I have ever met said they have had trouble understanding Quebec French.

I once spoke to a native Frenchman from France who told me that in his opinion, Quebec Francophones spoke a "bastardized" version of the French language. Frankly I think a lot of English think the same about how Americans speak English. That gives Quebecoise French and Americans something in common: we are both thought of as the bastard children of our colonial masters from Europe who gave us our language.
 
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It's probably more important to understand some of the culture and history of the place you are visiting. Rather than waste your time trying to learn more than ten basic French words and phrases, spend your time reading about Québec, its people and their culture and history.
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I totally agree with this statement.
 

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They're thinking, "J'espère qu'il est beau et gentil et pas trop gros ou vieux et qu'il est propre et sent bien et qu'il ne veut pas essayer de faire trois SOGs dans une heure." Ou quelque chose comme ça.

That made laugh hard :p , i supose thats what they think indeed but inside they know most of there clients won't be... I mean cute and all. Being clean is a must, we all agree on that, but ... well i was gonna say most people that call escorts are probably not young stud, but then i guess from my past experiences and years on merb i realized a lot of good looking guys turn to escort for different reasons. In my head its very clear, fat/ugly dude see escort because he can't fuck in real life, while the young stud will get many hot chicks in bars and all, but there is also the married category and such, wich i still find strange(to me, but again i aint a model of normality) but they do take a huge place. In any case... some SPs mentioned to me(dunno if it was BS to make me feel better) than look don't matter much. Attitude and cleaness(hygiene corporel) are what matters. If a guy is not that good looking but a friendly person, its all fine, they prefer that to the good looking douchebag.

I once spoke to a native Frenchman from France who told me that in his opinion, Quebec Francophones spoke a "bastardized" version of the French language.

This may have been true years ago, but not so much anymore, if something frenches actually bastardize more the language than us these days... I rather take a quebecois that use a few englicism and a couple tabarnak in his dialogue than the typical "french dude from the zone" that speak with inverted words and bizarre expression that don't mean anything.
 

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Mike - who knows what the hot girls prefer over what? I sure don't. When I was a young stud I wasted so much time and effort chasing pussy all over hill and dale! Now I merely pick up the phone and dial about 10 digets.

Mike, the native Frenchmen I know would agree with you and not EB's French friend. One of my French collegues went to grad school in Quebec. He said that the Quebec version is an old version of French. He said that in France they will adopt the english words. For example in France they go "shopping." He said the term for "shopping" in Quebec is a word that they haven't used in France in 50 years. He also had to laugh about the langauage police in Quebec. He said it was a problem. So I don't think "Bastardized" is the correct term.

There are differences in English spoken in England and the USA. Spanish is different in every South American country and Spain, and I believe Brazilian Portuguese is different than Portugal Portuguese.
 

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Hungry,

You talked about the French, but not the English. The English will make you believe that Shakespeare, Dickens, Kipling and Tennyson are the only great writers of the English language. I say to them, well what about Nathaniel Hawthorne, Edgar Allan Poe, Mark Twain, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ernest Hemingway, and William Faulkner? All Americans, by the way.

I recall that there was a young French Canadian guy who used to post on this board, BenXXX. I actually met the guy. He could quote Poe. He knew the words to "The Raven." And to all young French Canadian guys, I say if you want to learn English, the cool English that young people want to know, then read Edgar Allan Poe. Poe died broke and broken hearted at a very young age, but that is another story.

Chicks dig Poe. Smart chicks, anyway. Halloween Mike, when it comes to English, this is THE MAN:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edgar_Allan_Poe
 
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I still remember the the parody review BenXXX made of the Raven. This inspired my review Parodies of Trees (mine was GDPs) and the Charge of the Light Brigade (The Charges to the Expense Account He Made) about me visitng the termases of Rio De Janeiro!
 

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I once spoke to a native Frenchman from France who told me that in his opinion, Quebec Francophones spoke a "bastardized" version of the French language. Frankly I think a lot of English think the same about how Americans speak English. That gives Quebecoise French and Americans something in common: we are both thought of as the bastard children of our colonial masters from Europe who gave us our language.
I totally agree with this statement :cool:. But not all on either side think this, as you aptly point in your precedent pot.

I have met many fine ladies who spoke English or French, and it never made a difference to me. I met less "primary" English speakers of course (purely statistical), but that never had any bearing on anything at he end of the date(s).

But going back over time, I found out a fairly even number of English and French lady "ATFs". On both sides of the "language divide" includes situations where neither language used is the primary language of the lady.

I'm finding an increasing number of primarily English-speaking ladies seeking to speak in French with me, part or all of the date. A fun situation especially with the cochon words ooh la la.

But all in all, I wouldn't be seeking to meet different ladies if I wasn't seeking "difference". A minor one, but even those make life more exciting.
 

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Every native of France I have ever met said they have had trouble understanding Quebec French.

Good joke! In Paris, it's true that they like to snob people from outside of Paris. But I worked with a lot (and I mean a lot) of French here in Montreal and never had the situation described in your post. Only lot of fun, working, going out, visiting each others.
 
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