Licking Pussy

[Iceman71]

My own personal perspective on DATY is to be good at it, you have to feel the urge to crave it and really want an orgasm from the woman you are with. A woman will react if she feels you really want to pleasure Her, there is a psychological side to sex that can't be denied. A man will fully enjoy a BBBJ that is not mechanical and given in an intent To pleasure you (eye contact etc). The same applies with a woman, yes every woman is different some are multi orgasmic white others might cum once only and the technic To use will definitely vary from one woman To another.

For me, the best way To achieve great DATY is to be sensitive to a woman's preference with DATY, some Will prefer gentle licks on the clit because they are too sensitive, some Will be able To withstand some succion of the clit while licking it. My best advice, work on the tongue flicking instead of moving your head while performing DATY.

Also, and this is so important, start slowly and be gentle in the beginning and gradually increase the pace. By following these simple rules I had good results but as I said earlier the results will vary.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

When you eat your Pussy,*
Do you eat the red ones last?*
Do you suck them very slowly,*
Or lick them very fast?*
Eat that nectar coated pearl,*
But tell me when I ask,*
When you eat your Pussy,*
Do you eat the red ones last?


For the old people who remember

 

[C.B. Brown]

Smarties for 500 H.B. i got a memory like a elephant
and yup red ones

 

[Flyingby]

For the old people who remember

Jingle ran until mid 90’s...i can’t believe you just called me old.

 

[Chef Boyardee]

If I lick pussy, I prefer not to lick public pussy.

 

[harwell1690]

Let's just say I've been thinking about this. And ready to renew my training.

What are your latest ideas?

Mine is: There are at least a million different ways to lick a pussy. And I only know 69 of them (ok, bad joke, but roughly right).

Teach me more ladies! Teach me more gents!

(And thanks to the ladies whose brains I licked via their pussies. Some wonderful memories.)

 

[sene5hos]

The right way to lick a pussy is the way your partner likes it. For that I simply ask them. And everybody are happy.

 

[Flyingby]

The right way to lick a pussy is the way your partner likes it. For that I simply ask them. And everybody are happy.

or the way she pretends to like it Which is pretty much every single technique

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

Why do you have to ruin the illusion for us Fly , let us live in our little fool’s paradise

Ps Always appreciate harwell1690 tips/contributions , even if the ladies hardly do haha

 

[rosedelacourt]

I always try to give constructive feedback as I do want to enjoy myself. However half the time the guy takes it personally and just stops.

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

Thanks for chiming in Rose and kind of endorsing it , myself I always believed in this thread haha

You speak from experience and god knows many of us can use some guidance/feedback , but the male ego can be a fragile thing

 

[DrJ_TheGhost]

No reason to take it personal. I love doing it so I might as well do it properly than blindly. Another way to see it, if you are going to put in the effort, at least do it in a way she enjoys it. Otherwise, why bother if you are going to do it just to say you did it without taking her into consideration.

 

[The Nature Boy]

Has anyone ever watched those YouTube videos on how to eat a girl out and wrote notes on your hand and used them while actually doin it?

 

[DrJ_TheGhost]

Yes but the sweat erased whether I should finish with the counterclockwise swirl or the pinch. I stopped to try and read the notes and she kicked me out. Credit to Seinfeld.

 

[The Nature Boy]

You know someone’s gottta have tried that to make it into an episode!

 

[ShyMan]

Oh, how I wish I could lick juicy pussies again. I may have to brush up on DATY 101 when I can do it again.

 

[harwell1690]

The right way to lick a pussy is the way your partner likes it. For that I simply ask them. And everybody are happy.

Good idea. Often, though, they can't explain to me what to do. (Some can explain. A fair amount.) Then, when I do some things (if I am lucky) she says "wow, where'd you learn that?".... ans: practice and listening (ex: holding her hand, and feeling how her hand moves when I do things).

But I still get stumped by some women. Everyone can be different. But fun to learn!! Women are great!

 

[harwell1690]

Has anyone ever watched those YouTube videos on how to eat a girl out and wrote notes on your hand and used them while actually doin it?

Yes, I watched some videos. Somewhat helpful.
One was ... Nina Hartley??... and some younger porn star. Some good ideas.
Writing on my hand? No. Although if you did and said it with a sense of humor, she might enjoy it.

OK. One scenario recurs to me.
1. Remember you are licking her mind as much as anything else.
2. Build up slowly. Tell her to do something, give up a bit of control. (eg, close her eyes, she must for you)
3. Touch her body, slowly building toward going south.
4. Lick very gently at first. All around there. Like she is your last meal. And you want to savor every taste.
5. Tell her she tastes great. (It needs to be true you feel that way. Don't ever lie.)
6. Get closer to the button. Now, you are trying to decide how much....friction...she likes. Usually less. Keep it VERY wet at first.
7. Roll near the button, the clit, but don't touch it.
8. At a good point (she has become aroused)...put the clit and the area around it in your mouth. Suck it in gently. And do a gentle little sucking thing on it. Gentle. You are NOT trying to suck it off. This is NOT how you want your dick sucked. This is more how women often gently lick and suck a cock....
Note: Sucking is a fine art. Depends partly on the anatomy of each woman. And putting just the right of suction to pull the blood there. Not friction, more suction. And very gently, for probably most women. Not sure every woman will like this, even if very gentle.
8b. Make her move her pussy against your tongue. You learn a lot that way.
9. Lick up through her slit and up and under and over the clit. Very wet. And then back down on the top of the clit with the bottom of your tongue.
10. By now, you have done many things. Pick one that she seems to like a lot, and stay with that in a rhythmic way. Maybe a long second (of time) of rhythm. Back and forth or up and down, or side to side. Or suck-suck-suck-suucckkkkk. Find the rhythm that takes her to the top.
10b. Tell her with your tongue how much you love doing this to her. And that you want to stay there as long as it takes. You love it! (Needs to be true.) (If you need to move to be comfortable, do it. Get in a position where you are relaxed enough.)
11. Make her work with you gently and slowly over the top.

Hope those ideas helped. Brings back to me some wonderful memories. Have to get back to the laboratory and test some more techniques for fun.
Oh. When done, tell her thank you. She'll want to thank you, but you thank her. It should be the truth.
Keep it positive, and always say only the truth. (If there were some negative aspects, don't talk about that, but figure out how to avoid the negative next time.)