Thanks harwell , but I`m still learning every time I see a woman. You can`t get better if you stop learning and trying different stuff. Besides it`s fun.
Here is the thing, while we all should know that every girl reacts differently to different stimuli.....a girl can and does react differently from day to day.
I suppose the nicest compliment you can get, besides "you are so good", is her telling you that she heard that you have great oral skills, from her friends at the agency.
The nicest compliment is the most sincere one.
Si c'est bon! She grabs you by the head and holds you there. And you can feel everything she is going through in her release. And then she pulls you up, looks in your eyes, and then kisses you, just so. She might mumble some words, but that's the best, I think. That action of "I have to give him a kiss for THAT" rather than the words.
But yes, if one girl tells another about you, then yes, she really remembered it. I think I have gotten that once or twice. Pretty sure.
But I am modest. And we must be modest.
I have much to learn and I am not good for everyone. (Sometimes it is nothing about me, as many SPs know. Sometimes the other person just never comes, or comes very rarely. Or he/she has come already 5 times that night, and not again this night.)
I do feel this, and I am told it is accurate....I am much better than I used to be. Learning. Even old guys can learn!
Two things:
1. If you like the girl, and she tastes good.... taking her to the moon is so much fun!! To hear her moan like that on the way up...and then over! Wow! Lots of fun for me.
Is Beethoven's Ninth Symphony better than that? (And I like Beethoven!)
2. All (I mean every woman I know) all woman will repay you big time if you do that for them. Personally, I do not need to be repaid, but I accept it happily. You can tell some times HOW much she liked it. Makes you feel good, to know that.
So, kids, it pays to get an education and to study and practice your multiplication tables. --- I am teasing, but it is the truth here.
I guess we should start talking about the head game (no, not as in "giving head" but as in the Head Game of Tennis).
She wants you to play with her mind. Man, that's a whole other encyclopedia!!!! As Kinky Cinderella said. But some of the basics are easy.
Examples:
* Some women want you to take control.
* Other women want to be in control.
One game:
My tongue would lick very slowly, very lightly on the outside, around her clit. She HAD to move her hips, her pussy to almost make me stroke her with my tongue. (This is also good for physical reasons that might be obvious to some.)
So, she was "in control". She could add pressure, change speed, get the tongue to just the right position for her.
Second game.
I told she had to ask for it. She had to tell me what to do.
(I might try "beg for it" soon. We'll see. If I do, I might laugh, which might break the mood.)
She did not know what to say.
So, I did one little thing, and I gave it a name, eg, sucking. Or flicking. Or going up and down. Or dipping.
She could associate an action and those feelings to a specific name.
Anyway, after each one, I asked how she liked it.
Then she had to ask for the next one. Or ask to repeat.
At some point I stopped asking ... and just kept going until she was ... over the moon.
She said she liked the game aspect (of this one). (Not sure everyone would, but she did.)
So, I think the game aspect does things to her head. And women like that. They want you to play with them that way. (Cloudy will explain why and how it works. I'm just the reporter from the field. Just the facts m'am.)
