A question for the experts on SA.
I notice that many of the girls have profiles listing their lifestyle as minimal, moderate, practical or open, while saying lower down that they're looking for a luxury lifestyle.
What's up with this?
RP, I wouldn't read too much into this apparent disparity. Almost every woman on SA has a fantasy of finding a rich Prince Charming who will provide them with an significant monthly allowance and a "luxury lifestyle." Thats the fantasy.
At the same time, most (but not all) women are well aware of their relative value in the marketplace and so they pick some lifestyle expectation that sounds reasonable. Which one they pick is not that important. I don't even pay much attention to which one a woman selects unless it is one of the upper-end choices, i.e. "substantial" or "extravagant." I generally ignore those women.
Within certain parameters, everything is negotiable on SA. The "lifestyle" expectation posted by a woman is just a starting point in a negotiation. Even those women who choose a "lifestyle" expectation greater than "open," meaning they are hoping for (dreaming of, fantasizing about?) a fairly substantial monthly allowance, are often willing to work out a pay-per-meeting arrangement.
Though I would add that most women on SA do have a reasonable and justifiable expectation that if the two parties are satisfied with a pay-per-meeting arrangement, then it will be become a recurring relationship. Sugar babies generally do not want to work like an escort, i.e., taking on all comers (no pun intended :smile: ). They are willing to give "try-outs" to different guys but they usually want to settle on having one or more regulars.