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With most ladies worth meeting yes. "Worth meeting" means they have value and their time has value. Unless you are interested in dogs that nobody else is looking at and have no value. Then yeah, you have no competition and you can get a freebie. Otherwise girls laugh and call you a "Splenda Daddy." But I am looking for hot girls, and not canines. So to each his own. An objectively very hot top 10% girl is not meeting you for free. If you are not into the 10 per centers, then don't worry.
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It really depends on the city & competition. The ‘Meet & Greet’ can be just a 15 minute coffee to see if things should go further. I was just in Barcelona & Madrid and many hotties didn’t charge for the ‘Meet & Greet’. Whereas in Sydney, even the non-hotties want to charge $200 for a ‘Meet & Greet’. More interested in the current Montreal situation.
Has anyone had two sugar babies at same time. Sugar baby A + sugar baby B meeting together. We should do sugar baby swops among merb memebers.
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I have dated two SBs at the same time- actually one time 3 for a very brief period, but never had any of them meet each other. You are allowing a hookerizing mindsent to infiltrate your head. If I had introduced the 3 I was dating at one time, all of them would have dropped me. They were not hookers, they were regular college girls. You need to be very careful with how you go about it.
There are cases where one SB I met brought along a friend with my consent, or even mentioned in their profile they have a friend or roommate. One time when I was in Montreal one of the guys in my group of 4 surprised us and brought 2 girls he had met on Seeking Arrangement (blonde and brunette who were roommates at a Montreal college) to a planned dinner for 4 at D'Emma, so that it was then 6 of us. He expected the 4 guys to split the bill for 6 4 ways and pay for his pussy, and we did. Was around $200 each or something like that, but that led to a fight later on and a few guys were not speaking to each other for a while. Never make your buddies pay for your pussy even thought they can, under the misguided and paternalistic notion that you are bringing some entertainment to others. The other 3 guys at the dinner that night- me included- were eminently capable of securing our own dates for the evening had we chosen to.
Epilogue on the story above was that the guy who did that was told he would never be part of a Montreal trip with us again if he pulled that shit again. And he didn't.
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why on earth would someone with a little bit of common sense do that? That would bring up all of the drama we’re trying to avoid in the first place. Not recommended
Many will not charge you in Mtl either. I would actually venture that not paying for M&G is a way to filter the ones who'll give you real GFE from the pros and the princesses who'll end up being a pita. Depends what you're looking for I guess.
The one caveat that I will add to my earlier post is that with the VERY HOT girls, always set a search called Newbies because the longer they have been on that site, the more they know the intrinsic value of their asses. So I have gotten lucky with some newer to the website hotties and they have been up for meet and greets with little or no compensation. So if you are a "I want something for nothing" kind of guy, you are well served to have your default search start with newest registrants to SA first. Although only look at the first page as many register and never come back or have other profiles so you have to check activity.
As girls accumulate experience on the site, they will insist on a donation because they view uncompensated meet and greets as evidence of someone who is a "Time Waster." A lot of girls say in their profiles, "no Time Wasters", and what that is code for is "take your Splenda Daddy cheap ass and shove right up it the uncompensated meet and greets, as my ass has value and the guy who values it is gonna get it."
There is a lot of code in lots of profiles and I can decode it just as some can decode Morse and other codes. There is a language on SA that has to be learned.
As far as Montreal, I actually only ever met ladies on SA while on trips there and had sex with 1, as the other did not do it for me. Those ladies were cheap by standards of what I pay in USA but then again I pay more for escorts in the USA than Montreal and certainly have reason to expect the same with SBs.
As girls accumulate experience on the site, they will insist on a donation because they view uncompensated meet and greets as evidence of someone who is a "Time Waster." A lot of girls say in their profiles, "no Time Wasters", and what that is code for is "take your Splenda Daddy cheap ass and shove right up it the uncompensated meet and greets, as my ass has value and the guy who values it is gonna get it."
There is a lot of code in lots of profiles and I can decode it just as some can decode Morse and other codes. There is a language on SA that has to be learned.
As far as Montreal, I actually only ever met ladies on SA while on trips there and had sex with 1, as the other did not do it for me. Those ladies were cheap by standards of what I pay in USA but then again I pay more for escorts in the USA than Montreal and certainly have reason to expect the same with SBs.
Cause it's fun ! Whatever guys I'll be the trailblazer here. The problem is getting schedules to work and making sure they get same benefits to avoid jealousy.
Slowandsteady I agree with idtapthat totally. You are asking for a whole lot of drama unless you are contacting obvious escorts. Most SBs want only one SD and say so in their profiles, and they don't want competition or to be made to feel like rented pussy (hookerization).
Good luck with your trailblazing.
Good luck with your trailblazing.
LOL. You could end up as your own personal crime scene. People get into Pay 2 Play arrangements because of the purpose of getting some ass without the hassles and problems. You don't want potential competition in this damn hobby as some folks take this very seriously and see this as a real thing. Like WTF. Jealousy and resentment always tend to show up especially if there is even a hint of emotional attachment involved. The last thing you ever want is experiencing even a slight competitive tone.
You may have to change your username to quick&deadly. Ha ha.
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Or quickly dead as far as his handle's usability on SA. LOL
Good to know, thks. Yes, filtering is essential, I’ve definitely learnt the hard way in the past about the ‘princesses’. Some SBs spend too much time on instagram & expect insane PPMs.
What do you guys do if the SB doesn't look like her profile and doesn't want to do what was agreed (some intimacy)?
I met one like that recently and let her go after 30 minutes with half the PPM (150 instead of 300), but I am feeling too generous... it was close to a scam I personally feel.
I met one like that recently and let her go after 30 minutes with half the PPM (150 instead of 300), but I am feeling too generous... it was close to a scam I personally feel.
Never had that issue, and If the communication was clear/good the issue shouldn't have occurred, but if the issue had occurred I probably would have given her $100 or $150 as you did.
As far as fake pics go there are some scammers who post their ex GF pics and pose as her. These scammers seek money for pics arrangements. A couple actually gave me Cash App or Venmo accounts that had male names attached, one was an Isaiah something. That's when you know for sure the scam is on.
There are scammers on every website and it's up to the buyer to beware and detect them.
Never heard of someone posting fake pics and wanting to meet in person though. The scammers usually only want an online arrangement.
As far as fake pics go there are some scammers who post their ex GF pics and pose as her. These scammers seek money for pics arrangements. A couple actually gave me Cash App or Venmo accounts that had male names attached, one was an Isaiah something. That's when you know for sure the scam is on.
There are scammers on every website and it's up to the buyer to beware and detect them.
Never heard of someone posting fake pics and wanting to meet in person though. The scammers usually only want an online arrangement.
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Christian - you are aware of the advent of the video chat function on SA and other inventions like FaceTime, correct? Most SBs ask to use the chat function before a first meeting to determine that you aren't a scammer or scum bag. Seems like the chat function should have been used here. It's a mistake that didn't have to happen.
For those that accept to pay the girl for a dinner date, how often does it turn into good intimate time after?
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I only did so once, because the girl was just too damn endearing and I felt like helping her. I actually thought at the time that she would not be comfortable with intimacy, but I still enjoyed my night a lot, and we had a couple of platonic dates after that (theatre and swimming pool, no compensation asked or received), and kept in touch texting on occasion.
A couple of months later she offered to go for drinks, started cuddling and kissing at the bar, nearly raped me in the backstreet, and unleashed her inner sex tiger back at my place. Next time she offered her greek virginity and went on exploring a few kinks with me.
Which goes on to say you never can tell!
Go with the flow, stay flexible and trust your instincts!
You should only play with play money anyway.
Do you mean on that date or the next time? Because intimacy isn't discussed in that text exchange you posted. $200 is a little rich for a platonic date.
It is clear in my profile and I initially offered 300 for that intimate meeting, then she wanted a dinner date for 200, later said 100, but personally its no deal, I doubt that many will be willing to do more for a second meeting.... but asking here in case.
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