J’ai perdu beaucoup d’intérêt pour le "hobby" depuis le covid. Avant je voyais des filles au moins 2-3 fois par mois mais depuis 2020 toutes mes régulière on arrêter les prix sont rendu tellement élevé comparer à il y a quelques années que TOFTT est rendu plus risqué côté monétaire ça dois être frustrant payer 250-300$/h si le service est pas à la hauteur. Je crois que j’ai vu une fille deux fois cette année lol je m’ennuie du bon vieux temps 2015-2019
Following your anology would I then be wrong to presume that you see women as meant to be fucked?
I like to fuck women if that’s what you asking. What do you like to fuck?
The purpose of escorts is exactly this: to free your mind and time for other useful activities than fuck. I regret of not having money and discovering the escort world in my youth when I spent most of my time trying to get some girl into bed instead of hard study and carrier building. Now, in an advanced age, this hobby helps me to use precious time left in my life for other useful activity than fuck as setting appointments and go through them takes a few hours per month at most.
Like everything in life you get fed up of anything. Some guys will fuck till the day they die. Some won't. I'm not gonna lie this shitty summer weather is not helping at all. And winter will come soon again. I've had a few friends suicide over winter seasons. The lack of vitamin D is something....anyways try to cheer up dude
Nothing wrong with doing both...Tee time at 6am and let Jessica be my par 3 at the 19th hole, my 7 iron is always ready. And then cap off the day with a nice massage with any of the wonderful ladies out there of your choosing.
Just enjoy in life what you most desire.
Maybe they should get out of their lazy-boys...Incredible what you can do outside when wearing proper clothes.
Yes, grab a book and go down by the river and sit on the bench wearing loose shorts and watch all the beautiful ladies with tight shirts and spandex jogging along.
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Of course if you are looking only for sex and not connection it sill get boring fast af. As for the "providers only care about money" talk... I am sorry but we do live in a neoliberalism society, we all need to work and make money to survive. Maybe book a companion that is more advertising the experience you want. I have clients I am dying to see leave my incall, when they are dull and only care about the boobies for exemple. As for others, I develop relatoinship, trust and I am always glad to hear from them. I root for them. We are humans after all, we thrive in connections and sometimes it clicks better with someone.
Paying for companionship is a service. You are paying for not having to entertain someone everyday, expectations are clear about the time frame and activities. Dating can suck ass honestly, you need to have the patience. I feel a good comparison is that you could 100% cook yourself dinner, take cooking lessons even. But sometimes you dont want to think too much about it and just enjoy a good meal made by an expert. Some restaurant are more your vibe than others.
Paying for companionship is a service. You are paying for not having to entertain someone everyday, expectations are clear about the time frame and activities. Dating can suck ass honestly, you need to have the patience. I feel a good comparison is that you could 100% cook yourself dinner, take cooking lessons even. But sometimes you dont want to think too much about it and just enjoy a good meal made by an expert. Some restaurant are more your vibe than others.
Nobody said this. Ever.
Should read what the thread is about before making up your own topic to discuss to display what a MAN you are
This topic was about
Exactly! I don’t need to get blood work, or any physical check up!! That’s not the issue. I used to hobby regularly, at times averaging 1 appointment per week.
Now I’ve lost interest for reasons mentioned in my post: sometimes difficult to book popular agency ladies in the summer; agencies booking clients back to back makes appointments feel rushed; Indy rates have increased, so have to cut down if I go that route; not much luck with TOFTT lately; cancellations, etc.
There are peaks and valleys in this hobby. I’m sure the urge will come back, especially when I can see some my favourite ladies!
It was implied and it’s a related relevant topic. Besides, you are seriously telling everyone that you have never ever gone slightly off-topic within a thread? C’mon, get real.
And when you’re done with the self-righteousness and being a self-appointed moderator, read my post carefully. In what way was my post, a display of machoism that offended your sensibilities?
Men are meant to fuck and all of us like to fuck so much that we pay for it, that’s why we’re here on a paid sex forum. If that desire start disappearing then my belief is that it is symptomatic of a broader heath issue. You are free to disagree with that belief but really weird for anyone to label it as a bragging statement of male machoism? I think that says more about you than me. Just my humble gender-neutral opinion.
I posted a couple of weeks ago that I was going through a low interest phase, but that eventually the interest always comes back.
Well I'm happy to report that I'm back
I saw 4 SWs in a 6 day period plus I dropped by Cleos once. And I want more.
But right now I feel really guilty but the money I spent this week (especially the unplanned 4th visit). I am going to severely slow down.
Also, I feel one good experience can 'awaken' the drive within us. String a few in a row and I'm ravenous. Whatever.
Well I'm happy to report that I'm back
I saw 4 SWs in a 6 day period plus I dropped by Cleos once. And I want more.
But right now I feel really guilty but the money I spent this week (especially the unplanned 4th visit). I am going to severely slow down.
Also, I feel one good experience can 'awaken' the drive within us. String a few in a row and I'm ravenous. Whatever.
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It's not so much the idea of losing interest, its just that at times, circumstances change. If i am dating or in any kind of relationship then i tend to shy away from both the hobby and merb. I don't want anything but my own stupidity or lack of interest in the woman i am with to be the cause for our time together to come to an end. I am not ashamed of my hobbying, but then again, i will not flaunt in the woman's face. I don't want any kind of social media to be the cause of our breakup. This is why i stay away from Facebook and i will not date a woman who spends her time glued to facebook . I actually hate facebook. Couldn't even tell you the last time i was on the site, many years ago.
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I'm only in my mid 30s honestly. Im just bored of it. Maybe i'm hideous to look at and that why its dull
Everything must come to pass. Video games, anime, watching porn, and etc. Enjoying the same thing your whole life is unusual. It becomes routine, a time pass like the endless scrolling of your phone.
In some cultures, beings that do the same thing again and again are referred to as demons. They are devoid of any humanity, and remain unchanged their whole life. They are like the NPCs of the dark side. In our New World, this kind of behavior is heavily rewarded.
The loss of interest is your humanity kicking into top gear. It wants change. Time to imagine a life beyond pussy. This is very hard to do, since it was the pursuit of sharing an orgasm with a woman that got us this far in life.
In the sub-continent, some men would leave their families and abdicate their worldly possessions and responsibilities in search for the truth. Some would become beggars, live on handouts, and sleep on the streets. Some would find a guru. Some would open an orphanage. While others would drown themselves in alcohol in a brothel somewhere. While seemingly unrelated, they all did it for the exact same reason. To find the meaning of life. It was a matter of gaining perspective. They were not interested in validation or affirmation, but liberation and transformation.
In today’s world religion, this is blasphemy. Doing something that does not add to the GDP is a big no, no. You must pledge allegiance to nationalism, work for capitalism, and own nothing for communism. And, even if you had the wife, kids, and dogs, there's a good chance you would have felt the exact same way. And frankly that’s a scarier thought. What if your wife and children thought of you the way providers do? Times are different. The world where even a dumbass could get married and have five kids is gone, thanks to usury.
We’re all in uncharted territories at this point. Things are reaching Biblical proportions. You can reminisce about the good ol’ days, FOMO about what could have been, or march ahead with your wad out with no attachment to the outcome. Come what may. Because, what if, just maybe, there is something better out there?
In some cultures, beings that do the same thing again and again are referred to as demons. They are devoid of any humanity, and remain unchanged their whole life. They are like the NPCs of the dark side. In our New World, this kind of behavior is heavily rewarded.
The loss of interest is your humanity kicking into top gear. It wants change. Time to imagine a life beyond pussy. This is very hard to do, since it was the pursuit of sharing an orgasm with a woman that got us this far in life.
In the sub-continent, some men would leave their families and abdicate their worldly possessions and responsibilities in search for the truth. Some would become beggars, live on handouts, and sleep on the streets. Some would find a guru. Some would open an orphanage. While others would drown themselves in alcohol in a brothel somewhere. While seemingly unrelated, they all did it for the exact same reason. To find the meaning of life. It was a matter of gaining perspective. They were not interested in validation or affirmation, but liberation and transformation.
In today’s world religion, this is blasphemy. Doing something that does not add to the GDP is a big no, no. You must pledge allegiance to nationalism, work for capitalism, and own nothing for communism. And, even if you had the wife, kids, and dogs, there's a good chance you would have felt the exact same way. And frankly that’s a scarier thought. What if your wife and children thought of you the way providers do? Times are different. The world where even a dumbass could get married and have five kids is gone, thanks to usury.
We’re all in uncharted territories at this point. Things are reaching Biblical proportions. You can reminisce about the good ol’ days, FOMO about what could have been, or march ahead with your wad out with no attachment to the outcome. Come what may. Because, what if, just maybe, there is something better out there?
I am still taking a break from the hobby due to some SP drama last month, but a booker messaged me about a retired SP (old favorite) who was coming back for a day.
Coincidentally, I was in Burlington for
work, so it was an easy drive. didn't want to miss the chance to see her. Drove up 1.5 hours
Got to the incall and right then I get a text from the booker that he mixed up her schedule and she was actually leaving.
I told him I just drove almost 2 fucking hours. I was pretty angry.
Should have just stayed on my hobby break
At least I got some poutine
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