"Merb members are more difficult or demanding"

[2fast2slow]

Over the last couple of years i have heard quite a few times from the girls that a lot of merb members tend to be more demanding or just generally more 'difficult' customers.

They try to use the fact that they are members here to extract better service or lesser price or they want wall to wall banging. They just generally have higher expectations and accept less that ymmv.

I attibute it to the fact that seeing what some members get makes you want the same (even though we dont all look like brad pitt). Reading all these reviews creates higher expectations for everybody.

Everytime i get into the action with a girl, and even if she seeems to be into it, after 5 minutes I start thinking, maybe i should finish the deed, because she is probably thinking 'when is he gonnna cum?' I think i am the other extreme.

 

[Fradi]

Depends, I don’t think it is true in my case I am not demanding at all probably way too easy to please.
Just happy to have found such amazingly gorgeous young ladies to spend some fun times with.
There is no need to take it so seriously.

 

[bobbyc]

i don,t depend on what other's have or had and i actually don,t care, when i meet a girl i make it about her and i having a good time i just want it to be pleasant for both of us and most of the ladies i have met seem to appreciate that about me, it's not a contest of who gets more, but more of who i enjoy it with and who i want to spend more time with, simple as that.

 

[Marsouin]

Remember than half of what you read in reviews is probbly not what actually happened .. fishing trip stories. I caught a fish thiiiiis biiiiiig ..

 

[sene5hos]

Over the past two years, with covid, it has changed our habits and our ways of acting.

I understand a guy who wants for his investment, otherwise you stay in front of your computer and you masturbate.
There were fewer candidates, and those who remained were perhaps more demanding, I do not know.

I speak for myself, yes I was more selective, I wanted to decide how my meetings would go. I wanted a SP who came to my place, and who in turn didn't see tons of clients, in short I had specific criteria.

Before covid I was much less selective. During I was more selective, and my research paid off and I found exceptional SP.

Having said that, I don't think you should start thinking that way. You are the customer looking for a service.

 

[Bonclay20]

I am not more demanding but it does help alot when I’m looking for some specifics. I’ll definitely take the reviews with a grain of salt. It gives me a better chance on getting what I want or a better idea about the girl.

Also when I’m not too sure about the girl based on the few pics and stats. It might help to decide if I’m gonna try to see her or not.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Over the last couple of years i have heard quite a few times from the girls that a lot of merb members tend to be more demanding or just generally more 'difficult' customers.

It is NOT a new development. There are a large number of members on MERB covering a large demographic and all segments of the population. Some, maybe even most, do not use their handle in discussions with anyone, except maybe at the MERB parties in the past. The SPs would not know they are on MERB, unless they are told. The ones who do so and talk about being on MERB or their handle, in private sessions with escorts, and MPs, generally, are implying to the lady that her service will be reviewed. That immediately gets the session off on the wrong note, because in a lady's mind at least, there is no reason for anyone to bring up their MERB handle unless it was to somehow leverage good service, or imply a review will be written. This in my mind creates a stupid, artificial pressure on the lady.

And in fact, there are and were a certain subset who post good reviews for discounts and/or freebies, or else have an expectation of a freebie as compensation for a bad review. All the girls know this, so when you stupidly announce your MERB handle, you are presumed to be a cheapass and discount or freebie hunter, which is why it is semi-moronic to do it. It is also not necessarily going to improve service, unless you believe that the ladies are robots who respond to such information like a robot would, in which case you are a total dumbass.

2fast2slow, you may think this is a new development but in 2003-2006, in the early days of MERB, it was a free for all of bad reviews posted for discounts and freebies and most of the so called regular reviewers were such. Eventually the total free for all stopped when Mods and Agency owners got wise to the practice. Back in the day, a couple of agency owners cut off the bargain hunters when they went too far or made too many demands. However, as one can imagine, the ladies appropriately presume such MERB members are cheapasses, and the presumption is correct the vast majority of the time. But I do not really believe that the Board is as filled with shills and bargain hunters as it once was. It's been cleaned up, although it can never totally be cleaned up. But over time, the act of any bargain hunter wears thin and he is unable to continue the charade. The agency owners and girls wise up on him.

 

[curly]

Guys on MERB are generally good SP clients. Regularly partaking and even sone with a budget. They have been scammed, have been with mechanical ladies and have found gems.

So isn't it too be expected from good clients that they know what they want and won't put up with crap? I guess that hobby, in that way, is the same as any business...

 

[charmer_]

there is no reason for anyone to bring up their MERB handle unless it was to somehow leverage good service, or imply a review will be written. This in my mind creates a stupid, artificial pressure on the lady.

WRONG...some SPs accept a client's MERB handle as a form of reference. It's way better than giving your actual identity, and this is usually what I do. Ditto for certain agencies.

 

[Bbw hunter]

It is NOT a new development. There are a large number of members on MERB covering a large demographic and all segments of the population. Some, maybe even most, do not use their handle in discussions with anyone, except maybe at the MERB parties in the past. The SPs would not know they are on MERB, unless they are told. The ones who do so and talk about being on MERB or their handle, in private sessions with escorts, and MPs, generally, are implying to the lady that her service will be reviewed. That immediately gets the session off on the wrong note, because in a lady's mind at least, there is no reason for anyone to bring up their MERB handle unless it was to somehow leverage good service, or imply a review will be written. This in my mind creates a stupid, artificial pressure on the lady.

And in fact, there are and were a certain subset who post good reviews for discounts and/or freebies, or else have an expectation of a freebie as compensation for a bad review. All the girls know this, so when you stupidly announce your MERB handle, you are presumed to be a cheapass and discount or freebie hunter, which is why it is semi-moronic to do it. It is also not necessarily going to improve service, unless you believe that the ladies are robots who respond to such information like a robot would, in which case you are a total dumbass.

2fast2slow, you may think this is a new development but in 2003-2006, in the early days of MERB, it was a free for all of bad reviews posted for discounts and freebies and most of the so called regular reviewers were such. Eventually the total free for all stopped when Mods and Agency owners got wise to the practice. Back in the day, a couple of agency owners cut off the bargain hunters when they went too far or made too many demands. However, as one can imagine, the ladies appropriately presume such MERB members are cheapasses, and the presumption is correct the vast majority of the time. But I do not really believe that the Board is as filled with shills and bargain hunters as it once was. It's been cleaned up, although it can never totally be cleaned up. But over time, the act of any bargain hunter wears thin and he is unable to continue the charade. The agency owners and girls wise up on him.

Bargain Hunter...
Why didn't I chose that handle?

 

[EagerBeaver]

WRONG...some SPs accept a client's MERB handle as a form of reference. It's way better than giving your actual identity, and this is usually what I do. Ditto for certain agencies.

It's NOT wrong....it's right in many or most cases. I am not talking about indies.......indies do not typically get victimized by bargain hunters and discount double check dandies. You pay their rate or not. Those who trade reviews for discounts usually target agencies. And on the subject of someone using a MERB handle for a reference, do you recall the handle Robertpal?????? Why don't you call Chris of Devilish and ask him how that reference went. Do a search and you will find out. I dare you to make that phone call.

By the way what creates a good and lasting reference is the character of the guy using the handle. If the guy using the handle is demanding BBFS, shitting in bed with girls and/or engaging in rough sex, having a MERB handle means fucking shit. It's the dude and the phone number of the dude, not the handle. Guys are known as good clients or not after 1 date and the rep follows them. If they happen to have a handle it folllows the handle. So it means Jack Fucking Shit.

 

[Numerati]

LOL. Robertpal. That young Indian dude who throws out these really fancy medical terms about condom allergies trying to seek bareback.

 

[What's My Name]

As 2fast2slow said, it's true. But since I joined I have been hearing these stories from SP's and MP's. I sometimes am hesitant telling them I am a MERB member because like 80% of the time I get a strange uneasy look from the ladies because they don't know what to expect.

I tell them that I do not want no special treatment, no discount, and just for us to have a good time.

Now I actually ask the SP if I can write a review on them. That's why when I write a review I write how my time went with the SP, because it is the connection we made and whatever happens between us is between us.

It has happened that I got services from the ladies that they do not offer other suitors. They tell me it because it was a connection we made when we met, and also being a gentleman really helps.

MERB is great I have found many ladies, and had amazing time that are very memorable, let's not use this board, like 2fast2slow said "to be more demanding or just generally more 'difficult'"

 

[Numerati]

I remember I told my handle to an SP once. And she goes... "Oh you are that asshole!" Then I go well if I am an asshole then would an asshole takes you out to dinner, actually listens to you and tries to find your G-Spot and once found try to push it to its very limits?

Then she goes "Uhhhh NO!"

Great then I make her kneel down I whipped it out and face fucked (No hands. That is not allowed) her until for a much deserved CIM. Hey I paid her to eat. I deserve at least that. Also I did a semen retention for four weeks.

 

[IamNY]

Over the last couple of years i have heard quite a few times from the girls that a lot of merb members tend to be more demanding or just generally more 'difficult' customers.

They try to use the fact that they are members here to extract better service or lesser price or they want wall to wall banging. They just generally have higher expectations and accept less that ymmv.

Years ago while working the door at a popular NYC underground party we would have guys show up who thought they were deserving of special treatment or being more demanding because they were cops flashing a badge, or a "friend" of the owner, or a million other reasons to try to convince me that I should give a shit about who they are. Give a person with no confidence, balls or just a plain old loser a pathway to instant celebrity status by dropping their MERB handle and you have the guys your talking about. None of these girls give a shit about your MERB handle, they are just there to make a buck, pay some bills and move on to the next guy. If you want better service just do the right things like take a shower, mouthwash, be nice, etc. That goes much further than dropping your MERB handle for the sake of getting better service IMHO.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Numerati-

Apparently you and Charmer never heard of the handle impersonations that occurred a while back. Several senior members were impersonated by others claiming to be them. I heard about this from one of the impersonated senior members who said girls had been reporting him to agencies when he was not even in Montreal. It would be very easy for me to impersonate Charmer and use or abuse his handle if I wanted to, with agencies he had not used. If it was Robertpal who successfully did it, Charmer would find himself banned by agencies he had never used or called. Which shows you just how stupid it is to use one's handle- you are setting yourself up to be usurped.

All that matters is the guy behind the handle, his phone number and description.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Years ago while working the door at a popular NYC underground party we would have guys show up who thought they were deserving of special treatment or being more demanding because they were cops flashing a badge, or a "friend" of the owner, or a million other reasons to try to convince me that I should give a shit about who they are. Give a person with no confidence, balls or just a plain old loser a pathway to instant celebrity status by dropping their MERB handle and you have the guys your talking about.

Bingo!!!!!!!'

+1 to the Great Waloos post above. It's the same thing here. And these guys believe the girls are too stupid to recognize this.

 

[charmer_]

Apparently you and Charmer never heard of the handle impersonations that occurred a while back. Several senior members were impersonated by others claiming to be them. I heard about this from one of the impersonated senior members who said girls had been reporting him to agencies when he was not even in Montreal. It would be very easy for me to impersonate Charmer and use or abuse his handle if I wanted to, with agencies he had not used. If it was Robertpal who successfully did it, Charmer would find himself banned by agencies he had never used or called. Which shows you just how stupid it is to use one's handle- you are setting yourself up to be usurped.

For the handle impersonations, I think I heard about that. But SPs are usually smart and set up a MERB account of their own and then have you PM them with your account (rather than just take the MERB handle you give at face value - which would be ridiculous/unwise). That way, they know that you truly do own the handle.

I've done this with SPs in Toronto, etc (in addition to providing a reference from a known SP I've seen in the past) and have had no problems. I also used my handle with a known MP agency that takes LE seriously as well.

 

[Numerati]

Numerati-

Apparently you and Charmer never heard of the handle impersonations that occurred a while back. Several senior members were impersonated by others claiming to be them. I heard about this from one of the impersonated senior members who said girls had been reporting him to agencies when he was not even in Montreal. It would be very easy for me to impersonate Charmer and use or abuse his handle if I wanted to, with agencies he had not used. If it was Robertpal who successfully did it, Charmer would find himself banned by agencies he had never used or called. Which shows you just how stupid it is to use one's handle- you are setting yourself up to be usurped.

All that matters is the guy behind the handle, his phone number and description.

That is uhhhh "interesting." Too deep for my taste in terms of merb member happenings and gossip.

Now that you mention something like this. These guys should be very thankful for the existence of this hobby or else they will never come into face to face contact with female genatilia. Ha!

 

[Fradi]

I think you guys way under estimate these ladies.
They are good at screening and they will know if you are giving a fake Merb handle especially if you are a jerk.
A good reputation is just as well known amongst them as a bad one they talk amongst each other more than you think.
Women communicate way better than men.
If you show some respect and act decently with them you are almost certain to have a good time.