With me it is very simple.I never text unless I’m texted 1st.
One of my regulars has me saved as “Mike” in his phone
Construction guy, also texts me in code especially when he knows I will answer later / next day. He’s always on the road getting materials for his guys on construction sites.
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I am also “Settings” in someone else’s phone.
The 2 ladies I see most often have my real first name in their phone and they know they can text me anytime they want for whatever reason even if they need a ride to Costco lol.
I don’t have anyone to answer to or to be afraid of.





