I never text unless I’m texted 1st.I'm a married man and do have 1 regular lady that I see. We have good communication and she know what I do for living. So if she does want to communicate with me she will use my real name and ask about certain things about my work(you can call it code). If I reply with work related stuff it's because my wife is around and I can't talk, but if it's about hobby stuff we are clear to talk about whatever. She is on my phone as a contact under a guys name so no suspicion from the wife, and besides that she uses her personal phone to do it.
One of my regulars has me saved as “Mike” in his phone
Construction guy, also texts me in code especially when he knows I will answer later / next day. He’s always on the road getting materials for his guys on construction sites.
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I am also “Settings” in someone else’s phone.





