No Black men

[Flabert]

Same. I'm not going to argue with racist people, I'm out.

I have seen stereotypes in this thread but limited arguing (but I do miss parts of threads as I don’t go back to catch all posts).

So what is the solution? I am neither black nor a provider so it can’t come from me…

For asians refusing to see whites, I expressed my personal solution: respect their choice of course but also treat everyone with respect (providers and civilians at large) in the hope of improving how asians perceive white men

 

[Doc Holliday]

I have seen stereotypes in this thread but limited arguing (but I do miss parts of threads as I don’t go back to catch all posts).

So what is the solution? I am neither black nor a provider so it can’t come from me…

For asians refusing to see whites, I expressed my personal solution: respect their choice of course but also treat everyone with respect (providers and civilians at large) in the hope of improving how asians perceive white men

I’ve been a member of this board since the day it first appeared about twenty years ago. This discussion has regularly appeared every few years & has seen its share of controversy. Although the comments are always mostly similar i keep finding out new things. For example this is the first time i’ve heard of white clients being refused by some asian sps. That’s definitely a new one for me. But how should i know i’ve never been with an asian sp in my entire life. As far as i know.

The bottom line is that an sp should always be free to see whoever she wants. You can’t or shouldn’t force a person to see an individual she doesn’t feel comfortable seeing. Years ago i personally witnessed an agency owner ordering an sp to see a client (or a type of client) that she wasn’t comfortable seeing. She was told that this is the nature of the business & to deal with it. When i was asked for my input thinking i’d side with the booker i replied “No one should be forced to see a client or a type of client that they are not comfortable seeing. An sp should be free to see whomever she wants.” The reaction i got was one of surprise & i was told if that philosophy was adopted regularly no one would be working half the time. I replied “Maybe but will you be better off if the girls end up leaving you to work for other agencies?” I didn’t get a reply. Bottom line i still believe that the ladies should be free to decide who they want to see or not. It sucks for some but that’s life. There are plenty of fish out there to satisfy everyone’s needs!

 

[CaptRenault]

The bottom line is that an sp should always be free to see whoever she wants...

They also deserve not to have accusations of racism hurled at them by other escorts who do not even know them. Escorts who choose not to see black clients have legitimate fears for their own safety that are based on facts and not prejudice.

 

[The Mac]

Pattern recognition is not racism it’s how the human race managed to stay alive. Sex workers live in reality where a simple mistake could prove fatal not inside a Reddit echo chamber and if they choose not to see a certain type of people it’s their decision and we should respect this.

 

[Doc Holliday]

They also deserve not to have accusations of racism hurled at them by other escorts who do not even know them. Escorts who choose not to see black clients have legitimate fears for their own safety that are based on facts and not prejudice.

Very true.

 

[haberbosch25]

All people should have the freedom to associate with who they want to, not just sex workers.