NO Drama !!

[Mtl_explorer]

je n'ai pas l'experience de plusieurs membres du groupe, mais peut-on me dire ce que signifie exactement "No drama" plus spécifiquement dans cette industrie ..... que l'on voit dans plusieurs profils?
I don't have the experience that several members of the group do, but could someone tell me exactly what means "No drama" more specifically in this industry ... which appears in many profiles—means?

 

[god101]

je n'ai pas l'experience de plusieurs membres du groupe, mais peut-on me dire ce que signifie exactement "No drama" plus spécifiquement dans cette industrie ..... que l'on voit dans plusieurs profils?
I don't have the experience that several members of the group do, but could someone tell me exactly what means "No drama" more specifically in this industry ... which appears in many profiles—means?

when a girl wants you to cum fast, a clock watcher, a bad blowjob etc., once you get these, drama will come at you real fast

 

[LeDodo]

Hum it's not specific to this industry lol
No drama just means to not make a fuss over anything

 

[Albacor]

I would interpret it as "not causing any problems at all" a gal with drama will scream at you, or black mail you, kick you out, or even call the police! That is real drama!
"If yo have drama, call yo Mama ok?"

 

[Mtl_explorer]

I would interpret it as "not causing problems at all" a gal with drama will screams at you, or black mail you, kicks you out, or even call the police! That is real drama!
"If yo have drama, call yo Mama ok?"

so your drama may vary haha

 

[Mtl_explorer]

Hum it's not specific to this industry lol
No drama just means to not make a fuss over anything

I know it's not specific, but is she a no drama girl or she doesn't want drama or both lol

 

[madmonkey82]

je n'ai pas l'experience de plusieurs membres du groupe, mais peut-on me dire ce que signifie exactement "No drama" plus spécifiquement dans cette industrie ..... que l'on voit dans plusieurs profils?
I don't have the experience that several members of the group do, but could someone tell me exactly what means "No drama" more specifically in this industry ... which appears in many profiles—means?

In my experience it means that the lady won't project her issues on you during the session and won't waste time being self centered.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think no drama means no crossing of boundaries, on both sides.. That could involve a number of things.

I've had random providers throw tantrums at me because a client had given their name as references. I suspect very inexperienced providers who aren't serious about their reputation could do stuff like this. Getting jealous of other girls, begging for money randomly, making threats of blackmail, contacting the client's wife, stealing, etc. Other people being present at the incall, the boyfriend contacting the client. Shit like this.

''No drama'' could also mean as a provider you don't want drama such as: the client discussing his personal issues with you out in the open on forums like Merb, him pressuring for a romantic relationship, stalker behavior, gossiping about other SP and trying to pit them against each other, sharing personal info with other people, constantly contacting you and getting mad if you don't respond right away, extreme parasocial behavior, asking for discounts, boundary pushing etc.

It's unfortunate that this industry is full of drama precisely because it involves social media and forums meaning not always respectful discussions, communal spaces both online and in real life, a lot of competition, weird laws, just generally a tough atmosphere to navigate for everyone involved. Unfortunately it's kinda unavoidable even if you don't always see it.

 

[Mtl_explorer]

I think no drama means no crossing of boundaries, on both sides.. That could involve a number of things.

I've had random providers throw tantrums at me because a client had given their name as references. I suspect very inexperienced providers who aren't serious about their reputation could do stuff like this. Getting jealous of other girls, begging for money randomly, making threats of blackmail, contacting the client's wife, stealing, etc. Other people being present at the incall, the boyfriend contacting the client. Shit like this.

''No drama'' could also mean as a provider you don't want drama such as: the client discussing his personal issues with you out in the open on forums like Merb, him pressuring for a romantic relationship, stalker behavior, gossiping about other SP and trying to pit them against each other, sharing personal info with other people, constantly contacting you and getting mad if you don't respond right away, extreme parasocial behavior, asking for discounts, boundary pushing etc.

It's unfortunate that this industry is full of drama precisely because it involves social media and forums meaning not always respectful discussions, communal spaces both online and in real life, a lot of competition, weird laws, just generally a tough atmosphere to navigate for everyone involved. Unfortunately it's kinda unavoidable even if you don't always see it.

C'est clair et net , je sais que je ne suis pas dans la catégorie drama, je voulais voir un peu plus loin que juste quelques mots qui peuvent en dire beaucoup. Merci pour ton explication. ;-)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

C'est clair et net , je sais que je ne suis pas dans la catégorie drama, je voulais voir un peu plus loin que juste quelques mots qui peuvent en dire beaucoup. Merci pour ton explication. ;-)

Non, tu ne semble pas l'être lol mais je pense que en général les gens n'examinent pas trop leurs comportements et ne voient pas tellement comment ils pourraient faire partie d'un problème spécifique. C'est sur que on s'entend pour dire qu'il y a de tout dans cette industrie et que autant du côté des escortes que des clients il y a des gens qui ne vont pas très bien mentalement et ne vivent pas une vie stable.

Mais ouais pour moi je dirais que le drama c'est ''dépasser les limites'' et ''foutre la marde'' je considère que ça fait partie de mon travail d'écouter des gens parler de leurs problèmes, je ne vois pas ça comme du ''drama''. Mais quand c'est pour parler constamment de l'industrie et de d'autres filles, ça devient problématique. Si ça tombe dans les oreilles de la mauvaise personne, ça peut créer des rumeurs etc

 

[Mtl_explorer]

Non, tu ne semble pas l'être lol mais je pense que en général les gens n'examinent pas trop leurs comportements et ne voient pas tellement comment ils pourraient faire partie d'un problème spécifique. C'est sur que on s'entend pour dire qu'il y a de tout dans cette industrie et que autant du côté des escortes que des clients il y a des gens qui ne vont pas très bien mentalement et ne vivent pas une vie stable.

Mais ouais pour moi je dirais que le drama c'est ''dépasser les limites'' et ''foutre la marde'' je considère que ça fait partie de mon travail d'écouter des gens parler de leurs problèmes, je ne vois pas ça comme du ''drama''. Mais quand c'est pour parler constamment de l'industrie et de d'autres filles, ça devient problématique. Si ça tombe dans les oreilles de la mauvaise personne, ça peut créer des rumeurs etc

Yep, et en passant tu as une très belle plume ...... toujours bien écrit et plaisant à lire! ;-)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Yep, et en passant tu as une très belle plume ...... toujours bien écrit et plaisant à lire! ;-)

Merci! Je suis en train de préparer un nouveau projet d'écriture d'ailleurs

 

[madmonkey82]

I think no drama means no crossing of boundaries, on both sides.. That could involve a number of things.

I've had random providers throw tantrums at me because a client had given their name as references. I suspect very inexperienced providers who aren't serious about their reputation could do stuff like this. Getting jealous of other girls, begging for money randomly, making threats of blackmail, contacting the client's wife, stealing, etc. Other people being present at the incall, the boyfriend contacting the client. Shit like this.

''No drama'' could also mean as a provider you don't want drama such as: the client discussing his personal issues with you out in the open on forums like Merb, him pressuring for a romantic relationship, stalker behavior, gossiping about other SP and trying to pit them against each other, sharing personal info with other people, constantly contacting you and getting mad if you don't respond right away, extreme parasocial behavior, asking for discounts, boundary pushing etc.

It's unfortunate that this industry is full of drama precisely because it involves social media and forums meaning not always respectful discussions, communal spaces both online and in real life, a lot of competition, weird laws, just generally a tough atmosphere to navigate for everyone involved. Unfortunately it's kinda unavoidable even if you don't always see it.

Well put.