One minute man, what to do ?

[AlexDaniel]

Lasting only a few minutes is from inexperience in my experience. I'm also a one shot in an hour kind of guy.
Very early in my sexual escapades as a teenager, I had a few experiences where I came very early and seemingly on a hair trigger. I was upset, my partner was amused/unsatisfied and needles to say the experience was terrible.
Hasn't happened in many years, i think more experience cured the problem.
Somebody else mentioned it already, but pacing yourself during sex makes a huge difference. If coming too early, it's it because coming in hot guns blazing?

I don’t know but if I change position every 2 minutes feels like « bad sex » and am afraid it will bother the SP and hold her back from giving you the best she can offer since you are a not « efficient partner »

 

[LC18]

I don’t know but if I change position every 2 minutes feels like « bad sex » and am afraid it will bother the SP and hold her back from giving you the best she can offer since you are a not « efficient partner »

I personally won’t think it’s bad sex but I definitely won’t be able to cum. So if you were someone that cares about whether or not the SP cums, that wouldn’t work for me.

No orgasm =/= no pleasure

At least in my case

 

[skarsga]

I don’t know but if I change position every 2 minutes feels like « bad sex » and am afraid it will bother the SP and hold her back from giving you the best she can offer since you are a not « efficient partner »

IMHO, you are over thinking. Keep it simple. This is about pleasure and fun, not min/max optimization. Do what feels good with a partner that's experienced and forgiving. You'll find your rhythm.

 

[JustPhil]

Start with foreplay, DFK and DATY. I usually will do foreplay till the last 15 minutes is left then do the deed. I am a one SOG type of guy.

This is the way
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