Hello all,
...between 5"8 and 6"2 is perfect with me
That would be ME sweety! I hope you aren't letting my recent conversion to Voodoo scare you off. Want to come over and sacrifice a bucket of Kentucky Fried. Exxxtra crispppyyyyyy.
Exactly my point. Media has brainwashed us into that bigger is better. Unlike most people I am not a follower. I prefer a woman with small breasts. Shape and feel is more important to me then sheer size. What is the use of a DDD breasts if they look like huge engorged golf balls and feel so hard? Same with a penis. I think that men with a 7in + penis with a large girth must be painful to a lot of women during intercourse? I dunno why they would want that except from what porn movies have suggested to us.
I'm not so sure from my experience Cloud. I'm sure that your basic point is largely correct, that the porn industry and media are trying to sell us these gross standards. But I think the affects work more on those who are more mentally susceptible. If I was really falling for what porn has been trending to that would be degradation and abuse, that has absolutely no interest for me. I do like huge breasts natural or unnatural, but also tiny ones, and one of my favorite female body types is the 5'1" 105 lbs with sweet As or Bs...not that I also wouldn't like to be stranded in a cabin alone with an Alyssa type...ummmmmmmmmm. :eyebrows:
I had never seen a dirty magazine and certainly not porn by the time I was 14. Yet when some of the girls started sprouting big natural boobs, I and the guys couldn't get over it like a bunch of Pavlovian puppies. It's still the same with women and it's been a constant since puberty regardless of what the media does. But it was never the only characteristic of arousal. Young guys also start to razz each other about who probably has the biggest penis. As I remember the two biggest insults were about being gay and having a pencil dick. There was no porn influence and TV at the time never referred to such things. So some of it seems to be as innate as the natural competition to see who is stronger, faster, smarter, smoother to get the hot babes.
As for what the media and porn tries to sell, I've discovered from seeing SPs that my tastes regarding looks and build have greater range than I thought. Previously I liked slim, fit, larger breasted, and gorgeous. But I while that type is still very arousing, I've found that being with the "media ideal" is far from necessary to have a terrific time, especially when there's a big difference in sensuality and attitude. Porn has also forced me to accept that physically speaking great fitness is not the only thing type that's arousing, Bigger ladies often have a huge effect.
PS: why don't you think there are soooo manyyy size/shape of vibrators in sex shop?
I asked in my poll if the size of their lover's penis change something....to avoid the "the size isn't the only thing that matters; he has to know how to use it"...After my question, i added; if a guy has a 4.5" penis or a 8" (so the same quality as a lover...), would they prefer the 4"5 or the bigger one...
Yeah, but which size if vibrator is the best seller and why? Maybe the biggest ones are more often for teasing fun.
I doubt than any lady will say they prefer 4.5" regardless of skill. I would have given them a choice of 5, 6, 7, 8 inches. Your 4.5 is too extreme to make your point.
Now Alyssa...how about some help with that chicken sacrifice.
Cheers sweety...you too Cloud,
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