Pornstar Melina Mason Sugar Baby story

[Halloween Mike]

If you have not read it, https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/tanyachen/dead-sugar-daddy-haunting-viral-instagram

Basically she explain how she was disgusted by her sugardaddy and she only came back all the time for the money. Altough i can't even compare to this man and the sums he was giving her, and i don't consider myself having a "regular" as i don't see enough escorts to say it that way (altough i did do "repeats") i find this story very sad and depressing.

Yes maybe the guy was a genuine asshole... But if that was the case, i think she should respect herself and stop seeing him, no matter how good was the money.

I know as a client that some of the escorts i saw probably talk behind my back. For the very small ammount of time that i booked myself, i saw it myself toward other clients. But i didn't needed that to guess it. Even as a super carefull hobbyist using trusted agencies and indies, i had meeting where the girl looked disinterested and looked like she wanted to be somewhere else. Those where the minority but it happened. I guess we just brush this off and think "oh it does not matter, there strangers, we won't see them again" and we move on. As long as it was not "too horrible" and we managed to have a certain sexual pleasure.

But a regular... you kind of open yourself to them you know, you feel a certain connection, even if its just professional...

I seen many SP post how they cared about there regulars. Does not mean they want to have them as boyfriend, but they genuiinly cared. I hope they where honest. And this make me feel better as a client.

I never had a sugarbaby and will never have one because im not in this financial bracket, but you would think if it goes this far, she would at least care a bit about the client right?

But if you read her story you can even feel how disgusted she was by him. Personally i just wish i never made any escorts feel that way. If you feel that way, please tell me so i can correct what is in my power and if its not in my power (physical look etc) just tell me politely and refuse to see me again ... Be honest plz. Thanks.

 

[hungry101]

Mike, that guy is disgusting. But here's the good news: No matter how disgusting you are, you can have hot young girls like Draga or WTF her name is. Now the guilt ridden POS is being haunted by the fat bastard. Well that is nothing but her guilt. He had no respect for himself and how could anyone else? Yechh!!!
A disinterested escort doesn't compare to this disgust.

I had to look up what a Louboutin is. Its a pair of shoes. She would fuck that disgusting guy for a pair of shoes? Now I make my Lewis Black voice and say Has the whole world gone fucking crazy? Its a pair of fucking shoes for God's sake.

 

[Carmine Falcone]

It all depends if SPs are simply another sex opportunity for the client or if SPs are your only hope of being with a woman. This dead guy certainly sounds like the latter. I'm less interested in how the SP really feels about you. It's a service, after all. And while being attractive and in shape likely helps generate genuine chemistry, having either of those qualities isn't what gets you laid with an SP.

I'm more interested in the hope that pay-for-play doesn't attract the wrong personality types. In this instance, both people are a hot mess. On one hand, he had no self esteem and used drugs. On the other, she's full of shit because she was "embarrassed" about being a sugar baby. How embarrassed was she when took his money to buy Louboutins? Ugh.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

This could be said for most escorts but not to that extreme.

 

[Pierre Woodman]

I seen many SP post how they cared about there regulars.

A sugar baby is just that, a sugar baby. See how long they hang around when there is no longer any sugar.

 

[hungry101]

I just looked up the top 14 quotes from the very quotable Mike Tyson who once said, "Everyone's has a plan 'till they get punched in the mouth."

I can't find the quote but I heard Iron Mike once say "When da money's gone the hoes is gone too." Even this idiot understands this. But the difference is, they shut their mouths and find another guy to be a parasite to.

I once explained to a relation that there is nothing wrong with these relationships. I explained "They [the girls] have something we want and we have something they want." It's as simple as that. There just ought to be a little professional courtesy.

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

When da money’s gone the hoes is gone too ....So true and as expected. A very wise man that Iron Mike and so so eloquently put
Basically exactly what Hungry said , I don’t have a problem, never did never will with sugardaddy relationship arrangements.Its a transactional arrangement ,, if he chooses to get companionship in that way and she is in it for obvious financial benefits so be it , it’s the way of the world . Needless to say this is not a romantic love affair but the hatred and bashing from this broad I just don’t get . If she got what she wanted then a little gratitude whoudnt hurt.
I have no sympathy for women as herself and I whoudnt mind if her ex sugardaddy haunts her for perpetuity

That being said Mike I quite don’t get the reason for this thread .
From your posts you seem like a decent guy , and I think your asking for the ladies to be more transparent as to how they feel about you as a client and such , right ? If you expect that from most providers I think you will be disappointed. Honesty is not always a commodity you find in this business, cause simply put its not good business.
So I suggest you stop worrying about it and just try to control that which you can control,,,
you being clean, respectful, basically a gentlemen etc., and it should be fine ...

Just my two cents

 

[Halloween Mike]

That being said Mike I quite don’t get the reason for this thread .

Well this is a news story related to our hobby, so i posted it so we can discuss it, give our opinion. I don't get that you don't get the point of the thread lol. Especially since she was a public persona (pornstar) before being an escort.

And i know once the money dry a sugarbaby/escort leaves, its her "job", but does not mean she has to act like she did toward the guy. You can accept the money and understand its a job yet still enjoy the company of the person.

 

[Carmine Falcone]

And i know once the money dry a sugarbaby/escort leaves, its her "job", but does not mean she has to act like she did toward the guy. You can accept the money and understand its a job yet still enjoy the company of the person.

Consider the source: she was "embarrassed" to be a sugar baby. So, how does that compute with having sex on camera as a porn star? I'd wager there is less shame in a sex hustle that's not filmed. She doesn't strike me as a lady who has her shit together so I'm not surprised she acted that way towards him. But even when the SP doesn't talk shit about you, it's good to remember the client-SP relationship is mostly built on role play and not authenticity.

 

[Julia Sky]

This girl has proved to be dumb more than just once so I am not surprised...........