Chapeau my friend... Great planning skills... That is certainly a quality that I can recognize in you....
Also the fact that you do attach importance to your reliability reputation...
If all women, and men in any business could be like you...
Yes, i can't say for all but for me its also something important to get "plan A". Obviously there is more than 1 lady who interest me at a time, i could name you 10 right now that i would love to see, without even thinking about it, in various agencies and some indies, BUT once i made my "choice" i kinda fantasize about the encounter, to a point it get its own importance. Im looking at the pics and try to put a face to the body, or if i saw her in a party before but it was a while ago i try to remember what her face look like. I (re)read the reviews and get in the mood. Its all part of the fantasy to think im gonna see THAT lady.
So when i got to go plan B, i loose part of this. Of course not saying i won't have fun, i had some plan B turned out to be A+ in the end lol. But since im a very "scheduling" person, going plan B always have me on the nerv for a little while. Go to make quick decision and be fast to call and i dunno... i just prefer to have my appointement scheduled and be respected as planned.
I saw an indy for a while and at first she was reliable and it was great, but then at some point it was not the case anymore. I dunno, maybe she tough that since we knew each other more i wouldn't take it bad to be canceled, but this whole thing clearly broke the trust i had in her and at some point i just decided to not bother anymore, it was not worth my time and effort, despite i always had excellent encounters when they did happen. She knew where i was coming from and that going to MTL is a lot of planning for me.
Im picky on the hotel, got to be not too expensive but close to berry-uqam, yet it can't be too "cheap" like on st-hubert cause some providers don't wan to go there, so i always have to pre-book especially in summer, and therefore i can't cancel the room. I have to find a ride to go and come back from MTL, because its way less costly than a bus. And i usually come to MTL every 2 months or so...sometimes more. So if i get cancel i do have to see someone else and the next possibility is in 2 months.. So thats why reliability for me is something very important.
I know there human and sometimes a cancellation can happen for a valid reason, but having booked myself even for a short while, my spider sense usually can detect when its a BS excuse and when its a genuine one.