If you can permit this, thats great, some of us can't thus why the need to pre-book. I wish agencies and indies don't stop the pre-booking system and all because of a few people that play them...
Prebookings and cancellations
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If you can permit this, thats great, some of us can't thus why the need to pre-book. I wish agencies and indies don't stop the pre-booking system and all because of a few people that play them...
I always pre-book at least a week in advance or even more, except for those rare occasions that I find myself available the same day. Pre-booking is usually a must for me.
When I first started, I would always be a bit worried to pre-book just in case something came up, I didn't want to cancel. I changed my way of thinking though, I treat each date like it's a special occasion (which they kind of are) same as a first Date, Birthday, etc... I don't treat it like a Dr. appointment because I've had to cancel those
Whatever may pop up, and things have in the past, I work it around my date like I would any other important occasion, It would really have to be an emergency to cancel.
I get extremely frustrated when friends are late when we're supposed to meet socially, I can't even imagine how frustrating it must be going through all that preparation and anticipation and being cancelled on 5 minutes before your date.
Pre-booking or not, there will always be WOT's... Boy oh boy, they really don't know what they are missing :smile:
i allways prebook. with agencys i normaly prebook at begining of week since i only see ladys on weekends. shortest prebooking for me is day b4. i rarely book same day unless agency/ladys doesnt offer prebookings or my plan a for weekend didnt work out. it is rare i cancel apointemtns but it depends on how far avance it is prebook. i can count on 1 hand how many time i cancel and it was due to illness/injory. in terms of being cancel on, it has hapen to me more then 2 hands to count. the 3 most comon reasen from agencys is lady time of month, lady got hurt and decided to finish earlyer, lady cancel last minute or did not show up. this doesnt include ladys/agencys who change time on same day b/c of previus hobyist extend apointment or lady was late in traffic or another reason.
for coment about not being abel to time horniness or no horniness b4 in avance, i dont have tis problem since i just need to watch a porno the night b4 meeting or morning b4 meeting and im ready to meet
longest prebooking that i did was over 1 month (i think it was 2 months) and normaly with indy. the longer the prebooking, the more chance i tink for cancelation since 4 xampel, i feel fine on monday, i am prety sure i will feel fine on saturday/sunday. however, i feel fine on monday but i have no way of noing if i will still be fine in 4 weeks. same with indy lady. wen she give me apointemnt for a few eeks away, i allso no there is hi er risk of cancelation.
wen i need to cancel, i allways give as much avance notise as posibel and in my >15 years as hobyist, i only cancel less then 5 times with all the prebookings that i do.
for one indy lady i had smoker coff early in week and new it woud not be gone by apointment weekend but i dont smoke and i new i was not contajous. i gave lady the option to see me or wait until i stop coffing 100%. i telld her i was not contajous. she decide to see me and i had good time with her.
for me i understnd tat cancelasians are part of game and alltho inconveniance, im genraly fine with it. i just dont acept noshows wich for me is worst then cancelations. for me, noshows are same day confirmasions that dont show up. that realy, realy, sux or if hobyist get confirmation and show up to area and lady doesnt turn on her cellphone or reply to texts.
This makes a lot of sense, not everyone is able to know how horny they will be next Tuesday
for coment about not being abel to time horniness or no horniness b4 in avance, i dont have tis problem since i just need to watch a porno the night b4 meeting or morning b4 meeting and im ready to meet
longest prebooking that i did was over 1 month (i think it was 2 months) and normaly with indy. the longer the prebooking, the more chance i tink for cancelation since 4 xampel, i feel fine on monday, i am prety sure i will feel fine on saturday/sunday. however, i feel fine on monday but i have no way of noing if i will still be fine in 4 weeks. same with indy lady. wen she give me apointemnt for a few eeks away, i allso no there is hi er risk of cancelation.
wen i need to cancel, i allways give as much avance notise as posibel and in my >15 years as hobyist, i only cancel less then 5 times with all the prebookings that i do.
for one indy lady i had smoker coff early in week and new it woud not be gone by apointment weekend but i dont smoke and i new i was not contajous. i gave lady the option to see me or wait until i stop coffing 100%. i telld her i was not contajous. she decide to see me and i had good time with her.
for me i understnd tat cancelasians are part of game and alltho inconveniance, im genraly fine with it. i just dont acept noshows wich for me is worst then cancelations. for me, noshows are same day confirmasions that dont show up. that realy, realy, sux or if hobyist get confirmation and show up to area and lady doesnt turn on her cellphone or reply to texts.
I treat each date like it's a special occasion (which they kind of are) same as a first Date, Birthday, etc... I don't treat it like a Dr. appointment because I've had to cancel those
Whatever may pop up, and things have in the past, I work it around my date like I would any other important occasion, It would really have to be an emergency to cancel.
I get extremely frustrated when friends are late when we're supposed to meet socially, I can't even imagine how frustrating it must be going through all that preparation and anticipation and being cancelled on 5 minutes before your date.
Same for me, its always a special ocasion and one i would not miss unless something really terrible happen like i dunno, i get injured in a car accident or i get a call something went wrong home, but more or less it would need a VERY HUGE circonstance for me to cancel.
And i hate when people get late too, timing is important
Lol i never have that problem, im always horny
I mean maybe if i would see one per day during 1 month i would maybe feel less horny at some point, but honestly my budget never let me get over my hornyness lol. Most i had was 2 in the span of 4 days, well sure after the forth one i was happy and ready to go home, but would i had been given 300$ by a friend to stay one more day and see another one, fuck yeah i would had take it easily.I almost always (99%of the time) prebook, sometimes as long as 2 months in advance. There is never any question whether or not I will be horny when I wake up in the morning, or throughout the day for that matter. In my experience prebooking is always easier, more reliable, and more appreciated with indys (rather than agencies), which are some, but not all, of the reasons I prefer indys. I have never just canceled a booking although I have moved one or two to a different day, and even doing that I did it several weeks out and still felt guilty about it! Since traveling to Montreal is a long trip for me, I don't get there all that frequently so it really is a very special occasion for me. I view it as a very special date and luckily I usually see ladies who treat our encounter that way too. Prebooking is a must for me since I do not like to leave anything to chance.
this month i had bad luck with cancelasions.
two wekend ago i woke up & fellt fine so confirm by textd 3 hours b4 meeting and mension i need confrmatin b4 heading there. i took shower and did standard stuff b4 meetings. wen i left shower, didnt get replyd so sent email & another text mensioning i needed confirmasian since i would not show up without it (i was given adress/location b4 hand). i tink 50 minutes b4 apointment, i receive cancelasion since she wasnt feeling well & just wake up. no major problems & we reshcedule & i see someone else.
wekend of grandprix (3 wekend ago), i had prebook with agency. wen i confirm morning of meeting, was telld that lady time of month & she cancel the day b4 and today... no problems 4 me & i see someoen else but my issue with this type of is that i tink i should have goten mesage b4 confirming i am avalbel. i rember another time wen i prebook with difrent agency to see a lady & lady was let go midweek and booker mesage me saying my weekend apointment was canceled same day it hapen or allmost same day. he didnt wait until weekend wen i mesage to confirm apointment and then tell me. same agency wen lady i prebook time of month hapen midweek, i was checking shcedules and notice she was not on shceudles but still on roster and didnt no if it was b/c she was fuly booked and removd from shcedule or another reason. as i was typing my text, i receive a mesage saying that time of month.
this past wekend another cancelasion due to illness of lady. we reshcedule.
for me cancelations are part of hobying & i acept them. i just think that wen agencys or ladys no abut cancaltions (last minute things are fine), they shouldnt wait until day to cancel. the same with hobyist... i mean if i prebook for weekend and company sends me to out of town for weekend and telld me on tuesday, it is bad form to wait until day of apointment to say i am out of town and cancel. if time of month hapen on thursday/friday, why wait until saturday wen customer confirms to say it. does agency think lady will be fine by saturday?
the cancelations with agency was prebook at begining of wek for wekend & the other cancelations was booked over 3 weeks avance.
two wekend ago i woke up & fellt fine so confirm by textd 3 hours b4 meeting and mension i need confrmatin b4 heading there. i took shower and did standard stuff b4 meetings. wen i left shower, didnt get replyd so sent email & another text mensioning i needed confirmasian since i would not show up without it (i was given adress/location b4 hand). i tink 50 minutes b4 apointment, i receive cancelasion since she wasnt feeling well & just wake up. no major problems & we reshcedule & i see someone else.
wekend of grandprix (3 wekend ago), i had prebook with agency. wen i confirm morning of meeting, was telld that lady time of month & she cancel the day b4 and today... no problems 4 me & i see someoen else but my issue with this type of is that i tink i should have goten mesage b4 confirming i am avalbel. i rember another time wen i prebook with difrent agency to see a lady & lady was let go midweek and booker mesage me saying my weekend apointment was canceled same day it hapen or allmost same day. he didnt wait until weekend wen i mesage to confirm apointment and then tell me. same agency wen lady i prebook time of month hapen midweek, i was checking shcedules and notice she was not on shceudles but still on roster and didnt no if it was b/c she was fuly booked and removd from shcedule or another reason. as i was typing my text, i receive a mesage saying that time of month.
this past wekend another cancelasion due to illness of lady. we reshcedule.
for me cancelations are part of hobying & i acept them. i just think that wen agencys or ladys no abut cancaltions (last minute things are fine), they shouldnt wait until day to cancel. the same with hobyist... i mean if i prebook for weekend and company sends me to out of town for weekend and telld me on tuesday, it is bad form to wait until day of apointment to say i am out of town and cancel. if time of month hapen on thursday/friday, why wait until saturday wen customer confirms to say it. does agency think lady will be fine by saturday?
the cancelations with agency was prebook at begining of wek for wekend & the other cancelations was booked over 3 weeks avance.
Ok, can you put it back in french or english now? I mean... damn i am not a grammar police normally, but that was terrible...
I always enjoy reading jacep's posts, I can make the words out easily. If it was in French I would not be reading it at all.
In the past if I have cancelled, usually the day before at the latest, I always re book and make it up to the girl. Whether it be some, wine , champagne, or even Scotch. I always hate doing it, and well shit happens.
I had a recent experience with a SP in Toronto whom I have been wanting to see for ages. It just so happened I was in Toronto for business so I made the appointment. Texted earlier in the day and all was still good, got to the rendezvous point and no answer, no text, no email, no phone. She emailed me later saying she had slept past her alarm, it was a late evening appointment. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and she promised to make it up to me, which I was fine with.
I set up an appointment 4 days later for a visit in 48 hours. Everything still a go, that is until the day of the appointment. She is not answering her email, texts, or phone. I am annoyed and pissed beyond belief at this point in time, but I know shit happens. I send her an email, not too lengthy, and explain how upset I was and I also told her to reach out to me as I still would like to see her. It has been over a week with no response.
She wasn't a newbie or fly by night, she is well reviewed and been in the business for at least the last 3-4 years.
I had a recent experience with a SP in Toronto whom I have been wanting to see for ages. It just so happened I was in Toronto for business so I made the appointment. Texted earlier in the day and all was still good, got to the rendezvous point and no answer, no text, no email, no phone. She emailed me later saying she had slept past her alarm, it was a late evening appointment. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and she promised to make it up to me, which I was fine with.
I set up an appointment 4 days later for a visit in 48 hours. Everything still a go, that is until the day of the appointment. She is not answering her email, texts, or phone. I am annoyed and pissed beyond belief at this point in time, but I know shit happens. I send her an email, not too lengthy, and explain how upset I was and I also told her to reach out to me as I still would like to see her. It has been over a week with no response.
She wasn't a newbie or fly by night, she is well reviewed and been in the business for at least the last 3-4 years.
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