Providers: Reference vs ID

[vwjf]

Providers that ask for a reference or an ID, does it matter which?

I haven't seen anyone except my favorite SP in the past year or more. I'm sure she'd give me a recommendation I couldn't even live up to, but I'd rather not. I feel like asking her for a reference to see someone else might break the magic.

Indies, do you care? Would you find out if you're both indycompanion girls?

OK. I don't want to be an ass but you know she sees other clients right?

Its a financial-pleasure transaction.


I'm pretty sure she won't mind sharing....

 

[Gabars]

OK. I don't want to be an ass but you know she sees other clients right?

Its a financial-pleasure transaction.


I'm pretty sure she won't mind sharing....

I know, I've addressed that before.

 

[Joe Thighsman]

Why do they often ask for a reference within the last 6 months? I might only see an Indy once a year, and see agency girls in between.

 

[ladirection]

I understand the discomfort in asking a girl for a reference, I feel it too, but never, EVER send picture of your ID to a stranger you don't know. Don't even send it to a friend or close colleague. And people shouldn't have to explain to you why that is a terrible idea.

 

[Mistral]

I don't ever share ID to make appointments, but for argument's sake - what would be the reason to give ID if the client is hosting (outcall) in a reputable 4 or 5-star hotel?

 

[Guido Vendetta]

The threat for the guys is blackmail. If that happens, then C-36 no longer applies as they become blackmailers and not SWs. Get a lawyer and go to the cops. You wont be charged. If you dont understand the risk equation between the two parties then move on to someone who doesn't require screening and stop fretting that the ones you do want to see require it.