Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[Carl.is.Jung]

Coming from someone who is on this board lol , but I guess you know best.
This reminds me of the old saying people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

Self-deprecation. Intentionally said.

In the mood to tango are we, Fradi? Still bitter I see. Upset cuz you haven't mentioned your ATF for the 257th time this week? Lol

Maybe those who can barely lift a stone, should leave it to those who can.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Well, I think his point was that she deserves to date someone who isn't a client. The same way you've talked about how you could never date an escort, many escorts would also never date a client. It works both ways, in one case you don't want your life partner to do this job and in the other case we don't want a partner who cheats and books escorts. I think it's fair

100%. Merci.

 

[LC18]

Hope you will all have a wonderful week ❤️

 

[Fradi]

Well, I think his point was that she deserves to date someone who isn't a client. The same way you've talked about how you could never date an escort, many escorts would also never date a client. It works both ways, in one case you don't want your life partner to do this job and in the other case we don't want a partner who cheats and books escorts. I think it's fair

I don’t think love has any boundaries or preference and it defies logic over and over again.
Anybody can date anybody and fall in love with anybody, all logical or preconceived ideas traditions fall by the way side when two people connect and fall in love.
Who is to define what another person deserves or doesn’t?

 

[LC18]

I don’t think love has any boundaries or preference and it defies logic over and over again.
Anybody can date anybody and fall in love with anybody, all logical or preconceived ideas traditions fall by the way side when two people connect and fall in love.
Who is to define what another person deserves or doesn’t?

Ben la.

Ce qui est bon pour pitou est bon pour minou.

You would never date an escort and some SPs would never date clients. It’s fair game.

Hope you’ll have a great Monday even though it’s grey ❤️

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I don’t think

Oh boy... Here we go... off on a tangent again.

All jokes aside, important to monitor and keep in check your blood glucose levels.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Hope you will all have a wonderful week ❤️

Love the kindness. You as well.

 

[Fradi]

Ben la.

Ce qui est bon pour pitou est bon pour minou.

You would never date an escort and some SPs would never date clients. It’s fair game.

Hope you’ll have a great Monday even though it’s grey ❤️

That was not the point we all have choices and reasons for who we want to date and be with and that is no one else’s business.
The point was that it is not up to you to judge and tell someone what and who they deserve.

 

[Julia Sky]

That was not the point we all have choices and reasons for who we want to date and be with and that is no one else’s business.
The point was that it is not up to you to judge and tell someone what and who they deserve.

But even you keep saying that you think your ATF deserves someone her age who shares her values and life goals... It's essentially the same thing that's happening here when he said that XYZ girl deserves someone who isn't a client. I don't understand the double standard. :/

 

[Julia Sky]

Anyway random thought : I haven't had a birthday duo yet. I know it's only the 4th day of the month but I am manifesting lol

 

[LC18]

The point was that it is not up to you to judge and tell someone what and who they deserve.

I think people deserve people that aren’t cheating on them with escorts. If it’s a client it’s a big risk

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

But even you keep saying that you think your ATF deserves someone her age who shares her values and life goals... It's essentially the same thing that's happening here when he said that XYZ girl deserves someone who isn't a client. I don't understand the double standard. :/

100% for calling this out.
Btw I wasn't joking or trying to be insulting about the blood sugar thing. I've seen it dozens of times, the symptoms fit.

 

[Fradi]

But even you keep saying that you think your ATF deserves someone her age who shares her values and life goals... It's essentially the same thing that's happening here when he said that XYZ girl deserves someone who isn't a client. I don't understand the double standard. :/

That is because you cannot interpret the difference.
When I say that my ATF deserves someone her own age etc.. it is because I think the world of her and want nothing more than a life of joy and happiness for her quite the opposite of what he was implying that she deserves much more than this particular person or any other that happens to be on Merb.
His comments were directed at Skym and quite uncalled for, but that is just my opinion.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I think people deserve people that aren’t cheating on them with escorts. If it’s a client it’s a big risk

You're not wrong.
I am guilty of this myself and sincerely changing my ways. Always work in progress tho. Had my own blood sugar (and other concomitant) issues going on.
Required a changing of mindset most importantly.
I actually think escorts could make for better life partners in a certain way. They have seen things and have much more experience with men and the human condition than most. It's the men that need to move beyond treating and seeing them as just sex workers. They are equal humans on every level.

My 2 Canadian cents...

 

[lovethaifood]

I think people deserve people that aren’t cheating on them with escorts. If it’s a client it’s a big risk

Not all clients cheat or are cheating. Some are not in any relationship at all. What I like about seeing an SP is there is no ambiguity and you can just cut to the chase.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

His comments were directed at Skym and quite uncalled for, but that is just my opinion.

Would love to hear from the women (but not just) on this board. Do you feel my comment was uncalled for or more importantly, unfair?

 

[LC18]

Not all clients cheat or are cheating. Some are not in any relationship at all. What I like about seeing an SP is there is no ambiguity and you can just cut to the chase.

“If it’s a client it’s a big risk.”

 

[Julia Sky]

That is because you cannot interpret the difference.
When I say that my ATF deserves someone her own age etc.. it is because I think the world of her and want nothing more than a life of joy and happiness for her quite the opposite of what he was implying that she deserves much more than this particular person or any other that happens to be on Merb.
His comments were directed at Skym and quite uncalled for, but that is just my opinion.

You're putting words in his mouth that he didn't say. I understood it as "she deserves better than dating a client, which has high potential for cheating down the road". If he was taking a dig at Skym specifically, I feel like the wording would've been different.

I don't want to argue with you but I don't agree with the premise here.

Not every client will cheat while in a relationship but we have no way of knowing that, in fact we have no way of knowing if anyone will cheat client or not. But the likelihood is simply higher with a client, especially one who is so deep into it that he uses a board for this "hobby". There is no guarantee that he won't be tempted to keep booking.

I honestly think his comment wasn't that deep nor rude...

 

[Fradi]

His comment was a direct dig at Skym and totally uncalled for.
How do you explain “ your comments always make me cringe”.
It is not the first time he insults other people and then goes onto this bs about respecting SW bla bla bla.

 

[lovethaifood]

“If it’s a client it’s a big risk.”

Oh I agree there is risk but, I just mean thst not every client is in a realtoonship. I know I'm not.