Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[Carl.is.Jung]

How do you explain “ your comments always make me cringe”.

Easy, it's called honesty.
This individual routinely refers to sex workers as "cum dumpsters" as well as other very misogynistic comments.
Nothing personal.
Makes me cringe.

I think Fradi is just holding resentment specifically towards me. I'm sorry Fradi, I really didn't meant to hurt you, again and again. (Never said that to a dude before)... Just went limp, a bit.

 

[Fradi]

Easy, it's called honesty.
This individual routinely refers to sex workers as "cum dumpsters" as well as other very misogynistic comments.
Nothing personal.
Makes me cringe.

I think Fradi is just holding resentment specifically towards me. I'm sorry Fradi, I really didn't meant to hurt you, again and again. (Never said that to a dude before)... Just went limp, a bit.

I suppose blood sugar levels and the rest of your comments were a term of endearment also.
I don’t play games with people never have.
Honesty?

 

[Jaxan]

We should all speak our truths, as long as it's done in a respectful manner. We all need to be reminded when we are wrong or cross boundaries, otherwise how will we learn and grow? Maybe hard to do on a forum like this though, where the majority of users are men, looking/paying for sex/companionship. But self reflecting, I wish I did not hold my tongue (fingers) as much as I do, and admire those who do not.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I suppose blood sugar levels and the rest of your comments were a term of endearment also.
I don’t play games with people never have.
Honesty?

Naaah, I honestly don't give a rats ass about your feelings or calling you out on a public forum. Just makes for fun banter, is all.

Btw you don't have to listen to me, more than one woman here this morning has tried to show you "the light". You seem to not want to hear it. That's on you.

 

[LC18]

Oh I agree there is risk but, I just mean thst not every client is in a realtoonship. I know I'm not.

Never said all clients cheat I just said the risk is bigger. Most of my clients aren’t single.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I wish I did not hold my tongue (fingers) as much as I do, and admire those who do not.

I know HB.
Those who can, should.
(Got your back. Always.)

 

[Fradi]

Naaah, I honestly don't give a rats ass about your feelings or calling you out on a public forum. Just makes for fun banter, is all.

That is it exactly it you don’t give a rats ass about anybody except yourself lol.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

This thread will be locked soon, obvisouly.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

That is it exactly it you don’t give a rats ass about anybody except yourself lol.

No it was specific to you. Just you. You're special.

 

[themonk83]

November, the depressing month

Trying to get used to the new winter schedule from most businesses

 

[themonk83]

This weird fixation some have about rating numbers about one's look. I'm looking at you ypg spa thread

 

[LC18]

This weird fixation some have about rating numbers about one's look. I'm looking at you ypg spa thread

I think about Bruna Surfinstinha so often because of that. She was rating her clients on her blog

 

[Lunaseraphim]

This weird fixation some have about rating numbers about one's look. I'm looking at you ypg spa thread

Honestly this is a huge pet peeve of mine.......... It's very cruel, even if you give someone a ''good grade''. It's just not something anybody likes to see. Reviews already have the potential to be dehumanizing, why make it even worse? I like getting a good review just like any other SP out there, it's good for my business and it's encouraging, but getting ''rated'' doesn't feel good.

 

[Mandouke]

On my mind, tonight is getting past tomorrow evening and the outcome of the US election.

 

[Nachoy]

Honestly this is a huge pet peeve of mine.......... It's very cruel, even if you give someone a ''good grade''. It's just not something anybody likes to see. Reviews already have the potential to be dehumanizing, why make it even worse? I like getting a good review just like any other SP out there, it's good for my business and it's encouraging, but getting ''rated'' doesn't feel good.

If it makes you feel better. I’m in the service industry and get rated and review by clients
There always be someone out there that you can’t please and there are going be some out there that can be vindictive and post unfair reviews and unjust criticisms Yes it can be dehumanizing being rated
Don’t let that bring you down. You sound like a caring, intelligent woman who is good at her craft and the only ones that really matter to you are your regular followers
In my work I rely on public opinions to get more business I also have loyal clients that I'm grateful for

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

If it makes you feel better. I’m in the service industry and get rated and review by clients
There always be someone out there that you can’t please and there are going be some out there that can be vindictive and post unfair reviews and unjust criticisms Yes it can be dehumanizing being rated
Don’t let that bring you down. You sound like a caring, intelligent woman who is good at her craft and the only ones that really matter to you are your regular followers
In my work I rely on public opinions to get more business I also have loyal clients that I'm grateful for

All fun and games until you realize your words/questions can be unintentionally uncomfortable and upsetting even.

Good on you for empathizing and showing some reconciliation. Shows that your deeper than your merb persona.

We're all fighting our own personal battles.
If you can't be kind, be fair.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If it makes you feel better. I’m in the service industry and get rated and review by clients
There always be someone out there that you can’t please and there are going be some out there that can be vindictive and post unfair reviews and unjust criticisms Yes it can be dehumanizing being rated
Don’t let that bring you down. You sound like a caring, intelligent woman who is good at her craft and the only ones that really matter to you are your regular followers
In my work I rely on public opinions to get more business I also have loyal clients that I'm grateful for

It doesn't make me feel better. I think it's weird to have the reflex to write a bad review when you think about what somebody is going through on a day to day basis to provide this service. I do rely on public opinion too hence why I am on this forum advertising and hoping for good reviews, so I get what you mean, but there is a way to do it respectfully. We're talking about rating people's looks from 1 to 10 which is particularly misogynistic.. I'm not deluded enough to think that attractiveness doesn't matter in this business, but a points system like this can't be objective specially when talking about somebody's physical appearance, I could be somebody's 7 and another person's 10.

 

[Nachoy]

It doesn't make me feel better. I think it's weird to have the reflex to write a bad review when you think about what somebody is going through on a day to day basis to provide this service. I do rely on public opinion too hence why I am on this forum advertising and hoping for good reviews, so I get what you mean, but there is a way to do it respectfully. We're talking about rating people's looks from 1 to 10 which is particularly misogynistic.. I'm not deluded enough to think that attractiveness doesn't matter in this business, but a points system like this can't be objective specially when talking about somebody's physical appearance, I could be somebody's 7 and another person's 10.

Thanks for your insights and vulnerability
I appreciate your responses to my sometimes abrasive questions You very open and honest with your feelings
I give you a ten in beauty inside and out

 

[Nachoy]

It doesn't make me feel better. I think it's weird to have the reflex to write a bad review when you think about what somebody is going through on a day to day basis to provide this service. I do rely on public opinion too hence why I am on this forum advertising and hoping for good reviews, so I get what you mean, but there is a way to do it respectfully. We're talking about rating people's looks from 1 to 10 which is particularly misogynistic.. I'm not deluded enough to think that attractiveness doesn't matter in this business, but a points system like this can't be objective specially when talking about somebody's physical appearance, I could be somebody's 7 and another person's 10.

Lunaseraphim. Final judges decision .
You are a 10 all across!

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Especially the one on the left.

Aiiiichiiimamaaa.

Reminds me of my HB.
Sorry - I couldn't resist the opportunity lol