Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[bodick7]

November, the depressing month

I thought about it yesterday. We get to take this time to keep busy.
Take time to go see family and friends. Lots of birthdays.
Take time to prepare for winter. Got a ski pass and I’m looking for a snowboard.
Take time for slow food (good wine, fondue, raclette hum…)
Take time to go to gym (powerlifting, climbing, CrossFit, whatever) to burn that slow food.
Fabulous time to craft something (workshop awaiting projects, write down some poetry or thoughts)
If you still find it depressing, go see your favorite and ask her to give you a big hug.
There are no time to waist to make it a fantastic month.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I can totally imagine myself waking up with her in the morning. She says good morning to me while kissing me while smiling.

Then she gaves me a quick blowjob, eats my nut and then I head to work afterwards, a happy camper lol

What's on my mind?

Your repetitive comments about the same few women always make me cringe. Makes me think perhaps you're very lonely in your personal life.

I'd imagine the woman deserves better than anyone on this board.

 

[Fradi]

I'd imagine the woman deserves better than anyone on this board.

Coming from someone who is on this board lol , but I guess you know best.
This reminds me of the old saying people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

 

[Julia Sky]

Coming from someone who is on this board lol , but I guess you know best.
This reminds me of the old saying people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

Well, I think his point was that she deserves to date someone who isn't a client. The same way you've talked about how you could never date an escort, many escorts would also never date a client. It works both ways, in one case you don't want your life partner to do this job and in the other case we don't want a partner who cheats and books escorts. I think it's fair

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Coming from someone who is on this board lol , but I guess you know best.
This reminds me of the old saying people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

Self-deprecation. Intentionally said.

In the mood to tango are we, Fradi? Still bitter I see. Upset cuz you haven't mentioned your ATF for the 257th time this week? Lol

Maybe those who can barely lift a stone, should leave it to those who can.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Well, I think his point was that she deserves to date someone who isn't a client. The same way you've talked about how you could never date an escort, many escorts would also never date a client. It works both ways, in one case you don't want your life partner to do this job and in the other case we don't want a partner who cheats and books escorts. I think it's fair

100%. Merci.

 

[LC18]

Hope you will all have a wonderful week ❤️

 

[Fradi]

Well, I think his point was that she deserves to date someone who isn't a client. The same way you've talked about how you could never date an escort, many escorts would also never date a client. It works both ways, in one case you don't want your life partner to do this job and in the other case we don't want a partner who cheats and books escorts. I think it's fair

I don’t think love has any boundaries or preference and it defies logic over and over again.
Anybody can date anybody and fall in love with anybody, all logical or preconceived ideas traditions fall by the way side when two people connect and fall in love.
Who is to define what another person deserves or doesn’t?

 

[LC18]

I don’t think love has any boundaries or preference and it defies logic over and over again.
Anybody can date anybody and fall in love with anybody, all logical or preconceived ideas traditions fall by the way side when two people connect and fall in love.
Who is to define what another person deserves or doesn’t?

Ben la.

Ce qui est bon pour pitou est bon pour minou.

You would never date an escort and some SPs would never date clients. It’s fair game.

Hope you’ll have a great Monday even though it’s grey ❤️

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I don’t think

Oh boy... Here we go... off on a tangent again.

All jokes aside, important to monitor and keep in check your blood glucose levels.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Hope you will all have a wonderful week ❤️

Love the kindness. You as well.

 

[Fradi]

Ben la.

Ce qui est bon pour pitou est bon pour minou.

You would never date an escort and some SPs would never date clients. It’s fair game.

Hope you’ll have a great Monday even though it’s grey ❤️

That was not the point we all have choices and reasons for who we want to date and be with and that is no one else’s business.
The point was that it is not up to you to judge and tell someone what and who they deserve.

 

[Julia Sky]

That was not the point we all have choices and reasons for who we want to date and be with and that is no one else’s business.
The point was that it is not up to you to judge and tell someone what and who they deserve.

But even you keep saying that you think your ATF deserves someone her age who shares her values and life goals... It's essentially the same thing that's happening here when he said that XYZ girl deserves someone who isn't a client. I don't understand the double standard. :/

 

[Julia Sky]

Anyway random thought : I haven't had a birthday duo yet. I know it's only the 4th day of the month but I am manifesting lol

 

[LC18]

The point was that it is not up to you to judge and tell someone what and who they deserve.

I think people deserve people that aren’t cheating on them with escorts. If it’s a client it’s a big risk

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

But even you keep saying that you think your ATF deserves someone her age who shares her values and life goals... It's essentially the same thing that's happening here when he said that XYZ girl deserves someone who isn't a client. I don't understand the double standard. :/

100% for calling this out.
Btw I wasn't joking or trying to be insulting about the blood sugar thing. I've seen it dozens of times, the symptoms fit.

 

[Fradi]

But even you keep saying that you think your ATF deserves someone her age who shares her values and life goals... It's essentially the same thing that's happening here when he said that XYZ girl deserves someone who isn't a client. I don't understand the double standard. :/

That is because you cannot interpret the difference.
When I say that my ATF deserves someone her own age etc.. it is because I think the world of her and want nothing more than a life of joy and happiness for her quite the opposite of what he was implying that she deserves much more than this particular person or any other that happens to be on Merb.
His comments were directed at Skym and quite uncalled for, but that is just my opinion.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I think people deserve people that aren’t cheating on them with escorts. If it’s a client it’s a big risk

You're not wrong.
I am guilty of this myself and sincerely changing my ways. Always work in progress tho. Had my own blood sugar (and other concomitant) issues going on.
Required a changing of mindset most importantly.
I actually think escorts could make for better life partners in a certain way. They have seen things and have much more experience with men and the human condition than most. It's the men that need to move beyond treating and seeing them as just sex workers. They are equal humans on every level.

My 2 Canadian cents...

 

[lovethaifood]

I think people deserve people that aren’t cheating on them with escorts. If it’s a client it’s a big risk

Not all clients cheat or are cheating. Some are not in any relationship at all. What I like about seeing an SP is there is no ambiguity and you can just cut to the chase.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

His comments were directed at Skym and quite uncalled for, but that is just my opinion.

Would love to hear from the women (but not just) on this board. Do you feel my comment was uncalled for or more importantly, unfair?