Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2
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You're putting words in his mouth that he didn't say. I understood it as "she deserves better than dating a client, which has high potential for cheating down the road". If he was taking a dig at Skym specifically, I feel like the wording would've been different.
I don't want to argue with you but I don't agree with the premise here.
Not every client will cheat while in a relationship but we have no way of knowing that, in fact we have no way of knowing if anyone will cheat client or not. But the likelihood is simply higher with a client, especially one who is so deep into it that he uses a board for this "hobby". There is no guarantee that he won't be tempted to keep booking.
I honestly think his comment wasn't that deep nor rude...
His comment was a direct dig at Skym and totally uncalled for.
How do you explain “ your comments always make me cringe”.
It is not the first time he insults other people and then goes onto this bs about respecting SW bla bla bla.
How do you explain “ your comments always make me cringe”.
It is not the first time he insults other people and then goes onto this bs about respecting SW bla bla bla.
Oh I agree there is risk but, I just mean thst not every client is in a realtoonship. I know I'm not.
Easy, it's called honesty.
This individual routinely refers to sex workers as "cum dumpsters" as well as other very misogynistic comments.
Nothing personal.
Makes me cringe.
I think Fradi is just holding resentment specifically towards me. I'm sorry Fradi, I really didn't meant to hurt you, again and again. (Never said that to a dude before)... Just went limp, a bit.
I suppose blood sugar levels and the rest of your comments were a term of endearment also.
I don’t play games with people never have.
Honesty?
We should all speak our truths, as long as it's done in a respectful manner. We all need to be reminded when we are wrong or cross boundaries, otherwise how will we learn and grow? Maybe hard to do on a forum like this though, where the majority of users are men, looking/paying for sex/companionship. But self reflecting, I wish I did not hold my tongue (fingers) as much as I do, and admire those who do not.
Naaah, I honestly don't give a rats ass about your feelings or calling you out on a public forum. Just makes for fun banter, is all.
Btw you don't have to listen to me, more than one woman here this morning has tried to show you "the light". You seem to not want to hear it. That's on you.
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Never said all clients cheat I just said the risk is bigger. Most of my clients aren’t single.
That is it exactly it you don’t give a rats ass about anybody except yourself lol.
Trying to get used to the new winter schedule from most businessesNovember, the depressing month
This weird fixation some have about rating numbers about one's look. I'm looking at you ypg spa thread
This weird fixation some have about rating numbers about one's look. I'm looking at you ypg spa thread
I think about Bruna Surfinstinha so often because of that. She was rating her clients on her blog
Honestly this is a huge pet peeve of mine.......... It's very cruel, even if you give someone a ''good grade''. It's just not something anybody likes to see. Reviews already have the potential to be dehumanizing, why make it even worse? I like getting a good review just like any other SP out there, it's good for my business and it's encouraging, but getting ''rated'' doesn't feel good.This weird fixation some have about rating numbers about one's look. I'm looking at you ypg spa thread
On my mind, tonight is getting past tomorrow evening and the outcome of the US election.
If it makes you feel better. I’m in the service industry and get rated and review by clients
There always be someone out there that you can’t please and there are going be some out there that can be vindictive and post unfair reviews and unjust criticisms Yes it can be dehumanizing being rated
Don’t let that bring you down. You sound like a caring, intelligent woman who is good at her craft and the only ones that really matter to you are your regular followers
In my work I rely on public opinions to get more business I also have loyal clients that I'm grateful for
All fun and games until you realize your words/questions can be unintentionally uncomfortable and upsetting even.
Good on you for empathizing and showing some reconciliation. Shows that your deeper than your merb persona.
We're all fighting our own personal battles.
If you can't be kind, be fair.
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