Exactly. Most of the sex workers hate the clients.
BTW-- A lot of sex workers call their regular clients a friend.
Hello CLOUD,
In business the word "friend" (or valued customer) is nothing but a ploy of salesmanship. Sometimes I get so annoyed when I hear this pitch angle, which they seem to insist on sticking your with for about 2 minute every time and repeat frequently, I'll tell the person point blank, basically: I don't need a sales pitch, just help me solve the issue or you'll lose the business.
Do you really think anyone could be that intimate with strangers, sometimes probably some fairly undesirable ones, if they hated most of the clients? I find that extremely doubtful unless they're the kind of ladies who have some kind of self-degradation syndrome in some degree. If they are saying "hate" in most cases I'd bet most of the time they're thinking of the worse times or have had a recent poor experience or series of them, just like the regular job sucking for a time.
Conversely, I wouldn't feel comfortable if the ladies liked every client. Since they must meet some unappealing, shady, and difficult characters there it should not be surprising if there was some general disdain over what kind of situation they will be facing on the average in this business. Imagine yourself a male escort facing who knows what kind of woman or surprise just on the other side of the door every time.
you guys are way too complicated...
1) Does the sp makes you hard ?
2)Will the level of service be up to your expectations ?
3)And WTF is that guy yelling at you ?
4) I never paid any "fee" when I refuse.
Good advice.
I've done plenty of photography, including female models. Does anyone think the photographer working for a client won't try to make her look her best? Are you still interested when you see her. If not it's simple. Refuse.
If you aren't sure about the kind of service you'll get, ask. Don't complain about business matters being a killjoy if you are anxious or picky about service. If you don't ask in that case, it's your fault.
Don't ever let the lady or owner intimidate you into anything. Many, it seems, want to stay on good terms for future calls or some unsaid favors. Fine. But again, if you allow yourself to be manipulated for any reason it's your choice. If you don't stand up to intimidation and don't report it honestly you are perpetuating a problem for everyone. AND, don't ever attack anyone who reports such abuse because you want to kiss the ass of your favorite girl or owner, unless you have provable reasons for thinking the reporter is being dishonest. Being a white knight (defending abuse because of favoritism) has been a costly problem for many clients.
I've only refused a lady who had arrived twice, once only because I underestimated the funds I hand with me. Each time I gave a minimal compensation. I felt that was fair. Others have the right not to give anything.
***You the client are spending a lot in this hobby. You have the choice within reason of how to react, whether to refuse the lady. The choice of her staying or not is a totally subjective one, though decent manners and reasonable accountability should be maintained. Your choice and behavior can make this business better or worse for everyone else.
Cheers,
Merlot
