Sandy

[Yme]

Hey, guys
I've been reading about Sandy's story, and that Mataev trial. It really fucks me up. I could kill those bastards with my own hands, seriously. And it got me thinking: how do I know that this masseuse or that escort is there on her own free will? What can I do? I don"t go to those asian places, where the offer "fresh off the boat girls", I tend to avoid those high mileage places and all... But still.

How does it make you feel?

 

[Mod 11]

Hi Yme

Can you link to what you're referring to? It's impossible to understand for people not familiar with the things you're talking about.

Thanks

 

[Yme]

Sure. I have this link in french, from La Presse : http://www.lapresse.ca/actualites/q...taev-une-arrestation-salutaire-pour-sandy.php
This girl was savagely beaten, repeatedly raped and forced into prostitution by these guys. I don't know, it really fuck me up.

 

[curious2012]

Personally that's why I prefer indies. I figure there's less of a chance of exploitation and that they're doing it by choice.

 

[old_beginner]

Curious,

I agree with you: Indies and more mature ladies.

After discussing with many SP (dancers, masseuses and escorts), I was easily convinced that the more mature ones (let's say 25 and more) are on their own and fully accepting the advantages and disavantages of the sex industry. Sometimes, financial reasons are their single motivation and they do not really like their work but, at least, they are not forced and beaten by someone else. Unfortunately, I had some doubts about very young girls (18-20) met in strip clubs and massage places and I prefer to stay away from them since it makes me incomfortable about that. I also know what places are better to avoid and those who are more recommendable, even if you are never sure in that industry.

Yme, I read the Sandy's story and it is very sad and I hope that Mataev will be sent to prison where some people will take good care of him.

 

[Maria Divina]

In fact, THAT kind of prostitution should stop and never be.
The "clients" of that girl could/should have seen things, but they simply closed their eyes if they did and permit that girl to live hell on earth the time she was with that Mataev.

That's a really sad story, and that's exactly why some people think that prostitution should stop. If those of you guys who see those kind of abused ladies stopped, the bad treatments would probably stopped too, because "gangster style guy" will have no benefice to abuse and "rent a girl" that way.
Be part of the solution, not part of the problem.

Anyway, I am not really sure that "clients" of that kind of abused girls are on Merb.