It would make a difference if I was into dating and gifting… but I am not. You perfectly picked your examples, I could easily put names on all 3!
Since I’ve stopped complaining…
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Well if it is directed to other sew workers its for sole purpose of bragging in my opinion. Its like to use a wrestling term a “ cheap pop” .
Good point. I agree that there’s a way to ask for something. It does make a difference .
#1 is definitely a turnoff, I guess that example is what most of us are complaining about!
Obviously 2 and 3 are more subtle ways of expressing something they’d like to have.
There was a similar thread in the Quebec section where SPs could vent what they saw as irritating in regard to some Johns.
As expected this rapidly got more and more heated since we (Johns) are great and mighty for giving reviews with very little restraint, but when we are judged it's a whole different ball game.
Even if we say anything can be said depending on how it is put forth, let's say that male testosterone egos flare up very rapidly, just like our cocks.
And we all know what happens when the blood goes from one brain to the "other".
Strange that in those cases our IQ becomes inversely proportional to the direction of our dicks.
Universally, nobody likes a complainer.
Particularly in a medium used in a professional matter to attract business, of all things. If it was possibly a personal twitter account, go for it.
There was once a provider out in Texas, blonde and toured around. She ran a twitter with periodic photos.
However after sampling enough of her posts, i recall concluding.. Does she even like guys?
She was often posting in order to whine and complain about guys.... objectified into just a cash register whilst we are the customer reading this?
I could not figure if she could not see, or didn't care of the impact of her negativity potentially to herself. I suspected it was the former.
We are in a day and age where flexing is almost becoming a normal thing in social media. It is a big way to get likes and become popular, showing off extravagance, and what others apparently demonstrated as our worth in gifts. I can't say anything wrong about those who do it, as those are the very same things that the biggest influencers are known for, and aren't SPs on social media doing the very same thing? Becoming social media influencers. I could be wrong, as I really don't get it myself, and don't feel comfortable enough in front of a camera to post things every day, or even regularly.
But does make sense that posting positivity would attract positive results.
As much as we all have struggles, when it comes to business of any sort, people tend to avoid complaining and negative comments.
And showing off gifts is a way for an SP to show the positive side of her business, and that things are going well.
But does make sense that posting positivity would attract positive results.
As much as we all have struggles, when it comes to business of any sort, people tend to avoid complaining and negative comments.
And showing off gifts is a way for an SP to show the positive side of her business, and that things are going well.
If I was looking into acquiring someone's service, no matter what that service (electrician, plumber, etc.) and I saw that they were complaining about their clients it would put me off from calling them.
Even when reading google reviews I tend to look for how the company responds to negative reviews. I'm surprised how unprofessionally they respond sometimes, (I'm not implying you were, I have never seen your twitters) and even if they have close to 5 star reviews I avoid them.
As far as people posting a review on how unattractive you are, those are the reviews you shouldn't let get to you. It's coming from a deeper place where it probably has nothing to do with you.
As much as I would love to think that everybody finds me attractive, I'm sure that there are some people that don't (I know it's hard to believe lol).
No one has every done that, the posts that make me roll my eyes have nothing to do with me actually which is why I’ve stopped taking them so seriously
I get it, you either read too fast or just didn’t understand what I said.
There are a couple uses for social media and they are hard to blend effectively on one profile. I get wanting to discuss work, show off to your friends, and warn of dangerous clients, but as a customer I find it mostly a turn-off(except the terrible client behavior, call that shit out all day). If you frequently complain about clients in public, I worry about what you are thinking during the session. If you show off your first class trip to the Bahamas I feel that my 1 or 2 hour donation is better spent with someone who will value it more.
I look at twitter profiles to get a glimpse of personality to see if we would mesh and like to see a selfie or 2 to confirm that your website photos are representative of your current appearance. And I get retweeting your friends visits or good selfies, but I find it frustrating scrolling through dozens of pictures of other women when all I want to see is you.
I know it's more work, but the best solution might be a separate public advertising account and private personal account.
I look at twitter profiles to get a glimpse of personality to see if we would mesh and like to see a selfie or 2 to confirm that your website photos are representative of your current appearance. And I get retweeting your friends visits or good selfies, but I find it frustrating scrolling through dozens of pictures of other women when all I want to see is you.
I know it's more work, but the best solution might be a separate public advertising account and private personal account.
Many do “retweet for retweet” for visibility.
I don’t like that, maybe it’s selfish but that’s my page so I’m only posting about myself. Unless my friend is in the photo it’s very rare I post/retweet other people on my Twitter. If I do, I’ll unretweet within a few days so that when people scroll it’s only me.
Damn, it really sounded self centred. Anyways hahaha
In my regular life I use twitter as a way to stay current on a myriad of topics I find interesting in one place. But in this world, I've never found twitter a great place to find new people. I'm only looking for 1 thing, so forums and advertising sites give me exactly what I need.
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